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Posted: 4/8/2005 10:08:42 AM | "Squirrelz just wanna have fun...."
Awright gang...squirrel here, and I'm bein' serious today. I need help & advice...okay ? I gotta another profile on here that's not doin' so good....been up two (2) months, and no hits, yet, even though a female pen pal told me it was "hot." Sorry to reveal my nasty, little secret but here goes...the other ad is titled: Sub Dude
What's wrong & why am I gettin' no action ? Gotta very similar profile on another site...same deal...nothin' happ'nin' at all. (1) Is somethin' wrong with the ad itself ? (2) Is it my age...am I too old to get in the game ? I really don't unnerstand....been on six or seven sites, in the last five months, and nothin's happ'nin with any ads....nada, zero, zippo ! Got a few pen pals, but that's it.
Just be completely honest, please...I'll try to take it like a squirrel. Thanks gang...see ya later...this squirrel's gotta run ! | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 10:10:18 AM | maybe because you should be on a squirrel forum, plenty of squirrels
We're fish here. gotta swim away....bloob bloob
sorry you had that one comin lol | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 10:26:14 AM | | Another thought...the statement "I want to have my mind blown"...I understand where you are coming from, but as a Dom it is a turn off hearding a sub demand that, which indicates to me you will require LOTS of training in order to get to the level of pleasing ME, which is the way it SHOULD be. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 10:26:39 AM | and sub refers to below.....as in sub-standard.
and you know what they say about submarines.....100 men go down and 50 couples come up! | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 10:30:06 AM | ok del
first I would have to say many of the fellow kinksters on POF were closeted untill a few months ago we had a subversive vive le kink thread going in which a few of the PoF kinkmeisters elite were writing fairly good fantasies on which ever level was comfy for the poster whip and i were the fairly hard core BDSM and femmedome femme sub contributors.And it opened a lot of people up to the idea that we were already fairly established in the pond were nice people yet very kinky.I had a profile on another purly sexual meeting site a lot like yours and even though there were women on there looking to play a domme role I got NO responses other than the regular site generated these single want to meet you NOW e-mails .Perhaps your profile is to exact in what you want to direct and people think that is scary .Personaly I think PoF is a pretty tame site comparitivly in what the general populace is seeking .Do you post pics in the profiles ? they do help also perhapsan online msn group or other group may be a better place to start ? if you are just getting in to it realise that it takes trust and confidence in your partner to be tied /tie someone up maybe you are comming on to strong for the fish in your area or maybe just to fast ?.
good luck and lots of juicy moments in your future .
Cos. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:01:24 AM | "Squirrelz just wanna have fun...."
Okay gang...thanks so far ! Got a problem with posting the photo. None of my "real life" friends know this side of me....when I discovered this 45 years ago, ya didn't talk about such things. As bad luck would have it, a "real life" buddy just got on here this week. I'd be embarrassed to death, for him to find out....gotta think this one through some more. But thanks to all (most sincerely !) for your time and thoughtfulness. I'm just tryin' to get in the game before the final gun goes off or I'm forced to retire to make room for some younger rookie. Thanks again ! | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:07:07 AM | I read the ad and although you say you're a sub, it seems to me in bdsm terms that you are trying to top from the bottom.
Which for anyone who doesn't know means that you are attempting to take control of the Domme by telling her what you want and therefore not truly submitting.
Try placing the same ad on a site specifically for BDSM enthusiasts like bondage.com (sorry dunno if I'm allowed to put other site names on but if not I apologise)
Although admittedly there are a load of sub guys looking for Domme women out there. Good luck | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:08:15 AM | Lol cosmo........I know.....but submarine was funnier!
I just don't do sub. I'm the ringleader. lol
On topic: maybe offer a 2for1 special. Any takers on sub dude gets a free squirrel! | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:11:39 AM | Hey everyone 
I saw a call to action from kinksters but it looks like Brawny, Cosmo, and ltlwhip beat me to it.
Yep, just listen to their advice, they got it covered  | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:22:15 AM | Yo solstice74
Thanks for your comment. I've read a couple of books, and many articles on D / S, so I was aware of the "topping from the bottom" concept and maybe I'm guilty of that. On the other hand, as a newbie, with no actual "real life" experience, I don't want to fall into the clutches of a really hardcore S & M type who'd make my Big Dream a nightmare. Do you suggest an ad with more general, and less specific wording ? Thanks again ! | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:27:35 AM | | Yo brawny33810..."Sub Dude" was supposed to be a wordplay on "subdued,"...guess it didn't work out...looks like I gotta lotta work to do, to reshape this sucker...thanks ! | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:31:05 AM | | Yo cosmo...thanks for your input ; yea...started realizing this side of me when a I was only 13 or 14...still waiting for my first experience, though. Maybe I'm pressin' too hard, 'cause I'm aware that the clock is ticking very, very fast. Thanks for the "good luck"...looks like I'm gonna need it ! | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:33:10 AM |
Thanks for your comment. I've read a couple of books, and many articles on D / S, so I was aware of the "topping from the bottom" concept and maybe I'm guilty of that. On the other hand, as a newbie, with no actual "real life" experience, I don't want to fall into the clutches of a really hardcore S & M type who'd make my Big Dream a nightmare. Do you suggest an ad with more general, and less specific wording ? Thanks again !
Hi and you're welcome. Personally I like an ad to be rather specific but not overly if you know what I mean. It's easier for me to chat to people who have a good idea of what they are looking for but as a Domme I still expect a sub to remain polite and respectful too. Of course there has to be an agreement on boundaries etc and play should always be safe, sane and consentual.
D?s has so many variations and different parts to it. If you're interested in taking your experience to a real life thing and want a gentle intro to the BDSM scene then I'd say have a look on the net and see if there is a group locally to you that holds a munch or social event where you can go along, make some friends and chat to like minded people in a no pressure environment.
If it's not a real life encounter but more of an online D/s relationship you are looking for then I'd still say join a site that is more specificaly aimed at the scene. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:39:52 AM | | Yo solstice74...many thanks for the add'l input ; I'm definitely lookin' for the "real life" experience...just hope it won't be a disappointment. If it turns out to be a bummer, not much else to look forward to til they shovel the dirt over me, or incinerate me. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:41:28 AM | Just as a life observation...if you are "running outa time"....why be apprehensive about it??
j/k....trust and communication ARE key.... | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 11:42:28 AM | Glad I could be of some help
They don't call me a kinky bint for nothing lol
BDSM is just one of my hobbies and there is so much variation on the scene that I'm constantly learning | |
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