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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/10/2007 7:01:15 PM | | Just a question because it seems that the women my age are very immature and dont know anything of what they want now or in the near future.I enjoy the company of an Older women,even though most of you older women are sensitive about your age and think that cause your 45 your old and have to have a wrinkle-filled older man that is mean.I am sweet,kind,thoughtfull,and would do the world for a person that is the same,i love talking late into the night,and i love makeing love in a slow passionate way.but every older woman i come across wont give me the time of day.cause i'm young.theres nothing wrong with haveing a nice young,in shape,careing,romantic guy by your side and to hold you at night.I dont know,it just bugs me. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/10/2007 7:40:23 PM | Well I don't really know what to tell you I am 38 I have made jokes in the past and present about waiting outside the high schools. Picking out the male graduates that I want. Gods cruel joke about the sexual peak thing I think. But maybee the women you are picking out feel you are looking for a mother figure. I know for me I do not want to raise a man. Or maybee a 45 year old woman has children older than you and it would just be wrong. Think about it this way if you at 19 are as mature and you feel you are. There also has to a a woman out there at 19 who is also mature and looking for someone just like you. No promises on finding that special woman on the internet or even at the public library. But maybee at this time you are not meant to find her. You life has a diffrent direction still to travel.
Don't rush you have a long time to find that special someone have fun enjoy being single. Right now your money is just that yours. Get everything you want right now and maybee when all those girls that you feel are so immature will have grown up and want to have the family life with you. Just have fun get to know yourself and feel secure with who you are and everything will fall into place. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/10/2007 7:44:11 PM |
I enjoy the company of an Older women
Yes but they may not enjoy your company as much...of course they stimulate your mind but what about them???
.I enjoy the company of an Older women,even though most of you older women are sensitive about your age
They are not sensitive about their age--they may be perfectly happy with their age--it's your age they are worried about...
and think that cause your 45 your old and have to have a wrinkle-filled older man that is mean.
Now that's mature. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/10/2007 10:24:50 PM | I wasn't mocking your thread...my answers are serious...you are only looking at it from your point of view not the older person's....but that's normal for a person your age. You'll understand why better when you can see there's another person's opinion involved here. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/10/2007 11:04:00 PM | I'm 45 and I take offence to you calling the men I date wrinkle-filled. Sorry but this is exactly why I don't date boys your age. Those wrinkle-filled men - as you call them - have far more life experiences that I can relate to. They are also sweet, kind, thoughtful and would do the world for a person that is the same. They can spend all night making passionate love to my body and when we are laying in each others arms we can talk about all the things we have in common.
No offence but until you can match my life experiences, I have no reason to consider you as a partner in sex or life. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/11/2007 1:44:48 AM | | The problem is that sex isn't all older women are looking for. Companionship with younger men tends to only be concerned with that. As a young man of 18 do you really believe that you could offer companionship, commonality of interests and hope for a future together to a woman of say 40 up? Likely not. The ages are a lifetime apart. Most women are looking for real love and a companion of more than just the occassional night. There are exceptions but once anyone reaches a certain age, sex is only part of what we seek. I love sex but it is not what keeps a relationship together and in reality isn't that what we all seek? Hope the response helps. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/11/2007 2:45:11 AM | | I'm not going post a reply in the form of an answer as to why what your asking is true, because stereotypical beliefs like that limit the askers ability to see clearly, and foster seeing what is believed, rather than seeing what is there If you hadn’t said, “it seems like,” I’d have doubts about your sincerity in your quest for knowledge, and more recognize you for you overt covert approach to getting messages from older woman who want to assure you that they date younger men. In fact, I have none. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/11/2007 2:46:30 AM | DO NOT DELETE THIS THREAD! Amplify it and let it serve to edjucate. Make him live with it and let him have it!
Find some self worth my friend. The bait you are using is unattractive and exposes a lack of dignity and respect for yourself. OOOOOh yeah! I want to hang with someone who thinks so little of themselves that they run a political campaign Bashing old men as mean, and reading like a romance novel written by an unfullfilled manipulating self-centered beggar!
You make it so clear that my only fear is that you may actualy make enough other guys FEEL like their gross afront may become transparent too, and inspire them to change thier ways. Men like you asure men like me an abundant world of interaction and conversation that delves to the deepest part of peoples minds and souls. I'd say keep it up, because of the advantage I gain. But instead I'll say wise up, because the wellness of the world would transform and heal before our eyes and there are so many women who deserve good men. I can't take care of them all for you! | |
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ya472
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Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 12 | |
| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/11/2007 2:56:38 AM |
theres nothing wrong with haveing a nice young,in shape,careing,romantic guy by your side and to hold you at night
If you enjoy this so much OP, then why all the questions for the 45 year old women ?
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DaCDaC
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Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 13 | |
| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/11/2007 5:50:34 PM | well obviously i didint explain myself good enough.that no one can be edjucated enough to accually think about the post that i wrote,every had the common reaction that i get every day."taking offence" no dont be an intelligent induvidual and really think about it,act out on your first judgemental reaction based on the common thought of this subject. . .nice thinking ***holes.and p.s. I came here for advise and a better understanding of this subject and in hopes that the people of this website could be mature enough to explain. . .but i guess not. . .so that makes you sutibal for a mature relationship if u cant even think about an internet post. . .maybe some of you have alot more growing up to do then you think.
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/12/2007 4:24:18 AM | This is interesting because as a young man myself, I dated women twice my age and have always dated women older than me.
Dating and relationships are about finding common ground and, this is strictly my opinion, I don't think there would be much common ground with someone half the age. Life experience man, it can't be understood until you go through. | |
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MISS13
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Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 17 | |
| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/13/2007 10:10:53 PM | OP...here's an example of why I don't like to date younger men...they are young...here's a few emails I have had the unfortunate luck of getting from one of your friends
1. Why would you get "rude" with....DacDac....he is a verrry sweet person and I just don't understand why people older than us young people have to go off on us just for speaking our minds or saying what we feel LORD....LIGHTEN UP.
2.Who cares if a older woman wants a younger man or a younger woman wants to be with an older man? just as long its NOT braking any laws and is NOT hurting anybody and for your INFORMATION i am 24years OLD i know im still young but i been, through alot of bullshit/hell basicly beaten on cheated on slept around on hit living in pure hell 24/7 until I changed my life and quit worrying about STUPID BS that others say about YOU and SOMEBODY when they do NOT know you!....so please QUIT writting me and get a LIFE and stay OUT of that persons life this is the I N T E R N E T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GET OFFLINE AND TEND TO YOUR KIDS....I MEAN SOME OF YALL MOTHERS ARE ALL WORRIED ABOUT A MAN MOLESTING YOUR CHILDREN WELL I SUGEST YOU GET OFFLINE AND MAKE, SURE NOTHING HAPPENDS BECAUSE SINCE YALL ARE ALWAYS POINTING FINGERS.....YALL BETTER CLEAN OUT YALLS OWN DAMN CLOSEST BEFORE ****ING/POINTING FINGERS AT THE REST OF US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO PLEASE WITH ALL DO RESPECT DO NOT CONTACT ME EVER AGAIN ON THIS SITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Being I couldn't make sense out of most of it I rest my case--imagine--writing to someone and then yelling at them not to write back...whoa......Miss13 | |
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DaCDaC
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Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 18 | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 2/19/2007 1:53:10 AM | 1) I wouldn't write off all women our age (18-24) as immature. Yes, some are, just like many guys our age are jerks and what-not. I have met several girls at my university who are drop-dead gorgeous, intelligent, and an idea of what direction they wish to take their life.
2) I can completely understand why women in their 40s and above would be hesitant to look at males our age for companionship. As others have testified, relationships are more than physical but comprise of other components. How can someone our age relate very well to being evicted? A close family member or friend be diagnosed with cancer or die? How can we sympathize with losing touch with good friends from the past? Though we like to imagine that we have had similar circumstances and been through a lot, an individual who has twice as many years on us has nearly twice as many experiences, stories, and emotions. So, yea, our possible companionship with them would be very difficult.
3) People probably got violent with you since you claimed various attributes about yourself and then belittled their partners in the OP.
4) Lastly, though I haven't had experience with people twice my age, I have recently courted ladies nearing their thirties (which I think are considered to be on the edge of our generation?). Perhaps finding a mature lady who isn't twice your age is what you should be looking for.
Just some insight. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 3/29/2007 2:13:09 AM | Oh for cryin out loud folks!
DacDac...I can only assume you wrote this to seek attention! Happy now? - you got it! You aren't quite as mature as you think you are-no offense intended, & I assure you, you will understand this a lot better when you're 40+. Actually, it kinda worries me that you would want to go out with someone so much older than yourself-ya gotta ask yourself why, & deal with your own issues, on your own.
Most of us are not Demi Moore & Ashton, the boytoy! They will not live happily ever after-mark my words!
I, for one, don't appreciate the young-ins on here, thinking all of us 40+ are "cougars". We're not-thats a fact, Jack!. Nor, do some of us wish to engage in the sexual acrobatics one can expect from a younger person. Nor, do some of us wish to suffer through...yet another male mid-life crisis, & yes, it will hit you too.
Sorry, but I just can't go with someone whose young enough to be my son, nor do I wish to have to deal with what I view as a teenage mindset. Now, please note that I said, "What I view as...", not necessarily what others may think.
I'm guessing that by now....you can easily see that I've had more than my fair share of 40- writing me, & truthfully, I'm kinda tired of the "ooooo cougar-baby, come here" attitude! Careful boys....this cougar has long, freakin claws & the teeth (not tongue) to match! Hmmm....I also know how to use words, & elbows to express my displeasure with your actions....or lack there of..... | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 4/1/2007 8:51:54 PM | You know what? Maybe I'm just tripping because I feel like the Mrs. Robinson thing is going on. I know I shouldn't and many younger men have approached me...I just have a hard time thinking someone younger than me by a lot would even be interested with someone like me who has already done the kid thing etc. I'm a gamer though!!  | |
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DaCDaC
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Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 22 | |
| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 5/2/2007 10:34:34 PM | lol,ya i just have came back and checked it after a month,yes i seemed to half gotten a few peoples attention. : )
Thanks For Yalls Time : )
Daniel | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 5/22/2007 2:09:02 AM | Oh, young pup,..........
Guys like you really reach for those stars! A good quality to have. But, ya know,......I'll give you a reason or two, okay? The fact that you aren't even old enough to get into the bars,...........says~you are too young. Society places this rule~and all must obey! It's a gimmie. Women think young guys, your age,......aren't able to comprehend what it takes to interact with us. Although, you may think different,...life experiences,...tells us so! There's an intellectual level of understanding which holds a significant spot, in a relationship. And usually, from my observations,....guys like yourself~pretty much will always be involved with an older woman. If you desire, you do!
My advice,....start playing the devonair type of guy! If you want the part,....dress and act for the role! | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 5/23/2007 6:28:42 PM | | Dac,I feel for you buddy.Once upon a time ,back in the day,I was in awe of older woman,the mystique of the older woman.Started in gradeschool,early gradeschool,madly in love with every lady teacher I had,and this was pre puberty days,I didn't even know what it was,funny they were probably only 23-26,but was also attracted to those in the upper 30's also,anyways by 17,(and yes must admit tetestorone levels off the scale) I was dating a few of the ladies of greater maturity than I.I had common ground with them,an old soul locked in a young body,most will say"why thats just impossible",well sometimes its just that way.I'm older now,I now, as then ,clearly understand your thoughts and certainly theirs.Dac you can't help what you like,if you have run into some older ladies that made you feel comfortable and was at ease around them,thats great! sometimes it just fits that way ,and wish I had a magic formula to help them ,to like you in return,but "it just is or it isn't",can't force this,continue to like and look for the types you like,and if its to be buddy,it just will be.Its funny Dac,now that I'm older,I still like people at that age for their zest of life,the anythings possible age,the excitement of the unknown,guys and girls at that age are ready for life and hit it head on,you see, now, I view that "older lady" as a lovely young lady,because now I'm older.You see ,the ones I was with, got along with me like peas in a pod ,because, although sex was envolved ,my interests and theirs were cerebral (yes its true)and we truly were a match, you see Dac I had been lucky to have met some older ladies that were my match,now that its been many many years I see its been very hard the find ladies that I had been so well paired too,and realize now with decades of knowledge under my belt how I had been fortunate to be running into good matches at an early age.Be yourself,have fun,act yourself,and a lady of whatever age will be truly in love or like with who you are,thats why you need to be yourself so your bait is for the right fish.You are breaking no laws and hurting no one,if you are sincere,then continue on,and Dac,please stay open to the fact that when the perfect matched lady falls in your lap,that she just might be your age,let me just say Dac sometimes life isn't how one thinks it should be, infact,as an example, the most immature lady I was ever with was 45 and to this day the most mature insightful person I ever knew was 20,these are extremes of the norm but a true life story none the less.Hope this helps,and please,this is only my humble opinion,life through my eyes,all people have different life experiences,one size does not fit all | |
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