| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 7:44:01 AM | I am an engineer married 3 years back. My wife's sister who is doing her PG studies in my city, who is staying with my family. She is 2 years younger than my wife. One main thing is my wife's sister has a sexy body and she always dressing very sexually (e.g she uses to wear the saree well below her navel and very low neck blouses also she is having big sizes.
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 7:47:21 AM | You're married, DUDE!!!!
Does your wife cook for you?
Did she have any of your children yet?
Did she raise them?
Does she clean your house?
Does she have sex with a lowdown sleaze like you?
What kind of jerk are you to be wanting to do your wife's sister?
What will that do to THEIR relationship?
Don't you have any regard for either of them?
Women are people. Your wife is your helper in life. You're a total creep for wanting to disgrace her and ruin her family relationship like this.
Married people play around sometimes and that's an issue right there, but with her sister?
That's like poisoning her blood.
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 7:52:13 AM | | I suggest doing away with subtlety, and not in any small part because I can never remember how to spell it. Be very open about your desire for her. in fact, I would discuss it first with your wife. After all she knows her own sister well, I imagine, and could give you some hot tips for getting her in the sack. If your wife has no good advice, then just announce your list at dinner some night when you are all together. It is after all a family matter and as such suitable for dinner conversation. You might find out that some people in your family object the your feelings for your wife's sister. Some cultures take a dim view of that kind of thing. If that might be a concern, just wear a raincoat to dinner in case you end up wearing food. Hot sisters are a problem in many marriages. Let us know how it tunrs out. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 7:55:14 AM | | You aren't specific on what you;'re approaching your sister in law for.Are you approaching her to ask her to dress a little more conservatively or are you trying to come on to her?If the latter it sounds like Jerry Springer material.Not worth the headache. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:02:17 AM | | Eccentric: Good question, but to me it's still not alright. If that's a custom, I have no use for it. Some of the things men do to women over there are intolerable... Women can't even travel in public alone... | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:06:03 AM | Wow!
Hope your wife or her sister doesn't get wind of this!
Being an engineer, you should know the answer to the equation;
1 + 1 + 1's sister = 3
3 = danger
Danger = pain
Pain = bitterness
Bitterness = divorce
Divorce = Lawyers
Lawyers = economic strain
Economic strain = depression
Depression = joining Plenty of Fish.
Joining plenty of fish = you entering another ridiculous thread
ridiculous thread = "Are there any good women out there"
"Are there any good women out there?" = a reply
A reply = "Yes. Me - but you're not my type" posted by your wife!!!!! | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:12:10 AM |
A reply = "Yes. Me - but you're not my type" posted by your wife!!!!!
hahaha, exactly. It sounds to me like you have a very good thing going(with your wife, not your sister-in-law). Don't do something you will regret. | |
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Rencen
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Joined: 1/14/2005
Msg: 12 | |
| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:24:22 AM | Spankie,
I did that once - bad move.
Her reply "I don't want to hear it! Mind your own business".
She was willing to sacrifice her own health, pride and dignity because she didn't want to lose anything of what she had. She was willing to live that way and has been doing so for 6 years and counting.
keep in mind that everyone is different. Some don't mind living in a loveless relationship. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:25:33 AM | I recommend selling her. hhaa; I mean it too!! Get her a man so that her sexual energies do not feel the need to float toward you! We all know how ladies like having their sexuality validated, MAKE SURE that it is not YOU she depends on!!
EEKK!
SCARY SITUATION!!
BECOME BORING!! HIDE!! ANYTHING!!
*crawls under bed to hide*
P>S. PEOPLE: Buddy NEVER said he WANTS to approach her to have sex!! I THINK he is just asking how to deal with her..no?
GIVE the guy the benefit of the doubt..SHEESH!! | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:27:36 AM | | Keep your boner out of her. Unless you're polygamists. And its an open 3 way marriage. Slide by her with your back facing her and not your front side. You could start wearing sherwood forest fashions (pirate open shirt) and international male sandals and outfits to try to "out do" her. You wife; ah, forget her..hahah just kidding. Sounds like an episode of cheers. | |
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Rencen
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Joined: 1/14/2005
Msg: 15 | |
| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:47:26 AM | I read his thread several times, trying to figure out what is being suggested. He talks of a sexy body, etc. He never complained about it, nor did he suggest that he was complaining.
He observed her sexuality. He commented on it. Now he wants your thoughts.
Knowing he is a married man, he doesn't want other pof's to think he wants to cheat.
I am willing to throw the people a bone here - he's wanting to commit adultery.
He's just looking for outside approval and pick up lines/excuses he can use to persuade this woman and excuse himself from responsibility. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:57:41 AM | I found his post hard to understand, thats saying alot coming from me with my record of bad postings! Anyway I guess what he is saying he is turned on by her, his sister in law that is, and feels ashamed, may be??, by it and doesnt know if he should tell his wife to tell her to put some clothes on or if he should hit on his siter in law or if he should maybe say something to her himself. If he takes option one he risks making his wife mad because he noticed and or causing a riff between sisters. If he takes option number two and the sister in law kicks his behind and then tells his wife he risks a sore behind and his wife divorcing him however if she welcomes his advances he ends up cheating on his wife which he may or may not can live with howevr karma is a **** and sooner or later his wife will find out what low life scumbags he and her sister are and kick both their behinds and, hopefully, divorce him. If he takes option number 3 he riskes making his sister in law mad for noticing and maybe she says something to her sister about it and he gets into big trouble. I think maybe the safest thing for him to do is to just quietly move out and start a new life, in a new city under a new name. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 8:59:50 AM | elwood - great posts! 
whether this is culturally acceptable or not, it's disgusting. and all those you are posting to suggest ways he might approach his sister-in-law tell me more about you than your profiles possibly could. morals? ethics? anyone heard of those?
as for you sunder - you completely floor me. the arrogance, callousness and complete disregard you show for decency and respect for your wife.... | |
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Missy
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Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 19 | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 9:04:47 AM | I read his thread several times, trying to figure out what is being suggested. He talks of a sexy body, etc. He never complained about it, nor did he suggest that he was complaining.
He observed her sexuality. He commented on it. Now he wants your thoughts.
Knowing he is a married man, he doesn't want other pof's to think he wants to cheat.
I am willing to throw the people a bone here - he's wanting to commit adultery.
He's just looking for outside approval and pick up lines/excuses he can use to persuade this woman and excuse himself from responsibility.
And "I" will assume that the word "married" automatically tells us that adultery is not the issue. Married men do not aim for sex or have sex withothers; end of story. SO, we now have ourt extreme ends of the conversation; neat. I will assume that he is distressed. Heck man, when I lived with my last roomie and his teenaged niecescame over and flirted HUGE with me while trying to dress there DAMNED sexiest; (which they pulled off expertly), I WAS DISTRESSED DUDE!! Ya know?
I dealt with it AWESOME, but there were times when I was thinking, how do I protect myself against rumour..and temptation WHILE AT THE SAME TIME giving them their fair due as pretty and sexual beings as ladies as a lady needs to be sometimes!! NOT EASY!! If I say something like hi cutie..do I fuel them? If I flirt with them innocently, am I getting them hot so that they need ot run out and hump the first leg who happens to be around? EEEKK!!!!!! And what happens if THEY SUCCEED and turn ME ON!!!?? AARRGGHH!!!!!!
I HATE TEENAGE GIRLS!! HELP!!!!
Thank God I had help from OUR female friends. ()even though they sometimes sicked the girls on us anyays). uh..she really got a major blastof my sexuality every now n then...wow..ALL of my tension was directed at her often times. heeheee; we were a sexy fawkin house mate.
*scratches head*
Oh ya, P.S. [quote]Why not ask your wife how she thinks you should do it?[/quote}
That is your answer dude. Good one lady!! | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 9:19:40 AM | You can tell your wife for the best way our relationship too stay healthy is too tell your sister to cover here body with clothes. Or tell your sister to move the hell out i don't need too see all that skin in my face all time, she gets my motor running. 
What your wife should do is tell here sister have some respect for me around my husband.The wife should tell here sister i wouldn't dress like that if you had a husband. | |
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 9:27:40 AM | ^ Also perfect advice; if I may say.
Heck, your wife HAS to understand, her sister is of HER blood!!
GREAT honest, upfront, NOT INSULTING way to do it.
AND HEY; MAYBE YA GET A FANTASY THEESOME OUT OF IT!!
WWOOHOOHOOOOOOIEE!!!!
THATS NOT CHEATING!!
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| How to approach wife's sister who staying with us
Posted: 4/15/2005 9:30:52 AM | | Jesus just dont do it what are you crazy. You'll come home and they will be sitting on the couch talking to each other. At this point you have 2 decisions run like hell, or see what they want to talk with you about. Or maybe they'll just kill you plus you could never mary the sister after this anyway so unless you and your wife are swingers bad idea. | |
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