| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/4/2007 10:16:18 PM | | What kind of guy enjoys watching this? Those who secretly want to exert power over women? Or does watching other men jerking off, then "unloading" on a woman, make them somewhat homosexual? Seriously, what would make a man want to watch other men, sometimes naked, jerking it? For those who are unaware, bukkake is something like a group orgy only there is no sex involved. A bunch of men get together, jerk off, then ejaculate on a woman. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/4/2007 10:21:27 PM | They don't just ejaculate on her, they ejaculate on her face.
I highly doubt the guys who get off on this are closeted homosexuals. That line of thinking is indicative of placing both acts on par with deviance. Totally ignorant. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/4/2007 10:40:02 PM | I'm pretty positive that a bukkake or lots of men ejaculating on a woman's face hasn't anything to do with homosexual tendencies.
I'm thinking it's the fact that they are lessening the woman's power in the sex act. She is just something to cum on...
Or as a degrading act towards women maybe? | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/4/2007 10:51:41 PM | | I guess I ask this because a good percentage of the time is focused on the men compared to just a small amount of time for the woman. Even Jim Powers, who makes the Extreme American Bukkake videos, says that it is "homo-erotic" in nature. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/4/2007 10:59:42 PM | I think it sounds like both..homo erotic and degrading to the woman.
Maybe just the thing for those who are closeted,,the majority of the time seeing men and then that done to the woman who you "have to" proclaim you want but secretly resent. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 7:28:06 AM | Not my kind of porn, but I had read up on it awhile ago simply because I wanted to know what the hell it was.. Here is a blurb from wikipedia.com
Some have described bukkake as a fetish culture beyond sex. Some authors claim that bukkake is symbolic group rape, and its primary purpose is the humiliation, degradation and objectification of women. It may also be a group expression of male contempt for women and femininity.
Theories as to the historical origins of bukkake vary, but one theory is that bukkake was popularized in Japan by Japanese adult video companies in the first half of the 1970s. It is to be assumed that a significant factor in the development of bukkake was the mandatory censorship of genitalia (porn mosaic) in Japan. Since the directors could not show penetration they sought new, visually-appealing ways to approach sex acts that would satisfy the audience without violating Japanese law. Semen was not required to be censored, thus creating a loophole for harder sex scenes.
It's amazing how finding a way to beat the system, turned into a discussion some 30 years later if it is homosexual or not, when all they wanted to do was make some hardcore.
LOL. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 9:17:09 AM |
It's amazing how finding a way to beat the system, turned into a discussion some 30 years later if it is homosexual or not, when all they wanted to do was make some hardcore.
I think it speaks more to a system that, rather than stopping the censoring of actual sex, promotes the degradation of women. I've seen some truly disgusting, repulsive Asian videos that show everything from watersports to scat, without censoring any of the action that humiliates women; but somehow showing a man actually making love to a woman is wrong? | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 10:27:42 AM |
It's amazing how finding a way to beat the system, turned into a discussion some 30 years later if it is homosexual or not, when all they wanted to do was make some hardcore.
LOL.
Nah back in the day in ancient Japan, it was used as a way to shame a woman who did something wrong, kind of like Stoning in the middle east. For the record I consider this stuff masagnostic. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 10:45:24 AM | | This has nothing at all to do with homosexuality. Not whatsoever. Spunking on a girl's face has become a fantasy for some through porn movies. Basically, I think the idea behind it is to make a "spectacle" or "display" of the fact the man had his way with her. And when a girl has multiple guys doing this, then it is just a display that a bunch of guys had her way with her. Makes her more slutty and degraded. (Not that having sex with multiple men at the same time doesn't do that in the first place...) | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 10:46:55 AM | My comments about it turning into a discussion of whether or not it is homosexual was to tie in to the original question asked by the author as shown in the subject Line. I haven't offered any opinions on the subject. I've only put forth some info I've found.
I've seen some truly disgusting, repulsive Asian videos that show everything from watersports to scat, without censoring any of the action that humiliates women; but somehow showing a man actually making love to a woman is wrong?
Again I offer no opinion as far as what is degrading or humiliating, different strokes and all that... but if you are watching these movies... aren't you one of the reasons they keep making them? Just a thought.
*with regards to golden showers and scat..... OMFG that's gross!!!!* | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 11:14:02 AM | For every twisted thought, there are ten videos, and they are all being rented/bought. For every one moderate kink, there are 10 extremes. We are a world of excess, sex is just another example of that. Oddly, sexually speaking, we Americans (and maybe even Canadians, I don't know) are rather closed-minded compared to our European counterparts. What we discuss here, would not be interesting topics there.
As for the whole bukkake thing. That's just icky. BUT, some people LOVE icky. The Naked Trucker was on Craig Ferguson last night. I was a little shocked when in the middle of this song, T-Bones referred to "American women with pearl necklaces" ~ maybe we are evolving, or maybe we aren't. Nevertheless, if you can think it, disgusting or not, someone will likely be willing to indulge in it. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 12:26:38 PM | Not really... I mean, it does seem kind of odd... but, no.
Seeing a bunch of guys blowing it on the same woman is kind of gross... and I'm pretty sexually free in terms of what I'm willing to explore.
As an aside... couldusecompany... man, you look like Gordon Freeman, from the game Half Life... that is awesome and consequently much cooler than Bukkake... | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 12:30:32 PM |
Again I offer no opinion as far as what is degrading or humiliating, different strokes and all that... but if you are watching these movies... aren't you one of the reasons they keep making them? Just a thought.
Apparently, you've never been on a peer-2-peer network where the kiddies find amusement mislabelling video clips. They're often not what they purport to be, but one doesn't know that until one downloads it, does one? I also have to admit that I grew up with 5 brothers, and it takes a lot to really bother me. I wouldn't go looking for bukkake or scat, and I find it degrading to either gender it's being done to, but it's not as if I run screaming from the room when I see it. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 12:46:33 PM | Bukkake has its place in the world... Does that mean I want to occupy that place? No... I don't. Will I be compelled to watch if I see it, even if I think it's more than a little gross? Yes... I probably will... It's a spectacle... what can I say...
My thought was always it feels so much better to blow it inside a woman rather than outside... Maybe I'm missing something...
@couldusecompay Dude... he saved the world more than once against trans dimensional alien entities...and he did it with nothing but an envirosuit and a crowbar... I don't know about you, but I think that deserves like at least a few high-fives (perhaps even an inappropriate number of them).... and women.... lots of women.... who high-five you... and have boobies.
the giggleparts - Boobies..... | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 1:52:23 PM | | I don't think it's a confirmation of anything, nor is it a degradation of women. One could argue that men ejaculating on a woman is in praise of woman, surrendering their seed to her, if you will. It's just erotica and most of it is geared for a heterosexual male audience because of course, most men are straight and because males by nature respond profoundly to visual cues. From the rare exposure I've had to it, I've seen pictures of attractive female models posing nude with a quantity of fresh ejaculate on their bare skin. I suppose it holds some allure, but it doesn't arouse me that much and so haven't bothered to view it. On the other hand, this thread could be perceived as an avenue to male bash and incite the judgement and condemnation of others, perhaps the gay segment of society and the fact that erotica is an art form, renders it wide open to interpretation. But to me, bukkake lacks any hidden meaning nor do I foresee anything threatening evolving from it. It's erotica with all the fantasizing that goes with it, nothing more, nothing less, no big deal, I don't care. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/7/2007 2:56:36 PM | I don't think its in regard to latent homosexuality. Its a mark of submission for the woman and a mark of domination or humiliation for the man.
I hate it, cannot watch it in porn since I was raped and he did that to me.
But other than that... porn is cool!! | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/8/2007 12:35:25 AM | Hardly anyone is 100% gay/straight anyway. If porn plays to the true sexual fantasies of its viewers then there is bound to be nebulous territory even in the most 'heterosexual' fare. The fact that lately a lot of it seems increasingly misogynistic is more troubling to me than wether it's gay or not. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/8/2007 12:58:19 AM | I don't watch it, but I don't think it has anything to do with homosexual tendencies.
I would guess it's a control thing. Perhaps they fantasize about control (or total submission, an either/or type scenario)?
I also suspect that there's a natural escalation in terms of the type/degree of porn people watch, at least to a point. If you're talking to a 14 year old boy, the odds are if he manages to steal a playboy magazine he could have fun with that. A grown man isn't going to find a playboy magazine all that exciting.
That *type* of porn is hardcore pornography, maybe they just can't get themselves off otherwise.
I can't say for sure, I'm not into watching another guy bang the girl, for whatever reason. :p | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/8/2007 2:02:02 AM | homosexual tendancies? I'snt this just more of the ridiculous pornography landscape??
Is it different than 20 guys all together in a strip bar? their little boners bulging in their jeans..
Or maybe the pubescent "Circle-Jerk" ...
I submit that there are many closets in the mind of the usual man..
And that there is far more questionable behavior out there than this "bukkake" stuff..
It is in many ways a sickness, a distortion of the primal drives that fuel procreation...
Look in the animal kingdom, It's everywhere..
I can't help but wonder if you have homosexual tendencies.. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/8/2007 1:21:27 PM | I am not a psychiatrist, but I have always suspected that Bukkake is a fantasy of men who are insecure around women. It gives them a sense of dominance/control that they otherwise lack.
It may be a generalization, but I understand that Bukkake is most popular in Japan. Could it be that Japanese men, used to being the ones in control, with women in Japan now getting more equality they feel uncomfortable, longing for the "good old days".
It sure ranks very highly in the list of pornographic acts that are highly sexist. | |
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| Bukkake - Confirming Latent Homosexual Tendencies? Posted: 2/8/2007 2:26:44 PM | | I think it's partly a male-bonding thing. The emphasis is on guys competing against each other and impressing each other. Guys, especially straight-identifying guys, like to impress each other with their sexual prowess. If that means being naked in a room together with hard-ons etc, so be it. So long as a woman is there, it's not considered gay. | |
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