| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/9/2007 3:37:33 PM | We have all been on first dates and have things to share on this topic soooooo.....
What are your first date no no's and yes yes's?
Share all the good and the bed details too of first dates too if you like. | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:34:44 PM | LOL ok here goes:
No No No:
- don't try and kiss me (pls don't try and pull a fast one either when you think I'm not looking!)
- pls don't ask me to pay half thank you very much (I will offer to pay)
- no no no I'm not coming home with you (dream on baby....!)
hehehe
YES YES YESSSSSS:
- pls make eye contact with me - trust me it is better that way
- lets laugh baby and have a good time no need to be nervous - I won't bite!
- be a gentleman with a twist if you may but a gentleman first....!
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:56:27 PM | No:
1 - Your house
2 - Movies
3 - Getting drunk
4 - bodypaint or belly button shots!
5 - PDA's (public displays of affection - gag!)
Yes:
1 - Be kind and respectful to everyone, not just me
2 - Relax, laugh and have fun - which is super easy if you are with me, unless you don't do #1, in which case I will have to SMACK you and not in a good way! 
I could go forever with the yeses but those seem to be most important. | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/9/2007 6:42:09 PM | First Date No's(these are just my no's)
- No going to the movies, kind of inappropriate when you're trying to get to know someone
- Going to a bar and getting drunk then trying to get me to go back to your place
- Talking constantly about your ex girlfriends
- Constant references to your genitals
- Showing up high(I've had it happen despite the fact my profile says no potheads)
- Don't sit there and not do or say anything
- Constantly curse, trust me NO one is impressed with your trucker talk
- Let me catch you staring at my boobs or my ass, that will end the date quick
- No lying about yourself
- No lying and saying you had a great time and we'll talk soon if you have no intention of contacting me after the date is over
First Date Do's
-Ask questions, be inquisitive, I love it when guys ask questions about me, it shows real interest
-Make eye contact
-Try to listen and talk
-Be a gentleman, respect not just me but the people around us
-Try and have fun, don't treat it as a serious date
-**Do let me know if at any time during the date you wish to end it because you aren't having a good time or because you don't feel a connection** | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/9/2007 6:47:16 PM | No No
asking to meet my kid (seriously had someone ask that...)
grabbing my ass
movies
Yes Yes
Laugh
smile
ask away | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:37:27 PM |
No No
asking to meet my kid (seriously had someone ask that...)
Michael Jackson, perchance?
No No
grabbing my ass
movies
Yes Yes
Laugh
smile
ask away
I'd go along with the yes yes's above. Noone has tried to grab my ass, though.
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:39:06 PM | right on
didnt have to belong to the "IN CROWD" to get some replies
thanks peeps
outstandingggggg | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/12/2007 11:54:01 AM | | Guys..if you do manage to get her to the apt/house for the first date...don't forget to clean the microwave...Not just the part you can see either...the roof too...Chicks like that.. | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/12/2007 1:07:14 PM | no no no's:
two words: Male perm.
do not rub hands together and smile fiendishly as you talk
everytime you date begins to speak do not open a book, yawn, or vomit.
if he/she leaves for the bathroom do not change clothes, tables, personality, or gender
do not greet date with "give me a high five, up high, down low, you're too slow"
upon meeting him/her do not scrape your fingers across his/her shoulder, taste and say "you'll do"
yes yes yes
listen. ask. eye contact. laugh. ask. talk. listen. and a hug. | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/12/2007 1:57:49 PM | I thought I had it all figured out... BUT i'm so far off in left field it's not even funny.. so i have NEW GREAT FIRST DATE ADVICE!!!!
DON"T GO ON ONE !!!
lol.. works for me :)
friends friends friends and more friends.. thats the only thing this  site is good for :) | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 2/12/2007 2:00:27 PM | | Do whatever you're agreeable to? Don't do anything you're not. Be you,let her be herself. Try to get agreement to make another. Don't talk about ex's. Have fun. Don't flirt with other women. Tell other guys to f-off. Find-out the cost-paying arrangement. Don't make it with a person who's only "friend" material. Do make sure where it might lead before making it. | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 1/10/2009 1:32:28 PM |
Share all the good and the bed details too of first dates too if you like.
OP wants the "bed" details of a first date. Cough cough. Its a extremely rare date where the first date involves a bed, and not I'm not going to share any of that.
Some do's and don't's
When shaking hands make it a good firm handshake. The "limp glove" handshake is a turn off.
Hugs are a great way to break the ice and relieve nervous jitters.
Eye contact is recommended over zombie-like staring at her cleavage.
Flash... often and make sure there are no remnants of your last meal stuck on your pearly whites when do flash that smile.
Listen and actually hear what is being said, instead of day-dreaming about what the sex will be like.
Let's not forget the vibrator. Turn off the ringer of your cell phone ringer and set it to vibrate. | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 1/10/2009 6:13:33 PM | ^^^LOL! Tyeee. You're so quick to pick up on the golden opportunities of misspelled words. But ... after I set my phone to vibrate, is there a proper vs. improper place where I should place my phone or can I place the vibrating thing anywhere I want? 
I'm thinking of course that if you were to place it on the table, if it does ... umm ... 'go off' ... the rattling & bouncing around of the sometimes powerful vibrations of the phone on a hard table might be annoying to your date. As well, if it's in my purse, it usually takes me forever to find it & get it out, so by that time, my date would have had to listen to possibly seven rings of a tune he might absolutely dislike. And if it's in my jeans pocket & I have to dig long & hard to get it out, it might excite my date too much.
No day-dreaming about what the sex will be like? Not even a little? Oh darn!  | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 1/13/2009 8:21:07 PM |
Guys..if you do manage to get her to the apt/house for the first date...don't forget to clean the microwave...
Microwave/barbeque ... same difference, right? | |
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 1/13/2009 8:42:07 PM | I caught the typo too, OP, but my first thought was it was probably a freudian slip!
NoNo's on first date:
No cellphones! you're here to talk to me, right? If you need to have a friend call you to get an "Out" of the date, don't bother, just tell me, I'd give you the same respect.
No Alcohol or Drugs! I want to meet the real you!
DoDo's on first date:
Do bait your own hook! If you can do that, you'll make a good fishing partner!
Do remind me if I monopolize the conversation, I have a tendency to babble, especially to someone I've just met.
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| first date no no's and yes yes
Posted: 1/14/2009 1:15:54 AM | no nos
- expecting me to break standard safety rules cause it's you
- dinners that cost a week's wages
- movie
- smoking
- treating me like your therapist
yes yeses
- double date
- people watching
- drinking
- eating
- checking out more than one spot to hang out | |
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