| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/23/2007 9:53:05 AM | What makes men go gaga for certain women, and women go gaga for certian men? What is it about the opposite sex that make us spontaneously lose our cool?
When it comes to the opposite Sex, we can become confused and easily disoriented. Think of all those male cartoon characters you've seen whose eyes bug out of their heads and tongues loll out to the ground when a sexy girl walks by. That's not all that far from the reality.
There are certain things about the opposite sex that will prove to be such a turn-on that they instantly throw you off. As much as we do appreciate these moments, it's a good thing to be aware of such weapons, so you can have a shot at mustering some degree of coherence when you encounter them.
What is it about the opposite sex that will instantly just turn you on?
To answer this myself.... lol ..
A man with a deep sexy voice will turn my heard in a heartbeat (Josh Turner ~ OMGosh what a voice), not to mention...big beautiful eyes and a smile to match...... hmmm nice fit in tight jeans isn't bad for the eyesight either...
I'll keep thinking and get back to you on some more..... but tell me what you think?  | |
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/23/2007 10:37:21 AM | Instant turn ons you say......
First off a fantastic smile with of course nice teeth.....
next a taller man then myself ( so over 6 feet )
not overly skinny nor overly big kinda smack dab in the middle
and smell to me is a huge turn on.....whether it be a great cologne or this is really weird but the smell of sawdust or a shop type smell does it for me.......
and the biggest turn on is a man who has eyes for only me and treats me like his equal as well as seeing the person I am on the inside not just judging by what he sees on the outside.... | |
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/23/2007 10:45:24 AM | OOOOh I LOVE this post!!!!
1st: Gotta smell good...
2nd: Gotta be clean cut...and clean....
3rd: Gotta be polite...May I sit down works every time!
4th: Gotta have nice teeth...and smile
5th: Dang it girl... a nice deep sexy voice get's me every time!!
6th: And then the butt in the jeans....
And if ya got all this...then the rest is GRAVY!!!! LOL | |
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/23/2007 10:50:59 AM | The ultimate instant turn-on?
HEIGHT!!! Even on this site, when I look at a profile, I look directly at how tall they are. I'm 5'10, so it's really important! | |
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Posted: 1/23/2007 10:54:35 AM | Wow Kyn...good post!
I know from my experience....I see something different in every guy
that I have ever dated. It can be as strange as sexy forearms...LOL
But...what catches my eye the MOST..is eyes...if they have sexy eyes
(my defintion: eyes that are deep but yet bright and you can just see
that their soul is speaking to you)....of course "eye contact" is VERY
important. I do like my men to be trustworthy and show it with their "actions".
And if they are trustworthy and still don't look in my eyes...well, they
are way too shy for me.
Once they have captivated me with their eyes...I go to the mouth...nice teeth
are well.......i wouldn't say a "turn-on"...but important (after all I am
going to be the one to look at them.... the most...I hope...LOL)
And the voice.....oh yeah...nothing better than a deep sexy voice to
wake you in the morning while nibblen' on your neck...or the "Phone calls"....
call the voice mail just to hear the "voice"....ummm.
Wow ...I better STOP!......it's getten hot n here..... 
Anyway....I must say there are many for me...
But I'll let the rest of ya have a turn......
Ohhhhh.....but don't forget the "scent of a man" is yummy too....
I actually wrote a poem about that one....LOL
Much Love
J
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/23/2007 2:45:04 PM | | He looks at me when he is talking to me, is interested in what I have to say, is positive, (I have had more than my share of dates where the men seem to want to tell me what is wrong with me), talks and listens, has varied interests, and smiles and laughs easily. Appearance is not a big deal to me as far as making or breaking it, but if he has blue eyes and wears a blue or aqua colored shirt and a pair of nice fitting jeans, he gets extra points. | |
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/23/2007 6:14:34 PM | | a huge smile,,,,,,,,eye contact.......sweet romance..........a wonderful sense of humor......genuine interest and kindness.........with a little sexy on the side | |
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/23/2007 8:12:53 PM | I think for me it is a smile, just the sexy smile that tells you he is up to no good , and fixxing to be up to even worse. Something about it makes me just swoon. I love a guy with a deep voice and a nice butt, but ya know it's all looks, and honestly if it's not a smile , it's the way he carries himself. Personality to , if the guy thinks he is just all that and is stuck up , he can keep walking. I have a close friend, that writes stories , the second I read them I am drooling, it's not just what the stories imply, it's the fact that in all of them they guy gives undivided attention that the woman.
The other thing (a little more towards dating) but if a guy bites me somewhere , I am instantly lost. I had a ex that used to sneak up behind me and do that. Weird I know.
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Posted: 1/24/2007 1:20:54 AM | Her Voice ,the look (you ladies know the one I'm talking about),and caressing touch.
Is all it takes to turn this little monkey into KING KONG!
One Tarzan Yell Coming UP! Cough! Cough!
Good Grief!
Great Thread "kyn 269"!
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/24/2007 2:57:28 AM | For me there are a couple of superficial external things that are turn ons....they've been mentioned, but what truly rocks my world is an attitude.
It is a way a man carries himself, looks at me, talks to me. It screams confidence without a trace of aggression.
a beautiful face
WITHOUT make up
Oh, and I do prefer them not to wear more make-up than me........ 
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/24/2007 4:20:28 AM | Kyn, great thread....for me I would have to say that the main characteristic about a man that makes me weak in the knees is the way he presents himself. Real self confidence, without being****. A man that knows who he is and where he is going and doesn't follow the crowd. One that will not doubt himself because of an other's opinion but is also willing to listen to their opinion with an open mind. To me that is called sex appeal.......ohhh baby, LOL
On the superficial side, which we all have, haha
1) Eyes that have a sparkle from the soul (first thing I notice)
2) Nice smile with good teeth
3) Tall men (at least 6')
4) Deep voice,, yea buddy, HAHA (shivers)
Kyn, you really knew what you were doing when you started this thread, LOL.........now where did I put BOB, (wheeeew)
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Posted: 1/24/2007 4:27:03 AM | What is a turn on to me...... Hmmm....... This should be easy...........
What turns me on mostly about women. Being sexy is the answer. Define sexy however. Once I figure it out I'm going to write a 3 step program and get rich!
A woman who doesn't think she's better than anyone else but at the same time a step ahead of the rest of the class! A woman who is not only attractive outside, but has a heart that shines and shows more beauty than one man can handle, all the while she knows she a one mans woman.
A lady in public, that makes every man wish she'd be a whore in bed with them.......
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Posted: 1/24/2007 7:05:57 AM | | Initially it is the mysterious unknown about her that attracts....obviously the visual, after all I am male. But when together for the first time...her surprising first touch on my arm, or thigh, not the one that lingers....but as she makes a point in conversation and the touch enhances her emphasis. And during our first dance, I strive to be the perfect gentleman.... she subtly becomes a little risque’....awesome....don't tell anyone but she can then ask for the moon.... | |
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Posted: 1/24/2007 7:10:39 AM | Golly Gee Coach!!!! That was funny as all get out!!!! You guys remember the post I did about that Charlie Pride song?? "Kiss an angel in the morning...." OOOOOhhhh I love it!!!
This going to sound so freakin self detrimental....but all guys SAY they want a good looking classy well behaved lady to be with....but when she IS a whore in "their" bedroom...he freaks out!!!
I can honestly say I want to be ONE MAN's lady love....but I have to find one who is really self confident enough to deal with the repercussions!! The guys I have had relationships with...have some insane ideas that just because you did this or that in the bedroom...it gives them the right to treat you like a whore the next day...NOT SO!!
A guy friend of mine calls this "grown up sex"....and my question to you, coach is....
do men really want and desire "grown up sex", or do they just say that?
By the way, Kyn, this is an AWESOME thread!!! Kudos to you!!!
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/24/2007 7:22:03 AM | | most of the time, if you are a woman with the right heart and the right smile you dont have to ask for the moon.........the moon just comes to you....... | |
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Posted: 1/24/2007 7:26:14 AM | The guys I have had relationships with...have some insane ideas that just because you did this or that in the bedroom...it gives them the right to treat you like a whore the next day...NOT SO!!
I said a lady in public, a whore in the bedroom. Call it what you will. What this statement refers to is have a total desire for the person she is with! When I speak of lady in public that makes all men want her to be a whore in their bedroom. I want her to be herself and sexy, to the point it makes every guy have desire. (Every guy that looks at her!)
A guy friend of mine calls this "grown up sex"....and my question to you, coach is....
do men really want and desire "grown up sex", or do they just say that?
AS for every man I can't speak. I think each man would have to answer his own account in that. From my standpoint, the sexiest women I ever dated was one of those type. Very lady like, very charming, but when we were alone it was obvious to see, her desire was all about me. Likewise mine about her, but I never treated her like a whore even when in the bedroom. (She was the focus of my attention, and every thread of my being wanted to be joined with hers.) A true whore to me would be one who just sleeps around to be doing it. One who doesn't care for themselves or the partners they are with. A whore in my bedroom, now thats a lady I respect, and if she got that far it wasn't based on the fact that she slept with a lot of guys, but it is related to the fact that she damn sure tore me up! Now hold up let me make this clear as well. Men get called studs when they sleep around. Women are called a not so nice term used above. I want it to be clear there is nothing wrong with a woman who enjoys sex. Not every person who just enjoys sex is a stud, or a whore.
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Posted: 1/24/2007 8:18:06 AM | Hmmmm....I think I wanted you to clarify what you said, but...Some just have, let's call it "sex appeal"...you know the ones...they have fire in their eyes, and have an underlying sensual quality about them...right?? It's almost like you can see the passion in their eyes, and the way they carry themselves...But it's all in the way they handle themselves...do they act appropiately...and have class. I am a firm believer that a woman can be bowled over with passion, and still be a lady...
Some men...see that passion and sensuality as an invitation to act inappropiately outside the bedroom. Just b/c a woman is passionate and seductive in the bed with you, and only has eyes for you...shouldn't more men be appreciative?? I mean...where are the men who have a grasp on this??? And why are you the only man who has addressed this??
And you are absolutely RIGHT on all counts of your last statement! There is nothing WRONG with a woman that has a healthy sexual appetite and desires!!
I, speaking from personal experience, have had 2 relationships in 20 years...so obviously I don't sleep around...but when I am with someone, I have to have the freedom to explore...maybe that is not the right word...the freedom to experience everything that person has to offer...and the liberty to be "free" to show my passion and sensuality...with that person...without repercussions....
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Posted: 1/24/2007 2:07:49 PM | "~sea~" Does that" Battery Operated Boyfreind"
1) Put a sparkle in your eye?
2) Make you smile?
3) Is he tall? LOL!
4) Make you squeel in a high voice?
If you"ve said YES to all the above...
You may already have it made!
Good Grief! us men are going to be extinct you keep recharging that thing!
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/24/2007 3:16:36 PM | First Up, Thank you all... I am glad to see that everyone is enjoying the thread......
As I said in the OP, I would come back and add some more to my comments... just wanted to really give everybody an idea to start with... Some of you I see, knew exactly what to do...lol
In addition to my OP, things such as Smile, Eyes, Deep Sexy voice.....
The way he carries himself is a biggie, Clean cut and Not all ruff and tumble but just enough to make you wonder...lol
OMGoodness and how could I ever forget the way he smells... not too much, but just enough you can melt in it..........mmmmmmmmm
Although I have dated guys shorter than me, a tall guy can just melt me...lol (6ft is nice, lol I like to look up to them... but it's not a major issue)
I have to agree with that slight touch, when you're in conversation, just to reinforce a point...PDA, holding hands and a slight whisp~kiss on the cheek ( not haning all over each other ~ that is just gross in public) but just enough to let your know you're special...
Intelligent conversation
Okay, still thinking!
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| Instant Turn~Ons! What turns your head?
Posted: 1/24/2007 4:31:58 PM |
i wish those companies would change the taste just a lil bit
Last time I checked make up wasn't for eating . I could be wrong with that darn new line Brittiany came out with but .. no eating it. | |
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