| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/11/2007 7:07:29 PM | | whats up guys, so i met a guy new years eve at a bar, took him back 2 a friends house where i was staying had a some drink bla bla ended up making out in the hall way... he says 2 me , i hope this isnt just a one night stand... was the ****er just tryin 2 get in my pants? orrrrrrrrrrr what? btw he did.. my mistake? | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/11/2007 7:11:59 PM | It's new years. So yes.
Halloween, St. Patricks day, Mardi Gras and Arbor day are all perfectly acceptable "get in her pants" days.
You call it a mistake. And you seem to be slandering this guy. You wanted it. You agreed. You know the risks. Doesn't sound like a mistake to me. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2007 7:15:35 PM | Yes. Your mistake? I dunno.. Did you have fun? If so, not a mistake, if no, mistake.
You get drunk, make out with a guy in a hallway all within hours of meeting him, well, chances are if it's alcohol-fueled and New Years, you started off with a bang.. But that's it.
Guys like to chase. As long as they're pretty sure they're going to catch. It's all about how long it takes. Too long, not worth it, not long enough, not worth it. 5 dates. It's a good number, let him KNOW you're interested at 3 dates.. Make him chase you for 2 more.
My opinion.
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/11/2007 7:23:29 PM | Of course I don't know the guy......but I'd bet that, YES....he was looking for
some ass......and he found it.....and now he's off somewhere telling his buddies
how easy you are and how well he played you. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2007 7:27:22 PM | he says 2 me , i hope this isnt just a one night stand.
btw he did.. my mistake?
So, you let him... was it a mistake? was it a one night stand? he was asking *you* if it was a one night stand, so was it?
If you didn't want to, you shouldn't/wouldn't have. But you did. So I dunno, the question falls on *you*, was it a mistake? And if so, well, we generally learn from our mistakes, so what, if anything, did you learn from it?
"Good choices come from wisdom. Wisdom comes from bad choices." | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/11/2007 7:44:33 PM |
took him back 2 a friends house where i was staying
Sounds like you were trying to get into his pants. Live and learn........ | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/11/2007 8:42:16 PM | Sounds like he was drunk.
I recommend waiting to have sex with a guy if you have a problem with one night stands. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/11/2007 9:17:46 PM | I know you're looking for a guy's opinion on this. but I've had many guys play the " I want a real relationship" card to get in my pants. & it has worked once. then when he got what he wanted....it was the backtrack "oh I don't think I'm ready for one"
so was it to get in your pants. YES. was it a mistake...all depends on how you feel afterwards. if you feel stupid, naive, taken advantage of...then yes it was a mistake. if you can just take it was it was...& said oh well you had fun...then no it's not a mistake. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2007 10:03:08 PM | Ash,
I think if you are asking this question 11 days later, I think it is safe to conclude that this was a one night stand. Whether or not it was alcohol induced or not, makes no excuse. We all have to take responsibility for what we do while drinking. If you can't take responsibilities for you actions then drink less next time. I think the question is, did the guy lie to you. I think it is a safe bet to say that yes he did lie, sorry but it seems to be the obvious conclusion. Whether or not the lie was said in a cloudy haze of alcohol he still wasn't honest with you.
A word of caution, anytime you sleep with someone within hours of meeting them, you run the high risk that it will be a ONS. Now can you honestly say you know someone well enough in that amount of time to say that you like/care for them on a deeper emotional level? Now combine that with alcohol, meeting them in a bar setting with even less ability to get to know the person and the risk is even higher.
Well my 2 cents worth.
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/11/2007 11:19:20 PM | You are cute, young, and easy. So naturally he wanted to get into your pants. And of course he lied to get into your pants. That is the approprate thing to do because (as I read on another thread) girls reward guys that lie by giving them sex and punish guys that tell the truth by denying them sex. People (and animals) do what they are rewarded for doing and avoid doing thing that result in punishment.
If girls really wanted guys to be truthful, they would reward them when they told the truth. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/12/2007 3:30:03 AM | | Seems he knew just where to look and exactly what it required for those jeans to hit the floor!! LOL | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/12/2007 4:13:44 AM | | if he said he wanted a relationship, maybe you should have made him wait. i know its not what most men want to say but women that lets us screw on the first date/meet are considered to be kinda slutty. we like that but we dont wanna marry that. just a thought. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/12/2007 5:07:27 AM |
back 2 a friends house where i was staying had a some drink bla bla ended up making out in the hall way
You were an equal and willing participant.
my mistake?
You were an equal and willing participant.
he says 2 me , i hope this isnt just a one night stand
Why don'tcha call him and find out? | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/12/2007 6:01:26 AM | Why is it that young girls pick up guys in a bar, take them home, have sex, then ask everyone in the world if they made a mistake ?
I'm wondering if he's wondering if he made a mistake ? | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/16/2007 7:05:34 AM | | well i seen him the weekend after at the bar... hung out a little bit.. i hung out with the crew i came with he was playin pool with his buddys and talking to another girl all night, after she left he came 2 me and said i was looking for you all night.. lol i laughed at him i guess the girl wouldnt put out as easily as i did... and i was his "second option of the night" i turned him down and continued out with my night without him .. we'll see what happens next time i guess | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 7:10:25 AM | | yeah it was pretty slutty on my behalf.... i dont useually bring guys back and sleep with them after the bars but it was new years eve.. drinks were goin down hard core... still had a fun time, buddy seems liek an ass now that i know him more... dont think im intrested 2 much more on furthuring a relationship with him | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 7:22:06 AM | ^ Hey, you're young, you were both single, it happened...
At better than twice your age, all I'll say is that life is a series of learning experiences, some more painful than others (and some good, I won't argue that). As long as you learned something from it, chock it up to just being an experience, and move on. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2007 8:57:28 AM | You said yes?
Then what's the problem?
If you were drunk and he forced himself on you or something, then sure, bad stuff.
But he asked, you gave it to him. While it might not be something I'd do, I can't see why this would make him the badguy. You shacked up with someone on New Year's. It's a wonderful night for one night stands from what I hear. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/16/2007 8:59:15 AM |
buddy seems liek an ass now that i know him more...
Why is this? His personality in general? Or just because you guys used each other?
dont think im intrested 2 much more on furthuring a relationship with him
It's okay, he probably wasn't interested in anything further with you either. You were there, you were easy, that's all he cared about. There are tons of guys like that out there. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 1/16/2007 9:07:41 AM | yeah he was drunk and was looking for someone to "ring in the new year with" that is it that is all
it happens...to both men and women...
it sucks but hey, as long as you were protected you will come out of this unscathed | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 6/30/2008 2:19:45 PM | so its been a year or so , you tell us was he.
p.s. i should remind you that i didnt even need to read your post to know the answer, the answer is always "yes" . That doesnt mean there aren't gentlemen out there , they are just gentlemen looking for some ass heh. You cant blame men for that , its built in to us , and you. That doesnt mean men need to be dorks about it but its always on the back ( at least ) of our mind. | |
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