| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 8:44:50 AM | | I keep getting told i ooze sex appeal and that men find me attrective but only to sleep with. Men tell me i wouldnt make a girlfriend cause of my sex appeal. Shall i change the way i look just to find a guy or shall i sod them all and be single all my life? | |
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| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 8:56:29 AM | Well, my first thought was that you're an attention whore with that post. But after reading your profile, I see I was probably wrong. You're a very attractive girl, that's for sure. And sometimes men think if you're that hot, they'll never be able to hold onto you. In most cases, they're wrong, but try to convince them of that. In this case, it's them, not you. You're very young. Someone will come along one of these days.
I might add one thing ... your screen name might be part of the problem. | |
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| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 8:57:55 AM | | Edit: Nevermind. I was being nice, but it's not deserved. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:02:07 AM | ummm...i dont think youre in an either or situation....
perhaps what you need to decide...is what you want?
instead of allowing other people decide what they want from you?.
Some people ooze sex appeal...its not a bad thing...but you might want to examine what else you are bringing to the table? Do you only "ooze" sex appeal in order to deflect attention from other qualities?
If the only thing you ooze is sex appeal than perhaps thats the issue..as if no one can see anything more in you than sex..well...they wont want much more.
I have no idea of what type of men you normally attract...but i might think that you should think about that....sometimes its not so much "us" as who we pick to date...which really is kinda something about us..but..well..there are no simple answers..
Im sure you can tell when a man is really is onyl interested in your "cosmic knockers"...perhaps you might want to find a man that looks you more in the eye..than stares at the "universe" on your chest..lol.
Good luck anyway..! | |
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| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 9:02:12 AM | | If you have a good personality then I don't think it would be you. I know I'm not looking for sex or anything so I it wouldn't even be an issue with me. It seems like saying attractive people are only worth sleeping with and only ugly people are relationship material. Eh... I don't see the problem with being attractive if you've got a good personality. Just sounds like flawed logic to me... but then that's just me. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:02:29 AM | | thanks for the comments but the screen name really has been my nickaname for 15 years s my name is corrin knocks but i will think of changing it. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:03:32 AM | You don't have to do either lass. You just need to be yourself and be honest with yourself. As others have said you're a beautiful woman, and based on your profile and name it seems like you're out having fun. Nothing wrong with that at all. When you really are feeling ready to find someone who is "the one" you will.
You will be more serious about what you do and how you do it you won't be changing who you are... who you are will direct what you do and who you find attractive.. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:10:52 AM | okay,
Your screen name is "cosmic breasts" (translating into English). The accompanying photo is you looking "sexy" at the camera biting your finger...with ample cleavage showing...
When someone visits your profile they see more photos of your cleavage...and they see your last post was titled "ooze sex appeal."
I think this case is pretty cut and dry, your honor... the defendant is GUILTY GUILTY GUILTY!
If I knew any better I'd say this is an "attention getting" post.
You picked your photos and you picked them for a reason... you picked (or kept..) your SN and you picked it for a reason...
Yet you're still so starved for attention you had to start a thread about how sexy you are and why men can't see past it. Maybe they don't see past it because there is nothing to see  | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:14:39 AM | Just be yourself and be honest with you.....
if what you are doing is not working for you than change it
I am wondering why you would complain about only getting attention for sex, then post pic's of your clevage.
I am sure your a wonderful woman....and you should be able to dress and act as you feel BUT just know that how you are seen is often how you are treated.
Sad fact but its true | |
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| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 9:14:48 AM |
Edit: Nevermind.
That is so funny...
I swear to God, I wrote out a response to this, looked it over, and said to myself... "Forget this"...
NEXT! | |
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| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 9:30:38 AM | I don't have cleavage to show off. however, i don't have any problem in getting decent responses. may be you should start consider wrapping yourself up.  | |
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| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 9:38:36 AM |
Men tell me i wouldnt make a girlfriend cause of my sex appeal. Shall i change the way i look just to find a guy or shall i sod them all and be single all my life?
Considering you're only a mere 25, you likely won't be single "all your life", unless you die tomorrow. And your "sex appeal" will hit new lows along the way, so don't fret. And if it's getting in the way now, all you have to do is just be yourself. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:38:56 AM | Was this not what you wrote?
he is afraid of comitment, hes a man after all.
It ain't your t!ts that are getting you into trouble honey, it's your attitude.
You can't run up your looks, and run down men at the same time and expect anything except the most ephemeral of attachments. As with most things, if you notice a consistent pattern, the problem is most likely not with the men, or women, depending, but with yourself.
Take a good look at how you choose to interact, and express what you want and expect. I suspect once you make some realizations and adjustments that finding men that want you to be thier gf will be pretty straighforward. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:50:46 AM |
And your "sex appeal" will hit new lows along the way, so don't fret. Oh yeah, this is sooo true and what a cheery thought. Time to go back to bed! | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:58:34 AM |
if what you are doing is not working for you than change it
First of all, dont let anyone make you feel a certain way by judging you. That goes for either side of the fence though. If you constantly listen to people tell you about YOURSELF when they dont know you ...then eventually it will go the other way. Be true to yourself and be confident, not****. Your decent looking but please believe in the long run this means nothing.
Make sure you always look people in the eyes when your talking to them....nothing more annoying than talking to a woman who is looking around the room trying to see who is looking at her. 
The list is fairly easy to compile of things that you 'do' to receive a certain negative label. Make it, and avoid them if that is what you care about. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 9:58:53 AM | | i had that problem until i began to practice compassion for others. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 10:43:32 AM | oozing sex appeal is great! any other kind of oozing and i recomend seeing a doctor.
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Posted: 2/8/2007 11:05:37 AM | A friend (and FWB) of mine had this problem for years. Now she's happily married. Time takes the edge off of most party animals or introduces them to people that love them for who they are.
Patience, in other words and enjoy oozing while that's who you are.
Cheers,
Mike (or listen to Portishead's Glory Box repeatedly) | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 11:53:31 AM | I think I was the only person to actually READ your profile. In your profile you answer your own question(s), this one and some from your other posts.
(from your profile)
i think people should always be themseleves. | |
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| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 11:54:33 AM |
(or listen to Portishead's Glory Box repeatedly)
That song is sex, set to music. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 12:02:42 PM | If you are oozing something I suggest you patch it up and see a doctor quick! | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 12:03:12 PM | | Cozmicknockers, in your post "To be true or not to be true" I said I felt like throwing up, and didn’t know why,, well this is why, your just writing this stuff for attention, but I think one post about "You" would have done the job very nicely today. | |
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| Ooze sex appeal
Posted: 2/8/2007 12:14:47 PM | | you're not that hot......and sex appeal level has nothing to do with making a 'good girlfriend'.... why because you're hit on all the time...so you won't be able to not fool around?... give it up... you're hit on all the time, because you don't intimidate anyone. To answer your question.... be single your whole life... yes...sod them all. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 12:15:43 PM |
Cozmicknockers, in your post "To be true or not to be true" I said I felt like throwing up, and didn’t know why,, well this is why, your just writing this stuff for attention, but I think one post about "You" would have done the job very nicely today.
my thoughts exactly! | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 12:19:09 PM | long442...hahaha exactly..OP wholy u CRAVE ATTENTION....................i think u should tryn find out why...and in my opinion girls "like you"(well the impression i get) just make it harder for the rest of us..************* it's NOT ALL ABOUT SEX<<<<<<
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