| Do you guys really have any luck with sex requests?
Posted: 2/10/2007 9:54:04 PM | Just curious as to the outcome for those of you who are looking for intimate encounters...
Personally, I take it as an insult if a man "assumes" that I would be interested in having casual sex with him. And, yes, I do realise that there are some women, just like men, who are looking for casual sex. Also curious about the reasoning behind seeking multiple sex partners with no strings...from a man's point of view. | |
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| Do you guys really have any luck with sex requests?
Posted: 2/10/2007 10:15:34 PM | Hey journey67,
I don't think you'll get too many replies, because as logic serves correct, 'players' wouldn't want to oust themselves publicly, because that's what women say they don't want..
just my two cents..I guess I would say they like the challenge and, sad to say..bragging rights? | |
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| Do you guys really have any luck with sex requests?
Posted: 2/10/2007 10:50:25 PM | Men that are not looking for a stable partner in order to let love blossom long term, will always be open to multiple partners !
It'll sound bizarre but if you want to understand somewhat why men enjoy bedding many different women, think of it as when most of you women buy clothes for special occasions for instance.....
If you often have special occasions and have the money for it, you'll end up getting new dresses all the time...
Is the first dress no good anymore ? NO !
You most likely still appreciate the ex-dress but you just want something new !
You can also think of it as shoes or anything else instead of dresses.... | |
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| Do you guys really have any luck with sex requests?
Posted: 2/11/2007 1:26:37 AM |
i don't think girls like hearing the truth- that they're only good for one thing, unless they can cook, then two things
Wow..sounds like you've had some really bad luck with women!!
But this does actually illustrate the point of *why* men might want casual sex...there are just as many lonely, damaged men out there as there are women. While women tend to get more lonely and sometimes even desperate after having a string of bad relationships, men tend to go the opposite way and squelch it all down. Instead of taking the risk again, they just look for they physical and keep the emotional at bay.
Keep in mind, this isn't a hard and fast rule...there's always exceptions. I know some very sweet guys who were treated very badly and remain hopeful and searching. And there are women who are man-haters and like to leave a trail of lovers behind them.
As far as how well thier lines work on here...well...they must have at least enough of a success rate to keep them here, or they'd all be gone. | |
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| Do you guys really have any luck with sex requests?
Posted: 2/11/2007 2:28:44 AM | OP, ever had a guy tell you he likes you only for you to have to tell him gently you should Just Be Friends?
Even in the 21st centurary men are still expected to do all the chasing. Ladies, if you had a friend who suddenly got the wrong idea chances are he was never interested in being your friend in the first place - in his mind, he was taking his time and wooing you slowly, actually talking to and getting to know you before making his move, demonstrating what he believed to be the patience and respect a real man should show a woman. And how was this repaid? He was dismissed because he was thought of as just a friend.
Men who are truly successful with women (can get them AND keep them) are nice guys but they have learned that the sad truth is men have to be very clear from the very outset that they have no interest in getting another friend. The "Friendship Zone" is one of the biggest traps to fall into on the path to getting a girl.
However I'm not condoning guys asking strangers for sex. That's just rude, crass and plain creepy behaviour. Most guys end up believing you have to be a bit of an ar$e to get a girl. Sad but true (of the guys)... | |
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| Do you guys really have any luck with sex requests?
Posted: 2/11/2007 3:21:27 AM | I tried casual encounters on various other sites for about 5 years (along side regular dating sites)
I have not been successful once. Actually, that's not true. I had one girl come over and then promptly fall asleep and then ask me to take her home at 6:00am. 
I know it's useless, so it's hardly worth the bother and haven't been involved with that for a while.
And that's only asking women who are looking for that. I won't do it here, because I'd rather have something more serious and don't want to flag myself as that. | |
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| Do you guys really have any luck with sex requests?
Posted: 2/11/2007 11:42:02 AM | Best way to describe it is based off a quote from Ayn Rand (I own everything she ever wrote. Had I grown up during her lifetime and she didn't have a seriuosly life partner, I would have tried to get a date with her!) The quote is:
In Atlas Shrugged, she writes "Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy of life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself."
Men that feel that their self worth is based on how MANY women they can sleep with have some serious issues.
Its not the quantity, likewise it isn't the quality. It is a carefully balance of the two. (And by quantity, I mean quantity with a single partner, not multiples). | |
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| Do you guys really have any luck with sex requests?
Posted: 2/11/2007 12:11:37 PM | | Well apparently there are several successful intimate encounters that go on here, I read them in the forums all the time. I guess that’s all some people really want. They don’t want a woman in their lives, just a screw buddy. Yes women, it seems, sometimes want the same, so its only logical that they would eventually "meet up". | |
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