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 markus
Joined: 3/27/2001
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Scams. Nigerians, Russians ETC.Page 1 of 15    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15)
Do you find that there are more scams on paid dating sites then here ?
Paid Dating Sites Have More Nigerian or Russian Scams
Plentyoffish Has More Nigerian or Russian Scams
Never used a paid site
 !somewhere
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 2
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:41:59 AM
I've never noticed a Russian or Nigerian scam on this site.
thanks admin, for putting the proper filters and checks in place to keep them away

I was briefly a member of a pay site once, and the first person, (also one of the only people) who contacted me on there was "stuck in Nigeria needing money".
 formally_of_md1
Joined: 11/16/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:50:48 AM
Yeah, there are so many on those yahoo messengers, too. I actually sent $50 to a scammer just to see where the check was cashed and it was in Africa...Gauna I remember. They always wanna come here and marry but I never met them. I know its a scam, but I mess with them anyhow..Just I aint sendin no more money. I will lead them on and on though so they waist there time thinking and thinking and thinking while the US drops a nuk on their ass.....lol
 darnoc
Joined: 9/11/2004
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:51:10 AM
the simple thing is to delete all messages from russians, nigerians, phillipinos, gambians etc and if theres a block facility block them
but most of all just disbeleive every word they say

word of warning on myspace they all pretend to live in the usa....but can be easily sussed as their messages are in pidgin english
 anApplepear
Joined: 12/9/2005
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:51:25 AM
I was on a paid dating sites off and on about 2 years, and have received quite a few scam Love Letters. I have been with POF for over a year now but I have received none of those from here counting that on both dating sites my profiles have always been "For Forums only / not looking".
 kimingrmi
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:53:16 AM
I have seen these scams on almost all dating sites, even had strangers strike up a conversation on YAHOO, trying to become friendly, gain my trust, then the scam begins. I work at a bank and know the signs.
 mrlonely1000
Joined: 9/29/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:54:24 AM
no i dont use them i mean why pay to get rejected by women when i can and do! (i havethe perfect face for radio!!) on this site!
 AStableWoman
Joined: 11/21/2006
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:54:44 AM
As this is the only dating site I use, I have no idea how to answer your question but did want to say that I have had a "questionable" contact. A friend of mine that also uses this site has as well. We both are educated people and know better than to go along with anything that is requested. But should I have anything substantial, I would be glad to pass it along to you if you wish.

AStableWoman
 Foxx Mulder
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 9
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:55:35 AM
biggest reason I came to POF, most paid dating sites ive been on had to weed through several "help im stuck in africa and need to get home" scams. Since Ive been here havent seen a one, thank god.
 !somewhere
Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:56:19 AM

I actually sent $50 to a scammer just to see where the check was cashed
couldn't you just send a couple bucks, to see where the check was cashed?
 gerrymac
Joined: 4/28/2005
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:56:44 AM
Errrr....I can't answer the poll.

I've used a paid dating site.
I use this site.
I've never experienced "scams" such as those described on either.

No option on the poll will let me respond this way.
 neil89
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:57:24 AM
There is this one site that caters to BBW's and its related sister sites which I swear is owned and run by the scammers themselves.

The pictures of the scam women are too well posed and shot and the quality is just too good. The fees on the sites are very reasonable but if the sites are run by the scammers themselves then the scams they run probably make up the difference for the low monthly fees.
 Danny1129
Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:58:59 AM
I haven't came across anything that I think would be a scam on POF but did have a couple of experiences on one other site. This one site that I have a profile on is alway getting responses from russia. I usually just delete them without opening the message. Don't know if all the responses where a scam or not but it does make me wonder though.
 eoa46
Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:59:42 AM
AS ( american Singles) is the worst for scam'n...You are constantly being Im'd by Ghana...Nigerians etc etc....WTF is up with dat?
 justjohn616
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:59:51 AM
I have run into several scams out of africa.

The best ones are the ones that claim to be american that are working in the other countries, usually something where they had one or both parents die and the inherited a family business. They claim to be from a nearby major city, i have run in to some that say they are from Detroit or Chicago.

After some friendly banter for a few weeks, something happens, there hotel room is robbed, etc. They then ask for $$$ to be sent to the via western union and they assure me that they will more than pay me back when they return to the US.

I think it is fun to play the game with them now, to see how long it takes before they ask for the $$ then tell them it is on the way.

I can't imagine people fall for this stuff all the time, why not save yourself some heart ache, if you want I can give you my pay pal account number and you can just send the money to me.
 easyone55
Joined: 12/10/2006
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:59:58 AM
I've been on serveral site's and Yes there are so many scam's on most of them, I'm stuck here,or I came to get my dead father's estate in order and can't leave because, so many reason's to get you to send them cash thru Western Union, just please dont fall victim to these scamer's , If u really feel the need to waste up to $1000. or more , send it to ur favorite animal rescue program and at least it will do some good, Thanx Wayne
 quiet/guy
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 17
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:00:00 AM
I have ran into thoes scams on yahoo a lot. you can tell. twice I was asked for money by 2 different ladys. they always have a very hot picture.
 teddie1212
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:00:24 AM
yes i do especially on (tagged !!)
 Harco
Joined: 11/25/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:03:53 AM
i have used both paid and unpaid and never have gotten scam spam as referenced above. I have only received such scams in regular email accounts.
 cookiegal57
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:04:30 AM
I ran into a few on paid sites......they say they are working over there from the states, but then they get injured or sick..........or they are over there because a family member got sick over there and now they need money to get back to the states. They want you to cash a money order for them, which are fake....... They seem to fall in love with you almost immediately and tell you what they think you want to hear. Well most guys don't fall in love that fast............ Never had one on POF......
 TTicker
Joined: 10/7/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:05:21 AM
I have run into scams on other dating sites,however,one of the worse scam I ever encountered was on POF........I know of at least three other guys here on POF have encountered someone making an attempt to scam them as well as myself...

Kind of hard to post this because the short message warning I keep getting so i have to keep typing to get this posted.


Thank ya Big Fish for taking this POLL
 sweet_cathy54
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:06:53 AM
Ive never paid but I did get scammed by someone on yahoo personals that i just sent an icebreaker to that was suppose to live very close to me and ended up living in Nigeria. I found that out, after I was trying to be nice, b/c i thought he lived in a nearby town and was taken for quite an amount of money. I then found his profile on plenty of fish later, but I hope that was taken off after reporting him.
 Thatguy67
Joined: 9/20/2006
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:08:01 AM
So far, I haven't seen any scams on POF. I'll certainly let you know if I encounter them.
 R0b0tX
Joined: 5/6/2005
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:08:57 AM
Actually this is the only site where I HAVEN'T run into this problem with the russian/nigerian scammers... findsomeone.ca (when it was free) was a common thing, as was bookofmatches (that one was the worst for it). Though that too was a free site. Only site I've ever sent money to was Hot or Not, but I haven't had that problem there. I bet it happens a lot on the highly advertised pay sites though!
 alwaysreal4u
Joined: 1/12/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:12:49 AM
The site i left was a pay site and I got hit most everyday. They got pretty good at it too. They started using us cities as there address. But when i 19 or 20 yr old woman is looking for a long term relationship with a 52 yr old man, i have to look for "DEE PLANE" and see if iam on an Island, check to see if the viewed my profile(never happined) and block there butts. I learned it was the same person most of the time by the same typo's .
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