| what women want ?
Posted: 1/12/2007 8:31:55 AM | ok the truth be honest .
why is it that women are not attracted to nice guys?
it has been brought to my attention that women complain about they cant find sweet decent guys...lol well no wonder you ladies go for the arrogant egotistical pompous whom has a cold heart over a big heart and then complain about it later. I myself am shy but I love martial arts and am a black belt in ufc style fighting, you know nice guys that are shy and reserved doesn’t mean they are wimps...lol you see you ladies don’t know what your missing also the better thing about nice guys are you still get somewhat the arrogance because of pride and most important you get the type of guy who is in touch with there emotional side and is not scared of showing affection.
so what do you people think about the old saying "nice guys finish last"? give honest opinions. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 8:54:26 AM | | "Nice Guys Finished Last"? They might be lucky if they ever finished!!!! I'm a nice guy. I've been told a billion times! And I'm tried of hearing it. I have a lot of nice guy friends. Who are single, never married, no kids, and have good jobs. Some have been single for more then 13 years and some have never had a girlfriend. (two guys I play hockey with) We barbeque, watch football, do yardwork, play some sports,etc. Women don't want that anymore. It's too boring. They want a guy that is exciting!!! A challenge!!! If I walk around with a wad of cash, or drive a sportscar, in a three piece suit. Hey I can have all the babes. Women relize they don't need a man around anymore for protection, love, or bringing home the bacon. They need some to entertain and excite them. Guys who also make women laugh are high on the scoring list. It doesn't matter that they are complete jerks and players they make life fun. And it doesn't matter where you get the wad of cash from. Selling drugs, selling stolen goods, prositution. You can be a chick magnet!!!! Heck every hip hop drug dealing punk has a haram of women. A guy I met last week has scored with 7 women in this city since he moved here the last week of November. He had a wad of cash and had spent $300 on booze for his buddies for the night, and he threw me a big tip. Wonder how he gets his money? | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 9:19:17 AM | hello,
I agree on many points , I think the worse things for nice guys are the women want give them enough time to feel comfortable to let it all hang out..lol hence most nice guys are shy and reserved ,that’s my worst problem but after a few hours with someone I start letting down that wall and they realize hey this guy is cool. DONT WORRY JUST DONT GIVE UP
keep your head up do the best you can : if ladies are just needing that cash and jerk stuff then hey ladies go for it ,don’t come winning when your older,droopy don’t have your body to flaunt and cant find someone because you wasted it on those jerk types that you are attracted to...lol whose laughing last..
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| what women want ?
Posted: 1/13/2007 9:38:49 PM | | I'm thinking there's alot of women that ask themself the same question..but only about men. Why don't men want the nice women? Works both ways. Seems as if you're not a size 8 or smaller you're passed right over. Men want the Barbie dolls...not the "real women" who are kind, sweet and passionate about things they truly care about. There are so many women who do not judge a man by what he drives or how much money he has. They are looking for kindness, respect and communication. The "one" who will be there when they just need held. The "one" who makes them feel safe. I'm not sure what age women you all are after...but there's a big difference between a girl and a woman. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2007 10:08:46 PM | To me it is that 'men' and 'women' of society are not making the conscious decision...who is good or bad. It is that we are being sucked in to striving for the image of a mate we think society is demanding of us....who it is that we be paired with.
In the earlier generations, relationships were out of convenience....or the mates selected were the only option in their circle of acquaintenances. Now it is unlimited...and do we really get to know anybody any more....prior to trying to jump into bed. That is what society, our culture, movies, news, etc. teach us. Hey, if it does not work out....there is someone else there tomorrow....or in the next night club....or next dating site.
How do you know who will make a commitment....a real one....no matter what. Our elected political officials lie daily, from both sides of the aisle, the real society mentors are the Hollywood stars....and how bogus is that? Youth have very few solid upstanding examples in which to pattern their lives. I think both sexes, want a committed partner, that will be with them through thick and thin....and each are willing to give 110%, not 50% each, to the marrige. And they had better have one goal, one objective where they both are willing to sacrifice for each other to acheive that end. Marriage(committed relationship) definitely requires more work than being single, but it is not near as tough. | |
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| what women want ?
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:11:24 PM | I think women constantly settle for guys that look good and have the money to treat them right. Then later on they experience the affairs, the physical and mental abuse, and so much garbage that these guys do to them. So instead of giving the nice, average or slightly above average looking guy a chance they automatically run like teenagers to the "hot" guys.
Just alst night on this site I tried chatting with a very attarctive blonde woman from NC and her response was...
"ummmmm thanks but ur not my type but we can be friends."
Okay I don't understand why she would type ummmm as part of a sentence LOL. I wasn't very nice back to her because I thought she was rude. Today I felt I was rude and tried to respond tonight but she either didn't want to open her IM box or was busy.
So many people from this site are just rude and even when they don't live but five or ten minutes away. They don't even respond!
Oh well I'm sure plenty of other people have experienced the same thing unless you're one of the "beautiful people" who are constantly getting messaged! | |
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Posted: 4/3/2007 3:55:14 PM | I agree with Dreamie....STOP GENERALIZING about women!!!..some men are just as "particular" as the women you are mentioning but you learn to pass these people by without a second thought and don't condemn the entire opposite sex for the actions of some. We are not all cut out of the same mold so try to look it it from another point of view.  | |
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Posted: 4/27/2007 1:40:42 PM | I THINK A PIX WOULD GET YOU A LOT OF RESPONCE, AS IT IS HARD TO MEET ANYONE AS IT IS.
WITH ALL YOU HEAR ABOUT THESE DAYS. MAYBE WE ARE LITTLE FOES WHO RUN WHEN SCARED. LOLO SASSY | |
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Posted: 4/27/2007 1:42:52 PM | WWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
SO SAD TO READ YOUR WRITING AS I THINK A LOT OF WOMEN ARE BETTER THAN THAT. WE ARE ALL LOOKING FOR LOVE, A COMPAION, LOVER OUR BEST FRIEND. THANK YOU SASSYKAY | |
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Posted: 4/27/2007 1:44:08 PM | | THAT WAS GREAT COULD NOT SAY IT BETTER MYSELF. SASSYKAY | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 6:23:14 AM | | Nice guys don't finish last...they are just not as easy to find. There is more bad in the world than good. | |
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Posted: 6/2/2007 2:18:37 PM | An honest impression... okay, strap in...
First, I can only base this on is your post.
No profile is available to view... not helpful.
Onwards...
When I hear guys ask this type of question, it comes across a bit like whinning.
I don't get the "nice guy" vibe from someone who's baying stereotypical rubbish.
(Sorry... remember, you did ask for opinons.
Please try to see where this is coming from & not take it as a personal attack.)
:)
Moving on...
no wonder you ladies go for the arrogant, egotistical, pompous(guys) who have a cold heart over a big heart, then complain about it later.
Who are you to assume this? You are only one person & you have not met all the women. Granted, there will always be loud voices in the crowd, crying out 'foul play'... but to make such a broad sweeping generalization is to only ensure that those of us who might have concidered you as a nice guy... will think twice, especially after having read this. A nice guy will let every person's true nature speak for it's self before they go judging the masses by the issues of a few. This kind of pidgeonholing is the product of too many guys(girls do it too) sitting around complaining about things that are out of thier control or understanding.
I don't know what kind of girls you've connected with, but if this is their common complaint, than perhaps it's a good time to examine who you associate with.
(granted, demographics may be against you & you'll just have to take the higher ground)
Please concider this...
You wont get anywhere hung up on the idea that women don' t like you because you're quiet or shy or sweet or not the right amount of arrogant.
It does pose the possibility that you have a slight issue with patience.
Ahhh yes, good old patience... it's a bit like quick sand.
The more you fight it, the more stuck you get.
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Posted: 6/15/2007 4:24:19 PM | | A nice guy is a nice guy whether anyone else wants him or not. I say if you get along and you have the same goals and similar beliefs, go for it. Age doesn't matter, looks don't matter, only the fact you two get along and to heck with what anybody else thinks. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2007 1:13:01 PM | | a person or rather personally I feel...that you have to be yourself no matter what. If a person or myself doesnt stay true to whom I am, in the long run, it wont work out anyhow. Sooner or later no matter whom I am trying to be ( if not myself ) im gonna show up. I would rather not get so involved in the beginning if its not gonna work later. Just makes good horse sense as they say !!!! | |
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Posted: 6/19/2007 7:44:13 AM | I wanna king size tub big enough for ten plus me!!!!!!
No seriously..I wanna just be happy...i want to love and be loved...i want someone who will make me the center of his universe because I will make him the center of mine... | |
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Posted: 6/22/2007 7:50:15 AM | what do women want?
They all want Marble. What a silly question!
Heeeeeeeeeeee! | |
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| what women want ?
Posted: 6/24/2007 6:42:14 PM | | I would say you are so right and i myself am guilty of this and end up with the wrong men. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 4:54:13 PM | Well if it is true that nice guys finish last then it must be true that nice girls finish last as well. I am looking for just one nice guy not all of them and i think it is a shame that some nice guys get hurt just like some nice girls do. For the rest of my life i would like to share it with a nice guy. If i ever find him. He does not have to be perfect just nice. and also be looking for a serious relationship. I wish we could all find and have someone that we really care for -a LASTING LOVE. We all have some kind of problems and i guess i will be by myself more then likely for the rest of my life. But i guess it is better then getting hurt. I need a supper nice -handy man who can enjoy the simple things in life and is will to give it a try. Oh well i can go it alone-----:  | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 2:50:19 PM | Well... they aren't interested in me,.. and I'm as bad as they come! Those preppie girls, only want to use me for my Bad-Boy" status.. they use and abuse me,..never seeing the caring, loyal individual underneath }}}sigh{{{ ok.... if I'm gonna cry, I have to get a beer... be back later. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 6:16:44 AM | I have heard that saying often, as well as women saying; 'All of the nice guys are taken.'
You tell me, how does a woman meet a nice guy? Believe it or not. we women get tired of the jerks who count the # of dates it will take, before they get us in bed, or are eyeing some other woman while they are with us. They are always out there marketing their bedroom eyes. The shy guys will flirt with you, and as we women are waiting for you to talk to us, ole bedroom eyes swoops in for the kill.
I think you shy guys need to start a thread, let us women see who you are. But we will also have to watch out for 'ole bedroom eyes', for they are always looking for 'an in' to get a potential victim. Or an even better idea, have an old fashioned POF picnic, only for shy guys. We women show up and everybody has a great time!!!!
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Posted: 1/1/2008 12:39:42 PM | What a woman wants! hmmmmmmm
Well this day and time, which things in life really hasn't changed all that much as far as when it comes to talking about what a woman wants. To me, and going by what I have seen, talked to, tried to date, most and I said most men are only looking and tryin to see how many woman they can get below thier belt. But me, being a woman I can tell you what I want>>>>>>>I don't care what a man has below his belt, what size he might be down there, men sometimes kill me with thier lines they give us woman, I had a man to tell me one time, you just have had all little di*ks and dont know what to do with a big one.......... I am only concerned with what he has to offer above his belt, his heart, mind and soul, to me and to only me. I could care less what he has below his belt, I want a man that has a slow hand, the most important thing to me would be how he treats me, how he shows me respect, shows me he loves me, shows me how he's going to do little things for me to let me know that I'm special to him, walk beside me not behind me, but side by side holding hands, show me he wants to be with me and only me and doesnt' need anyone other than me, and if a man showed me all those things instead of being concerned of only below his belt, Then he'd be a lucky man, because I would do all the things that a man should do for a woman, I would do the same in return!
I feel sorry for those good ole guys out there, because you have to understand us woman first. You have to remember, we have been abused so much by those men that are only concerned with how many woman they can get below thier belt and then move on to the next one, or lie about if they are married or not, and so on.
What we woman want is: to be treated with respect, prove how you will treat us, prove to us that you have something besides whats below your belt. We woman are looking above your belt not below it, we are looking at your heart, soul and mind and how you are going to use your heart. Prove to us and mean it, that we are special to you, make us feel wanted and needed by little things you can do for us, like a little note left for us to find, saying, will miss you today, have a good day, lets go out to dinner tonight after work, ect.>>>>>>>>>not I'll meet you in the bedroom at 9pm!
If you men would use your head on your shoulders instead of thinking the only head you have is below your belt, then just maybe you might be able to find that true love that you are really missing and don't even realize it. A man should want the same thing as a woman wants and that is to find true love between one woman and one man!
I better stop speaking my mind, my opinion! However, that is the way I see it! | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 6:55:45 AM | Perhaps women equate the trait of shyness in men with other traits. Men that are prone to kill with chainsaws for instance? Such generalizations are just that and stating a guy is nice is hardly a reason to generalize that he is a great companion for life. | |
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Posted: 1/8/2008 8:20:18 AM | | I agree with your logic, Lisa. Men would be a lot better off in the 'world of women', if they learned to think with their 'logical' brain, instead of their 'pee' brain. lol | |
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Posted: 1/8/2008 8:52:26 AM | | I couldn't agree more with lovin angel myself. She said it beter than anyone else ever has. Keep speaking your mind. | |
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