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Posted: 2/12/2007 8:45:05 AM | | Why do girls have a profile up on here looking for long tern when they are in college and taking care of thier daughter and working so a nice guy comes along and treats them great then she breaks it off because she disn't know she can't put feeling into it | |
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Posted: 2/12/2007 11:36:47 PM | the point of a profile is to tell about yourself, raising a child, starting school, and working are all a part of who you are, as for the reason they put long term are each unique and the answers will vary, I am all of the above but I think I state dating, but in my "about me" section I mention I am open to see where things may lead to.
I myself am NOT looking for someone to come along and make my life easier, or to Take care of me, but rather someone to share the events in my life that are important to me and them to be open to that in return
as for the breaking it off part that too is going to vary from person to another, but I don't see what her "looking" for or her situation ...work and being a mom, has to do with her not being able to put feelings into it. | |
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Posted: 2/13/2007 12:09:43 PM | Have you ever heard the phrase... "Thats exactly what I asked for, but not what I wanted" ?
That sums up women, they all ask for a "nice guy" , but that is the last thing on earth they want.
It sounds like you were simply too nice.
Lets do some math here, the differences between women and men.
A man dates a chick and she turns out to be a total b!tch and mean as hell, well the next girl he looks for will have to be nice, really nice. Women do NOT work this way.
She has a kid, and no husband, it kinda looks like she is used to guys who are NOT nice, this stuff is wired into a woman at an early age, maybe her daddy was a rat **stard, who knows, For some wierd reason women carry this imprint of men with them thier entire life, they dont deviate from thier earliest experiences, if Daddy was an abusive prick, they love abusive pricks, if Daddy bought them a Porshe for thier sweet sixteen, then buddy you better have loads of cash, girls who had no Daddy may appear very needy and always seeking external validation (from friends, men, ect). Now this being said, yeah there are girls that thier Daddy loved them very much, was fair, but not harshe, and to them "nice guy" does mean "nice guy" (these are the ones you marry)
Two things you can gather from this... if you MUST have this girl, you have to figure out what she is attracted to and manipulate the situation so that you appear to be this (eventually she will figure it out and dump you) or you can simply choose to understand, that some women are broken, and you may not be compatable with them no matter how much you want to be, move on, find a girl who can appreciate you, there are "plenty of fish" don't focus on the broken ones who cannot appreciate you, because that is taking time from the ones who will appreciate you.
For more information on "attraction", google "David Deangelo" he also has links from PoF "How to attract women" , ect.
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