| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/11/2005 3:05:32 PM | This is aimed mostly at the guys, I IM'ed a woman on POF that was...well, "Had one on the way" Her ad stated she didn't have any kids...which is a fact...lol She said, "I hope you don' tmind dating someone that's pregnant.
However, I said, "Sorry, not to be a stick in the mud, but no" | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/11/2005 3:54:20 PM | Hey, if you don't want kids, be honest from the get go. Nothing wrong with that. At least shes honest about it. Give her some credit. I am a single mom, I was pregnant when I met my ex... I wasnt looking for a relationship, but he was too awesome.. I told him that I was pregnant and thought he'd leave me, but he didnt because he wanted me, he liked me and would gladly accept the fact I was pregnant. Even his brother made rude jokes to him, saying, what are u thinking dating a pregnant girl? But, sometimes thats life and things happen. Anyways, I probably didnt make sense! lol
But if kids are not what you want right now, dont worry about it, its fine. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/11/2005 3:55:20 PM | To each his own... I don't think I would have a problem with dating someone that is Pregnant myself...
The bigger question is, is she looking for someone to be the father/daddy of the new baby or is the Baby-Maker still around and in the picture??? | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/11/2005 9:02:28 PM | | as a woman (and one who has been pregnant and single part of that pregnancy) I would feel weird dating someone. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/13/2005 7:23:27 AM | No thanks. I think it would be a very uncomfortable situation for a man to insert himself into. How much responsibility do you have to the mother? The child? If she has a problem pregnancy, how do you deal with it? My ex did and I pretty much catered to her every need. Would the same be expected from a BF who isn't the father? There's too many questions and awkward situations involved.
Then again, I don't think I would date a single mom, either. I have my own child to raise and I don't want any more, even if they're not mine. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/13/2005 10:47:51 AM | | Call me weird but I find a pregnant women very attractive, I dont know what it is about it, I'm serious....when I was married my wife knew about my thing for a pregnant female, she never had to worry about my eyes wondering or me cheating on her, but when a very pretty healthy pregnant female walked by I would definatly do a double take if not a triple take, I love to cuddle with pregnant female, its a sense of relaxation.......Wow good topic......got me looking again, and brought up some good memories | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/13/2005 11:01:51 AM | @single_dad_in_fla
You're not alone. Not saying I am with you, but you're not alone. It's one of the strangest phenomenons. Many men find themselves more attracted to a woman when she is pregnant. I say it's strange because many woman gripe about their appearance when they are pregnant. I have read some reports where psychiatrists believe men find pregnant women attractive because of the maternal connection. It flips some kind innate switch in the mind of many men. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/13/2005 6:39:05 PM | | YamIhere.....thank you for the insight.....I knew I was not alone, and its not like its a sick fetish or anything, its just a physical attraction.....I'm proud of it as a matter of fact.....So to all the pregnant woman in the house dont feel like you are not attractive, cause there are guys out there that would rather be with you then someone not pregnant | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/13/2005 7:07:24 PM | | LOL... well thank u! I've always felt extremely unattractive when I'm pg. But I've known men who like a pregnant woman's body, I could never figure it out but whatever!! | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/13/2005 7:31:16 PM | | hands down ... yes .. if i was attracted to them .... would not matter if the father was around or not .... pregnant women have a glow to them ... | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/14/2005 6:36:31 AM | | intrepid01--------------Thank you.......you said what I was trying to say before but could not find the simple word.......GLOW....that is exactly it, they have a certain glow to them when pregnant that drives me crazy. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/15/2005 6:42:49 AM | The last girl friend that I had that was pregnant, her boyfriend left her when he found out she was pregnant, I met her from the interenet, we talked for quite a while and I fell in love with her, we hit it off great, I was there when the baby was born and loved both of them, I supported them both.
The only reason things did not work out was cause I worked at a club as a bouncer and she had a trust issue, she would send her friend there to check on me, didn't bother me that she did that, but if she did not trust me then there was going to be some rough roads in the relationship, and I decided that earlier ending the relationship would be better, so her daughter would not become too attached and it would have made things real hard.
We still talk as a matter of fact she called me last night to see how things are going, and wanting to know when I was going to Texas to see her, I still have a spot in my heart that loves her and her daughter. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:41:00 AM | I would totally date a pregnant woman, the glow, the maternal thing, it's all awesome. Of course, she would have to be single and attractive to me either way. Hey, be optomistic, you can relax and not have to worry about knocking her up, let the fun begin!!! Also, cuddling with a pregnant woman is totally relaxing, an awesome connection. I have only been with one pregnant woman and she was having my child which is likely a greater experience but I would not push away a good looking girl that I was crazy about just because she's got a child on the way. I strongly picture myself easily falling for a pregnant woman, there would be that desire to assist her and support her, it would be quite easy to feel needed and helpful. Easy to adore her pregnant. Any other thoughts? A total feeling of peace while cuddling on the couch, as long as the couch is big enough  | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/15/2005 11:10:24 AM | | You have 3 messages on here and they are different make up ur mind I am talking from a single mom view if I was a male I certainly would date a pregnant lady that is a beautiful creation inside her and that baby and her have feelings she is not necessarily looking for a daddy she maybe looking for a man to love her and her child as a child is a beautiful gift I have 3 i treasure and a guy i met on this site who has 1 who I hope I get a chance to treasure as well and I sure was looking for a man with a child and I would never judge him because he has a child. All humans have feelings and think about if u were in her shoes how would u feel if someone said they wouldnot date u if u were pregnant so would u dump ur gf if she became pregnant by u | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/15/2005 1:46:44 PM | | There is that pregnant 66 year old Romanian woman in the news now. Nobody is safe from this possibility now. I think the safest thing to do is treat every woman as if she is pregnant, like when you handle guns and treat them like they are loaded. I can't see anything about pregnancy that would get in the way of what I wanted to do with a woman, aside from certain sexual positions, and maybe some contact sports. The thing that would be most significant to me is her relationship with the father. If she was still married and they lived together, where would I sleep? It might get complicated, and that would eb a problem. But a bun in the oven all by itself is not a problem. I would date a pregasaurus, no problem. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/15/2005 3:20:19 PM | I would date a woman who is pregnant as long as she can honestly tell me
she won't take the father back!
If she wants to be with me and not with him,then it's o.k.!
But if she has doughts about going back to the father of her child,then I
don't want to get caught up in it! | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/16/2005 5:33:00 PM | | OK! I am a single pregnate mom! I'm due in like two weeks! I thought guys wouldnt be interested in me considering the fact! I have gone a few dates which helped with my feelin unwanted and huge. So i understand the whole glow thing...but what are you gonna do when she isn't pregnate anymore? I had a guy tell me i had a glow and wanted to go out some time....I was like well thats great! But what about when i'm no longer pregnate? It's not a forever thing! | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/16/2005 5:58:43 PM | i know of a few guys that actually have a prefernce for pregnant women not for a relationship of course dont know exactly how it would be better but hey it must be.
And if a guy is just looking for a glow, then a couple of hours of fun luvin shall give you a nice one of those.
And when she isnt pregnant anymore she will have a baby, tis a crying shame.
you wont need a man for a while after having the child you will be overwhelmed with joy of a new life brought into this world under your guidance, hope eveything goes well for you and check for single doctors :D | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/16/2005 6:07:21 PM | | well luvergurl, it's like this, some men won't want anything to do with a pregnant women or single mother, but many will. The pregnant woman fetish is out there, just so you know. But besides all that, life is life. Women get pregnant and have kids. You're supposed to be that way. Men understand this. Being with you is what it's all about. As long as you're good to be with, then the rest fits in naturally, as part of who you are, part of your life. Kids are great. It's fun raising kids. Mom's glow, too, with love for their children. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/16/2005 7:36:14 PM | luvergurl,
If I was dating a pregnant woman and I really connected with her,then I would
not leave her when she became due,quite the contrary,i would be there for her through
out her delivery!
It's just the way I am,once I find my true love,I will stand by her,no matter if she's pregnant,or a mom or a single woman with no children! | |
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