| | are women really that uptight in bedPage 1 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | | i just dont get - it seems that women just are not all that experimental in bed as i thought they were or at least should be - it shocks me when im with a guy and he tells me that all the ladies hes been with wouldnt do this or wouldnt do that... come on ladies your missing out - you need to be more open with your sexuality - things can get way more exciting it you do - you need to try everything at least once! | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 12:58:42 PM |
Don't know who u been playing with .. the wrong women by the sounds of it!
lol honey - i think you need to read the post again - i said the guys ive been with - and thats my point maybe theyve been with the wrong women - just encouraging those women to be more experimental
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 12:59:00 PM | | A lot are really uptight.... lights out, nothing even remotely kinky, no toys...etc., etc. Sheesh, where is their sense of adventure!?!?!?! | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 1:02:26 PM | | I had a gf who would not even let me read a Maxim mag for fear i may find a girl in there attractive...now thats uptight.LOL | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 1:13:58 PM | | Loghauler, i had a buddy whose girlfriend would wake him if he smiled in his sleep because she thought he was dreaming of other women. | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 1:17:50 PM | | OP, perhaps the guys saying this have simply been picking the wrong women...especially if they're picking ones simply for sex. Or, these guys could simply have been stroking you and trying to get you to be even more experimental. As for being experimental, one's sexual preferences are just as varied as one's other interests...some can be very experimental, while others are happy with the same old, same old all the time...and this applies to men as well as to women. Everyone has to do what works for them, even if that means they're not as experimental as some others might be. Besides, I don't know too many who would get into things like 3somes, which many men say they'd love to try, or BDSM...not even to be experimental. We all know what we're comfortable with. But it's interesting that you mention women being so uptight...what about men? I don't see many of them trying anything that much different than the next guy, though that may be due more to selfihness than lack of experimentation or imagination...But perhaps they should try being a bit more experimental for their women...it might even make their women less 'uptight' ;) | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 1:28:33 PM | What bull,you do what ur comfortable with!
U don't tell someone there uptight because they don't "perform"certain acts!
Most people become more relaxed and experimental as they spend more time togeather!
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 2:04:19 PM |
What bull,you do what ur comfortable with!
U don't tell someone there uptight because they don't "perform"certain acts!
Most people become more relaxed and experimental as they spend more time togeather!
Yea ok maybe "uptight" is the wrong word...
I've dated more than a couple girls that were on the "non exciting" side of things sexually, about as kinky as they'd get is saying yes to more than one finger at once or being on top once in a while  | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 2:12:38 PM | I dated this man for a while some years ago. His ex-wife was a sex therapist. After a while, he confessed that their sex life was terrible. That still makes me think of the old saying "The butcher's knives are always dull." LOLOL 
~OP~ I've had the same experiences. I don't know what the vast majority of women do or don't do, but I find it rather odd that most of the men in my past have been a little naive, and definitely starved for adventure. It's weird to me because until I was 35, I thought I was rather prudish...apparently my definition of prudish is a tad off the mark.  | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 2:14:41 PM | did you ever think the woman had a bad day at work . she just wants to know that someone is there for her . let HER be in charge . let HER rule the bedroom . I bet she would not be seen as uptight then .  she would have you running for the hills . | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 2:27:06 PM | I think if you can find someone you connect with well on all levels..being less uptight is much easier. For myself..the more comfortable I feel with someone, and the more attracted to them I am, the easier it is to let go and enjoy whatever adventures we decide to embark on together  | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 2:27:12 PM | one must be very careful of what they wish for...uptight is a pretty vague term.Prudish..well how does one rate/score prudish?You cant.free world means each to their own liking.
What evah tickles your pickle... | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 2:41:20 PM | LOl.. opps my bad .. sorry hun ..
but seriously , u can only be open with someone u are comfortable with I think . I know I am more and more "experimental" as I get to know someone sexually .
Geez I pretty darn bad now ! | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 2:50:32 PM | | Oh I reckon we're all the same - it just depends on who we're with. I've been told I'm really repressed and I've been told I'm a tiger like no other- depends on the measuring stick (no pun!!) | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 2:53:58 PM | | I suspect in some cases it's one of those things guys just say. To be nice. To make us feel good about ourselves (and get invited back). | |
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jlryan
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 2:59:49 PM | | Hell no women are just as horny if not worse than men, If you have someone who's uptight either there's something going on inside, ( Something in her past ) or beliefs, timing, or not in the mood, tired. bad matchup. Or you met a person who doesn't like sex, but all the same things women have to deal with are the for them with dealing with men, Communication and boredom are a couples biggest enemy, | |
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jo~
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 3:10:21 PM | How long have you been on POF ........ OP???????
Have you not been reading the forums from the women on this site?????....LMFAO!!!!!!!
The women here are very secure with their sexuality.......Do not think they need to be told to lighten up just because a few of the boys you dated SAID they never had that done to them before.........Do you believe everything a MAN tells you???????.........And really.......WHO the F cares????????......Rather you tell me a good .......old fashioned.... down home recipe........   | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 3:32:38 PM | Yes, some are uptight...it sucks...you try and do a different possition and they freak out, "no, I don't want to do that, I don't like it..." and they have never tried it...uhhh...no imagination.
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 3:44:10 PM | | comfort level with the one your with is pretty important.I was told once by an ex that for me to do oral on her was a big step into her personal space.We could make love and it was great,but it was bout 2 months into it before she would let my tongue wander south,after that,wowwie.So I dont believe all women are uptight,perhaps it takes a lil to get then out of their shells. | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 3:45:34 PM | Steve41
Well thats a no brainer!
Move on to ur next conquest!Can't "change"everyone!
All aspects of a relationship are in important to me,I recently went out with a man and the sex was not good at all,and not improving even with encourgement so I did the boogalou!!
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 4:42:29 PM |
Move on to ur next conquest!Can't "change"everyone!
I hear you annie....bugger is I get labeled "user" for it though....go figure  | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 4:58:50 PM | until you've been with all women, you really shouldn't put "all women" into one group, no offense but that is pretty narrow minded.
Pisces is the most experimental sign in the zodiac, maybe you should try one, sounds like you haven't yet. | |
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| are women really that uptight in bed
Posted: 1/28/2007 5:18:06 PM |
Pisces is the most experimental sign in the zodiac, maybe you should try one, sounds like you haven't yet.
please take your own advise, my ex was a 'pisces' and she wasn't at all 'experimental'...
of course, I don't believe in all the cosmic BS...
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