| | why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?Page 1 of 13 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13) | im a 20 yr old female, and i have noticed that guys would rather date the thin brianless girls with no personality, rather than having an average girl like me with good looks, GREAT personality, can hold a intelligent conversation. why are men like this? | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/17/2007 8:39:09 AM | I'm not.
Well I have to add some more words so in general I think men who go for ditsy girls are either shallow or have a lack of personal confidence themselves. I tend to get the ditsy type hitting on me from time to time and I can ignore them with the best of them. It's such a turnoff for me. I like character, intelligence, and personality. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 8:39:51 AM | First off, you gotta meet every guy before comming to that conclusion, im telling ya there are nice guys out there who will give you the chance,..they are everywhe........
damn i would continue my post, but i gotta cut it short i just recieved an IM from this thin ditsy girl.... | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 8:40:20 AM | Thin, yes.
Ditzy, not so much. But, usually the type to say this tend to be overbearing, rude, and a few other words. They want to "challenge" you with their winning personality. Screw that. Just what I've noticed. And I'd MUCH MUCH rather have someone who's as dumb as a brick, than have someone who's not nice to me. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 8:50:31 AM | OP, you've done a fine job of cancelling the point you tried to make
by labelling and catagorizing entire groups of people.
Thin does not equate stupid, nor does "average" equate nomination
to mensa.
Personality, intelligence, and the ability to converse, comes in
all shapes and sizes. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 8:54:57 AM | | Sable lass, you are very mistaken many guys would rather date a girl like you. However it may be the kind of men you are looking to want to date are only looking for thin brainless girls. You may find that who you are looking at and who is looking at you may be very different. Open your eyes and you may find a world of choices before you. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 8:56:41 AM | Uh, care to rephrase that, sable? I don't go for that type---in fact, to bad you're not about 12 years older...
But, what ubkobalt says does apply, you strike me (from your post) as the type that tries too hard to impress a guy with your winning personality. It comes across as a challenge, not impressive. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:04:15 AM | Lumping people into categories based on their body types isn't exactly "intelligent conversation." Just because someone is thin, doesn't equate into brainless.
And honestly, having someone tout themselves as being "all that", is more of a turnoff than a girl that is thin and supposedly brainless, yet maybe not so self-absorbed. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:05:41 AM | Hi Sable,
Sounds like you're painting all men with the same brush and having yourself a bit of a "pity" party. If what you are saying is true then every intelligent woman with a great personality would be living alone... What it sounds like to me is that the guys you're interested in aren't interested in you.
We don't always get our own way in life.....
I think you need to take an honest an objective look at what you're looking for in someone and if these guys that aren't "digging you" are the type you would want to be with anyway. They could be very well be, but if they're not "feeling it" you need to be accepting and move on.
Sometimes our egos get in the way of being "real" with our self.
Go back to square one and ask yourself "what am I really looking for in someone and if it's realistic. Would these interests, qualities and characteristics be a good fit with me and my personality or do they just sound nice"?
This will help you be a little more introrespective with yourself and give you a better understanding of what you're looking for in a guy and what you really value in someone. I think by doing this it will stop you from thinking in "generalities" and help you focus on the "real" issues.
Good luck! | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/17/2007 9:08:44 AM | Sable19
For the same reason many (not all) girls go for the jock/ guy in a uniform/ hunk/ pretty boy with no thought about what may or may not be going on between their ears. People of both genders in such cases are 'thinking' with their gonads/ovaries - i.e. not thinking, just following their instincts, their gut, their feelings - however they rationalize it, after the fact. This behaviour is more prevelent in (though not exclusive to) the young.
And Sable, don't tell me you've never looked at some dreamy guy and wanted to date him, regardless of his IQ or lack of it.
As usual, generalizing is easy, and thinking, it seems, is less so. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:21:01 AM | If they are aware of the fact that the girl is thin AND ditzy, chances are that they are looking for an easy lay. Guys want their minds stimulated as well. Like it's been said before, what you look like physically does not determine your personality.
Why don't you take this into consideration. These thin girls that you apparently loathe...how many boyfriends have they cycled through? Why do you think that is? | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:25:40 AM | Sweet mother of God... cute guy in a cowboy hat.. can't remember the reason for this thread.. but... mmmmmmmm....
Ok.. OT.. I think.. some guys are all about the easy conquest. Some guys like to persue women who aren't going to just roll over and give it up. It's frustrating as all hell when a guy you like, is everything you are looking for goes for someone who isn't you.. his loss.. and if he's smart enough, eventually he'll figure it out that he's lost a really great girl. If he's lucky you'll still be available and interested in being with him once he figures it out. Otherwise.. try to let it roll off your back... | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:28:53 AM | 1) "brainless". "ditzy".
2) We don't immediately see a thin, brainless girl and go "wow, gotta have that, I likes me the morons!". We see a thin, attractive girl, say "wow, gotta get to know that", find out she's an idiot, and then either a) stay with her until something better comes along, because some affection from a pretty girl is better than no affection at all, or b) dump her.
3) maybe the guy wants a brainless girl because the guy himself is brainless. water seeks its own level, and do you really want a guy who can't handle a woman with intelligence?
That said, if you're so amazing and you're having a hard time meeting men, maybe you need to look at yourself and see what you're doing wrong. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:32:12 AM | First off, how you perceive yourself and how you actually are can be two completely different things. So maybe you should start to take a long, hard look at yourself and see if the guys are the actual problem here.
I know it's so easy to blame paris hilton and britney spears for everything wrong that's ever happened to you, but it's just not reality. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:37:41 AM |
I know it's so easy to blame paris hilton and britney spears for everything wrong that's ever happened to you, but it's just not reality.
Not only that, but I don't think I've ever met a guy that thought Paris Hilton was attractive. She's bone-thin, has a face like a man, and the IQ of a potted plant. A dumb potted plant. Any guy I know that'd touch her with a ten foot pole would be doing it for her bank account, not her looks.
It's the freakin' media that's decided "Paris Hilton is HAWT" and keeps shoving her face at us - and that's mostly because she's an attention whore who's famous for being famous. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 11:52:50 AM | Rule #1: Do not generalize all men as the same.
I can't stand the ditzy girls.
The woman I love has to have a good head on her shoulders. A warm heart in her chest.
She has to be intelligent, caring, compassionate, understanding, witty...
Looks mean little. And as for those "airheads"... I don't think so... | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/17/2007 12:25:03 PM | The less brains they have...the easier it is to f**k them out...
Sad but True...
Not all men are like this, but more than enough to give the rest a bad reputation... | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/17/2007 12:39:31 PM | OP:
Question:
why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Answer:
- 'Cause the fat angry ones don't have much to recommend them?
- 'Cause average girls that feel underapreciated will always want something extra?
- 'Cause they like thin, and will take them in whatever size?
- 'Cause they like ditzy, and will take them in whatever size?
- 'Cause ditzy ones are less likely to be good at lying or manipulation?
Just a few thoughts. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 2:32:17 PM | Sable I think the ones that do chose the trophy over intelligence, dont really want commitment and the responsability of a real relationship, and with the girls they choose they dont have to give up their teenaged years they can party, cheat and lie and do as they wish and get away with it. Once you get together with a real woman she knock a BOY like that dead in their tracks if they try and mess around. I however do know some pretty intelligent thin chicks and some bigger girls that are dumb as shit!
Holy crap no1 I just noticed the cowboy hat! Meow! | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 2:40:51 PM | First of all, ditzy girls come in ALL shapes and sizes. Same with smart girls.
Perhaps you need to find different men. I've known lots of guys who would never date an airhead. Some might sleep with them, but that's it. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 2:43:46 PM | Bimbo's need love too!
And if weight had any correlation to brains,
Why do so many heavy people not have the brains
to watch their diet? | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 2:44:21 PM | I don't know why I like thin girls. I just do.
I also don't put a great premium on intelligence in a partner. Once again, I can't really explain why--I am quite intelligent myself. I guess I just think other character qualities are more important in a partner. Like kindness, honesty, generosity and humility.
If it makes you feel any better, I would rather have chunky, brainy girls as study partners! | |
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