| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 2:57:14 PM | | Just wondering why so many men/women think it is okay to have a threesome with two women and one man, but not vice versa! If you are open to one, you should be open to the other. The response I normally get from men is because 'I'm not gay!'...well when you are having a threesome with two women, they probably aren't gay either! Just going with it for the experience. I don't know...what is every one's opinion on this? | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 3:01:59 PM | | women r beautiful and more open, guys dont go to the bathroom or try on clothes together and when its with 2 wemon its more of an art, but when its with 2 guys its all about the male orgasim and less respect | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 3:04:24 PM | Number of reasons .... homophobic is one ... another is they dont want to feel inferior in front of another man .. less stamina .. smaller penis .. etc ... some are just greedy. Many people dont understand true "pleasure" and that its not about being ay or bi or anything else .. its about pleasure.
Myself ... either has been fine with me and would never ask a woman to do for me what I wouldnt allow her to do the same to me | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 3:04:36 PM | I,d give it a go but i think the other man would have to be someone i know, maybe a mate or the husband/BF of the woman. Men are always scared of how it will look to another man if they found out that even the hint of Homosexuality was involved,and theres always the risk that if you dont know the other man to well he might have a go at "Playing the Pink Oboe" on you.....
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 3:07:32 PM | | Not sayng that that type of thing is for me..but the two women there might not be gay..but are bisexual..If a man is not bisexual he's isn't going to want another man here. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 3:12:29 PM | | the only way it would b bi sexual is if the guys were together and not the girl in the middle, it all depends on the position with 2 guys, but i say 2 women r better, but it with cause problems if theres a relationship involved do 2 jealousy | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 3:22:45 PM | | All I know is, I would NOT want to be penetrated by two men at the same time. No thanks. Having another woman there, makes that possibility pretty slim! Not that my opinion should matter, because I'd never do a threesome to begin with. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 4:03:33 PM | | Nowadays it's more socially acceptable for a woman to be bi then a man, don't ask me why, it just is. Gay/bi/straightness isn't strict catagories, it's more of a sliding scale, if male biness was more accepted then those men who are "just a little bit" bi would probably be more open to the idea, as it is now though guys have to be leaning fairly close to gay to want that. If you wanted a MMF threesome but your SO male doesn't, you might be able to bribe him by promising a FFM threesome if they'd be willing to do the MMF first (don't give him the FFM first or he might back out of the deal when it's your turn unless he's extremely honorable). | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 4:31:40 PM | If i did a mmf threesome it would have to be a guy in know and i am compy with becuse if it was just some guy then who knows how i might react or what he might do(not gay stuff but in gen) but its not gay to want/do a mmf just like its not for a ffm now granted most men get the idea then the girls will be playing with each other eating and ect. but then the guys are like i wont even touch him during a mmf. but that is the life of double standers we all live.
and for the record if/when i do a mmf DP is sooo happening, should give it a try kate. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 4:39:13 PM | | I totally think if a guy wants a threesome with two women..he should be prepared to have a threesome with two men... Not that either is something I really want to do...but two men first ;) What's good for the gander is also good for the goose! | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 4:39:38 PM | I don't know why there is a bias against the MFM threesome. Groups can generate some interesting dynamics and, in my experience, people get to be very comfortable (and I am not implying this means bisexual contact) with each other, or it becomes an unpleasant experience. My experience is limited, but I have been able to spot the uncomfortable situation developing long before a threesome is requested. Consequently, none of my group experiences have been unpleasant.
BTW, when it's been a MFM the woman always went home exhausted (or fell asleep while us guys played cards), and smiling (big time). With the FMF, the women giggled a lot, but they weren't exhausted (me, I was whooped and useless for a day, happy, tho).
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 4:45:50 PM | | and as a added note I think MFM would be more fun anyway lots of things ya can do to her at the same time Chataholic knows what im talking about. and with the FMF one i would have to know way in advance and hit the gym hard becuse got to me in shape for that LOL | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 4:45:58 PM | There was actually a pretty interesting Savage love article about this... a guy wrote in b/c one night his gf asked if he thought a friend of hers was cute. He did. Lo and behold, a couple weeks later, a threesome ensued with his gf and her friend.
The next week, she said since I've fulfilled your fantasy, now I get mine... a threesome with 2 guys. 
That is just not playing nice whether you think there is a biased or not. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 5:09:01 PM | | I've had a threesome involving two women and I prefer a one on one situation. Just too much going on in a threesome for my liking. I would never be open to a threesome involving another guy. There's too much of a risk of swords accidentally crossing. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 5:12:10 PM | LOL...Sorry I couldn't stop laughing at the last post!
There's too much of a risk of swords accidentally crossing. I bet you would expect some girl on girl action in a FFM situation though, wouldn't you! It's such a double standard it isn't even funny. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 5:26:10 PM | I bet you would expect some girl on girl action in a FFM situation though, wouldn't you! It's such a double standard it isn't even funny.
I wouldn't necessarily expect it, but I think most men would find it a turn on to watch two women enjoying themselves while part of a threesome, but I doubt many women would enjoy watching two men crossing swords, would you? You're asking why the bias, that's because most men and women enjoy watching two women together, rather than two men. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 5:57:34 PM | | To be honest, the thought of going down on another girl makes me gag. But hypothetically, let's just say I did it...well, hell yeah I would expect a guy to kiss/fondle, etc (whatever I had done with the girl) with another guy when my turn comes around! It's only fair. Guys kissing guys is no more or less enjoyable than a girl kissing a girl. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 6:02:53 PM | well as long as you make that very clear to him before hand, then thats fine. but if you dont tell him and during your like ok you turn to suck his **** then thats messed up.
and really worried about your "swords crosing" short of wanting them too there is almost no chance even if ya were dp'ing | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 6:22:08 PM | 3 Women making out...yahooooooooooooo. I have never been invited to one but I am sure it would be a once in a life time event. Saw my first make-out with 2 women with I was only 17. Was I shocked. It was in public too. I the shadows of darkness. I stared until I realized I had been standing there more than a minute.... | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 6:32:16 PM | | This is more simple that perhaps its being made out to be: Its hot or so do men think and a part of women to see two girls having some sort of sexual interaction but two guys romping in the bushes is just plain old scary! | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 6:36:31 PM | Oh man not another 3-some thread
I get a charge out of these threads Like it's suppose to make you more desirable to other users since You have taken part it one it's beyond boring,I think I'm gonna go start a one on one thread and brag about how much better a lover it has made me. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 6:41:29 PM |
Like it's suppose to make you more desirable to other users since You have taken part
I've never taken part in one for the record. But it is a fairly common topic among my male friends and actually, my female friends too...which is why I wrote it in the first place. I wanted some clarification and answers. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 6:42:47 PM | I'd be up for it... but remember, it's all fun and games until someone loses an eye...
I will be the guy with the Googles on... :p
Oh, and the G Slash F says no more one eyed Jack's... just peach cobbler... | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/3/2007 8:43:50 PM | | I suppose the more fundamental question is what isn't satisfying you about your partner, that you then have to introduce someone else into the equation. | |
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