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 crazeegyrl
Joined: 6/17/2006
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I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it! I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!

Like most guys say that when they get married that part of the relationship (oral) is not happening.................


I wonder if the majority of women say YES,

or what the thoughts are------be honest!
 mas74
Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 2
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:02:19 PM
oral sex is cheating. well if most guys are not getting it when they get married, they are not telling their wifes that that is what they like. communication is the key.
 ~Brook~
Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 3
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:04:25 PM
Ummmm hello yes :P
 Stairwell
Joined: 10/10/2006
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:05:19 PM
Unfortunately, while I want to agree with you, it is true. It's just like the 'Married...With Children' conversation:
Peggy: 'The bathroom is not a room.'
Al: 'Yes it is. It says so in the title--bathROOM!'
 Kame
Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 5
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:06:24 PM
Yes it is ,its a form of sex.....Iv heard alot of people say it wasnt ,sort of an excuse maybe.
 OBird
Joined: 4/3/2006
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:06:33 PM
If you are doing something sexual with someone else - and not telling your partner about it - it's cheating.
In my opinion.

 agreatfriend2
Joined: 2/6/2005
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Posted: 2/15/2007 1:13:39 PM
Just ask Bill Clinton....

On second thought...
crazeegyrl.......lets put it this way...would you consider it cheating if your husband or exclusive boyfriend was providing oral pleasure to another gal?? Or receiving it from a "friend"..IN my opionion, anything you wouldnt do right in front of your partner is inappropriate when you are in a committed relationship
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 8
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:17:47 PM
Ok,

i mean this isn't to get anyone angry, I have been ok with my S/O doing this, mind we aren;t together anymore, but is a 3-some cheating, if that is what you are into..........It is a bit of a touchy subject, but I am ok with it and wondered what others thought?


I appreciate the Opinions!
 OBird
Joined: 4/3/2006
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Posted: 2/15/2007 1:26:35 PM
The difference between a threesome and a sly slurrrp is that the threesome doesn't include deception.

If the sex is a secret - it's cheating.
If the sex is shared (either in fact, or verbally) with your partner - it's not.

fairly simple, isn't it?

 agreatfriend2
Joined: 2/6/2005
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Posted: 2/15/2007 1:30:32 PM
It seems to me that you are exploring your own parameters of sexuality--why do you care what other people think is cheating (indeed, the word cheating suggests that it's wrong).

Everyone defines for themselves (although society/religion does tend to influence our standards of behaviour) what is acceptable/normal/moral within their own lives and relationships. As long as you are open and truthful and don't hurt those you interact with...and you are both/all consenting adults...live your life as you see fit.

In my world, however, I value loving, commited monogamy.
 cynderalla
Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 11
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:33:25 PM
Without a doubt 100% yes...


But to each their own!
 maple_ridge_male
Joined: 11/20/2006
Msg: 12
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:37:28 PM
If the sex is a secret - it's cheating.
If the sex is shared (either in fact, or verbally) with your partner - it's not.

fairly simple, isn't it?

Exactly

If you can't tell your partner about it either befor hand and get permision.. or afterwards... if your relationship is an open version... then don't do it... it's cheating
 seven15
Joined: 2/13/2006
Msg: 13
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:37:51 PM
Well if it is then anal must be too......go figure.........LMFAO.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 2/15/2007 1:44:25 PM
If someone has thier mouth on my SO's genitals it most certainly is cheating!!!!!! Oral sex, is sex and it is cheating!!! The only person that should be intimate with your SO is you and you only!! If you have choosen to indulge in a swinging lifestyle - or have an open relationship where you are aware of your SO's encounters outside of the relationship - then you are saying it is ok for this to take place!! If it is sneaking behind your back - it is cheating otherwise!!
 *tinydancer*
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 15
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:44:46 PM
Of course it's cheating ... duh! You're being intimate with someone other than your partner.

And that's the truth.....
 xodara
Joined: 10/7/2006
Msg: 16
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 1:54:34 PM
OP, the fact that you asked that question scares me.

 upfront100%
Joined: 1/9/2007
Msg: 17
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:00:22 PM
It is cheating, unless your Bill Clinton, and then it may or may not even be sexual.
 Chazzt82
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 18
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:04:30 PM
Ummm.... YES, I'm sorry but what kind of whore (male or female) justifies cheating by manner of felacio by saying that its not intercourse. Alot of people find oral sex even more intimate than intercourse. This thread is stupid I am voteing for deletion.

Chaz
 Nogoodnames
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 19
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:07:12 PM
Unless you've discussed it with your partner it's cheating. Plain and simple... However, if he/she gives you the go ahead or watches or whatever then it's not because there has been the communication between the two people.
 NeverBr0ken
Joined: 11/30/2006
Msg: 20
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:08:36 PM
Ok in my hero Bill Clintons defence... She was under the desk and hidden... c'mon... but in the fact of the OP's question.. It is.. Unless as has been said above me many times already.. .It is an open and honest relationship.. But be careful with even these.. cause if your partner finds it hard to tell you abour it, or neglects to tell/ask you all together then it was more than just "Simple oral sex" atleast thats my experience and opinion... Happy Huntin.
 Nos800id
Joined: 7/12/2006
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:10:59 PM
It's only cheating if your not in a open relationship... I mean if it's been agreed upon by yourself and your partner then no it's not cheating.

If one of you beleives it is cheating though then it is....
 sexy_temptress
Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 2/15/2007 2:11:45 PM
Hell yes...definitely. Kissing is cheating...and so is oral sex.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 23
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:14:49 PM
Well I guess the majority says it is cheating, and I appreciate the feedback, what gets me is how angry and rude people get about the subject, when there is a huge majority of married people on here and others JUST wanting intimate encounters, for the most part the ones who have expressed animosity about this subject are looking for a S/O............. shows that there are loyal people out there,...............I have done this thread elsewhere and the majority was a NO it isn;t cheating.

I still feel the same about it, but ya, my preference---------and MSG 18-------just because you don;t agree , doesn;t mean you have to call names-----G/U.................



by the way, I am single and NOT looking for a boyfriend........so no sex, no cheating for me, it is only a question!
 panaqqa
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 24
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:16:29 PM
Huh? If you think oral sex is not cheating, then you are probably someone who also thinks that secretly kicking a golf ball onto the fairway isn't cheating, and that going through the drive though at Wendy's isn't breaking your diet ('cause you're driving not eating). Surfing TV channels all evening is not watching too much TV, because you're not watching a show are you? Not declaring that win at the casino in Barbados isn't cheating on your taxes, because they taxed your plane ticket didn't they?

Sticking lunch with the guys on expenses isn't cheating, because discussing the hot new EA in Sales is definitely a business meeting, right? Taking 15 items through the 1-8 item lane isn't cheating if 10 of them are Stouffer's lasagna, because they mean max. 8 different items don't they? Not telling the person you're dating about your 5 year old son isn't cheating, because your ex has custody so he's really his/hers isn't he? Adding that degree you didn't finish to your resume isn't cheating, because you really did most of the work didn't you?

Right. Cheating is cheating. If your partner or new love interest doesn't know about it, and would not be pleased if he/she did know about it then guess what? You're a CHEATER. You belong on PlayerSnitch or one of those other websites for CHEATERS.

I think that's pretty well cut and dried.
 NeverBr0ken
Joined: 11/30/2006
Msg: 25
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/15/2007 2:18:12 PM
I must aggree with the OP... No need t be rude and hateful toward her weather directly or indirectly calling her names... It is a simpel question and no reason for anyone to get their knickers in a knot. C'mon people WHERES THE LOVE!!!


Now if you excuse me i'll be back... time to amoke a dub!!!
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