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 SucidalBlissfullKisses

Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 1
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 2/22/2007 11:37:46 AM
Hey There Guys

I just have a quick question for you and I would really appreciate it if you would be able to lend me some insight and clafication on this. Is it possible to actually fall in love with somebody for almost a week?
 Creativguy

Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 2
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 2/22/2007 11:42:18 AM
I have to ask if you're phrasing your question correctly. You're asking if it's possible for a person to fall in love, but have that love of theirs last a little bit less than a week? Or do you mean to ask if it's possible for someone to quickly fall in love in less than a week?

In either case, technically, the answer is "yes", but truthfully, "falling in love" is not really love.
 daisie

Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 3
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 2/22/2007 11:50:16 AM
Sure...ONE week in love...that's jsut about my maximum limit there. Right around the 8-9 th day I start getting restless and need to go find a new love.

 mikemasters88

Joined: 1/17/2007
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Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 2/22/2007 12:12:37 PM
I think that feeling isn't unnecessarily love but more lust and acting out of lust leads to trouble.
 funvill

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 2/22/2007 2:34:18 PM
You can fall in love in one night (love at first site?)
Just make sure that its not Lust.
Love and lust can some times feel the same way.
 SareeG

Joined: 1/11/2007
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Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 2/22/2007 3:28:07 PM
If you are asking if it's possible to fall in love with someone that you've known for less than a week, my answer (at least for me) is no. Lust, though? Yep!
 Foxx Mulder

Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 7
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 2/22/2007 4:33:59 PM
Anything is possible.
 !somewhere

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 8
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/3/2007 10:54:21 AM
almost a week???


Stupid me! I was still hoping that it was possible to fall in love with somebody for a lifetime.

I guess thatif the younger generation doubts that it's possible to fall in love for almost a week.... then a lifetime's out of the question?
 SucidalBlissfullKisses

Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 9
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 12:39:19 PM
silly me you mean
 deep_as_an_ocean

Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 10
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 1:08:27 PM
It may be but remember, if it can happen that quickly to fall IN love, it could very well happen the opposite way as well. Are you talking about yourself or what someone else said to you?
 scratch_and_sinew

Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 11
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 1:10:25 PM
I don't think it's necessarily 'love or lust' -- leaving no room for anything in between. In my opinion, it's unlikely that you can be "in love" with someone in less than a week. I *do* think that you can pick up on your "potential to love" (for lack of a better expression,) in a reasonably short period of time. Some people you meet just seem to connect with you quickly, and intensely. It's not always a physical thing either, so I wouldn't attribute it all to "lust". But, yes, I think it's a recognition of your *potential* to love a person, rather than all the things that "falling in love" entails, that you are feeling.
 ohnoudidnt

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 12
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 2:40:11 PM
Anything is possible. It does however take time to get to know someone and all their little quirks and whatnot. One week is gonna be too short an amount of time to really know someone much less love them for most of the population.
 iamasiam

Joined: 2/16/2007
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Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 4:55:40 PM
All I can say is that there is a difference between Addiction and Love.
 Ron9

Joined: 8/10/2004
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Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 5:11:40 PM
A week - a whole week - now THAT is LTR
 themanpc

Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 15
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 5:40:19 PM
You can fall in love in a week you can feel that spark that connection ,but let me tell you ,it can be reversed even quicker ,and can end when you least expect it and it leaves you gutted ....i start to wonder if it is all worth it
 ohnoudidnt

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 16
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 6:11:09 PM

Anything is possible.


True. But is anything probable?
 EastSideEddie

Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 17
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 6:27:08 PM
I've fallen in love for just hours. Sometimes more than once a night. In fact, as I get older, it's down to minutes.....

I'm sure I could do a week.

In fact, that's just about how long it takes for women to start hating me.
 PogueRN

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 18
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 6:39:16 PM
Nope....not a chance.
Lust..yep....Major infatuation...definately.
Think that he or she is the best thing since sliced bread? ...sure.
LOVE? real love? No way.

People ALWAYS portray a "what I think he/she will like" personality. Sometimes the real thing isn't far off from that...sometimes the person deseves and Oscar..and a boot to the ass.

Sometimes i wonder if the phrase "he/she wasn't like that when we first met". or "your not the same person I married." are truths or just excuses to hide the fact that too much bubble gum and roses blurred your vision in the begining.

My two cents worth...your mileage may vary.
PogueRN
 Seavoyage

Joined: 1/18/2007
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Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/10/2007 6:59:36 PM
What is love? I suppose it could be what we call puppy love. I am not so sure I would say it is possible to love someone in a week? Maybe, it is who am I to say.
I mean if you were with someone on vacation and you see them for hours and hours and you bond so well, I guess you could fall in love with that person in one week. So my answer is yes, but it depends.
 Sunflwer

Joined: 2/24/2007
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Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/11/2007 9:45:24 AM
Yes, but it is a process. First you are feeling attraction. Emotions are deceptive. You may be needy, you may WANT to fall in love and you want to be loved back with the same intensity. If all those factors come together it is very easy to develop feelings. If the physical attraction is there when you meet in person, then you can start building on that. The end result is love, if the other person possesses the qualities you are looking for.
 EastSideEddie

Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 21
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/11/2007 10:48:03 AM
You know, I still don't know what she was really trying to ask.

Was it what she typed or was it supposed to be

"Is it possible to fall in love somebody AFTER ONLY a week?

Those are two really different things.
 jack000000

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 22
Is it possible to fall in love somebody for almost a week?
Posted: 3/11/2007 12:42:48 PM
I don't understand your question.
If you meant "is it possible to fall in love with somebody in one week ?" The answer is YES.
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