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 fubgirl77

Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 1
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/7/2005 10:08:41 PM
Why do guys always tell a girl that they will call them forsure and then we never hear from them again . dont they know what that can do to a girls heart. It is very dissappointing to a girl who gets thier hopes up. So guys please dont say your going to call if you dont intend to.
 Northern Lights

Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 2
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/7/2005 10:28:45 PM
Thats because most men are pigs and/or players....They turn on the charm in hopes of getting something, when they dont get it, they get all pissy...

Thats been my experience anyways....

Men who do this aren't worth your time sweetie!
 teamgreen

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 3
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/8/2005 7:02:18 AM
"Northern Lights" do you hate men, you know in your profile you say "seeking men" but i've at the momemt read two of your post and all you wrote seemed directed toward trashing men. Why are you so angry? do you need a hug? nothing pisses me off more then hearing a girl(thats right a "girl" you don't seem mature enough to be called a woman!) who BLAMES THE WHOLE MALE GENDER on her few bad dates or experiences, and so due to your b****ing you come off sounding A. not very smart B. not very attractive!.

good luck with your search, i think your going to need it!

love always teamgreen

p.s don't bother writting back and explaining yourself, my mind is already made up of what kind of person you are

p.ss and if you feel the urge to insult me.... well i'm always in for a good laugh
 ab04watchgirl

Joined: 1/15/2005
Msg: 4
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/8/2005 5:51:30 PM
Yep...^^^ what he said everyone i know has done it ...males and females ...that also includes myself ....
I'am guilty of doing it ....telling someone I 'd phone any never did or forgot too....It was quick out for me ....so I choose it instead of long drawn out explanation....which would have been better but I didn't feel obligated to that with those persons...


At any rate lets keep it real applys too both sexes not just male thing
 kalm1

Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 5
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/8/2005 10:18:47 PM
I agree, I have been told that "i'll call you" and never hear from them again, I have also been told "yeah let's do that" (i.e. coffee) and then never see or hear from them again, That's not to say I am a saint, but watchgirl is right it does go both ways.
 Cawdor32

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 6
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/8/2005 10:19:20 PM
To defend guys:

Not all of us are bad or not live up to their promise.

And to be fair, women are equally irresponsible and uncapable of meeting their promises.

Disappointing I know ladies, it sucks to make plans, have expectations and then they get shot down cause of the lack of a woman calling back.

UGH!!!!!

Happy spring weather!

Jeffery
 mehh87

Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 7
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/9/2005 12:04:53 PM
phones are for ordering pizzas and cabs

nothing else
 DriftingLotus

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 8
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/9/2005 7:50:05 PM
Sounds like you should stop getting your hopes up.
If you always assume the worst you won't be dissapointed.
 S.D. Jr

Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 9
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/10/2005 12:13:14 AM
I always call when i say i cal just no one answers or replies to thier messages.
 CalgaryMan

Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 10
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/10/2005 5:59:33 PM
You know I agree that alo0t of men are not honest,but dont paint us all with the same brush,I was married and my ex abused my two daughters,which I had to raise as a single father so not all woemn are the saints some of you are trying you make them out to be,there are good and bad in both genders,and ALL MEN ARE NOT PIGS,
 fubgirl77

Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 11
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/10/2005 11:31:53 PM
no there not there for calling your loved ones and friends.
 fubgirl77

Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 12
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/10/2005 11:32:56 PM
sorry i meant to say some guys, and i know girls do it too. Sorry if i affended anyone.
 teflion

Joined: 6/20/2004
Msg: 13
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/12/2005 6:15:46 PM
whats your number I'll call you right now
 Just_Relaxin

Joined: 12/30/2004
Msg: 14
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/13/2005 8:19:46 AM
well I can't speak for anyone but myself but if I say I am going to call I do, if fact if I say I am going to do anything I do it.

 DriftingLotus

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 15
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/13/2005 9:28:15 AM
haha
 naveed666

Joined: 4/14/2005
Msg: 16
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/16/2005 12:10:10 AM
I have always called when i said i would! but i hate the phone! I agree with whomever said the phone is for ordering pizza and cabs. A quick hello where do you want to meet and then goodbye is more than enough for me! Hell lets meet up and talk for two hours for all i care but not on the phone! If you never wanted to talk to someone again it would be pretty damn convienant though! I think an even bigger misuse of the phone is the over-the-phone breakup, i am sure we have all been a victim of that one!
 Rhydderch

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 17
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/16/2005 12:25:07 PM
The following is a list of reasons I haven't called a girl when I said I would

1. I forgot - it happens, so now I prefer to communicate by email
2. I feel asleep
3. I lost/had my cell "borrowed" by someone crazy - its my only phone (thankfully I don't program numbers into it)
4. I got conned into going for one drink. One leads to two, two leads to three and somehow I wake up on my back porch

I could continue, but I think my point is clear

ps I think the phone break up is great. No weird momments after, don't have to dodge any phones, don't have to deal with any evil looks from people who are wondering what you did to make that person cry.
 lovegun

Joined: 10/1/2003
Msg: 18
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/18/2005 5:13:40 AM
Some men are pigs yes, but not all of us.. can say the same for some women.. I think this question and answer can go both ways ..

Happy fishing people :)
 i_am_nad

Joined: 7/18/2004
Msg: 19
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 4/27/2005 12:38:02 AM
what would rather us say? that sucked and you will never hear from me again! and why should we always have to call? what is wrong with you calling me?
 lil_firegirl_ca

Joined: 4/27/2005
Msg: 20
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/13/2005 11:21:49 PM
I agree, naveed666 that the over-the-phone break up is pretty darn bad, but my most recent break up was worse.... the left-a-message-on-voicemail break up. Would you believe he was 36?!?! Very mature, don't you agree?
 ljc235

Joined: 9/2/2004
Msg: 21
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/15/2005 2:51:18 AM
well men not only are pigs but woman do also , thats the way it is ,,,, yes it rude to say you will call , and never do , but if there was an attraction , then the i will call is a way oput , woman and men both use it ,,,,,,,,, move to calgary
 searchingforu

Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 22
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/20/2005 12:18:31 PM
Hello fubgirl

Men don't call because either they got to busy with work, or other things. Also sometimes it is just a man thing. It is just a waiting game to see if you really like us or not. So what is up with woman that we send messages back and don't reply either? Or we call and they don't return our calls either.
It could be said the same way either or.

Don't you think that we get our hopes up to and that when you say you will meet us and don't show up or don't call either.

I usually don't live my life by the phone, if i am home and not busy i will answer, but if i am busy or made other plans the i won't answer either. Also when people call and i don't answer my voice mail kicks in and you don't leave a message i won't return your call either. there is a saying if it is important enough they will call back, if they don't call back then it wasn't important.

 _Shelley_

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 23
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/24/2005 10:06:12 AM
Some of us women are just as bad as men when it comes to this kind of thing!

Once a person gets what they want, and there is no reason to call again, they won't.

People will say almost anything to get what they want.. but we all know that.



~Shells
 maximus_radius

Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 24
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/24/2005 7:14:33 PM
Happens to everyone, guy or girl not to call when he or she said they would.......Oh and by the way sometimes it is better to lie to a girl and tell her you will call back cause....SOME WOMEN DO NOT LIKE BLUNT HONESTY, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU TELL THEM THAT NO YOU ARE NOT GOING TO CALL HER BACK..... .....

Sorry being honest is not always the best thing even if you are trying to say it nicely.....
 _Shelley_

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 25
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/24/2005 10:55:41 PM
Aww Maximus Radius

Why is it better to sugar coat than be blunt? I am curious hon, I have never understood that..



~Shells
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