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 mark j w

Joined: 8/12/2006
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how meen can you be???
Posted: 3/4/2007 5:23:46 PM
hi ladies, all us men have had an ex do something realy meen to get back at us for something we've done. i just wanted to no whats the worste thing you've done to your partner and what was the reason for doing this???
 SareeG

Joined: 1/11/2007
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Posted: 3/4/2007 5:30:29 PM
I've never done anything mean to get back at an ex. Revenge is pointless, and it's not in my nature.
 blastkissed

Joined: 2/9/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 3/4/2007 5:40:59 PM
I'm not proud of it, but I had his mistress fired. I have no mercy on homewreckers.
 mark j w

Joined: 8/12/2006
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Posted: 3/4/2007 5:46:43 PM
ok lets get the ball rolling a bit lol. i had an ex tie me up when i was asleep, she through a bowl of water over me, then stubbed her fag out on me! the reason for this was i told her a few nights before hand i had kissed a girl when i was out!
 TexanAZ

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 3/4/2007 6:16:41 PM
Actually was more funny than mean.

He had to come to my workplace to have some divorce paperwork notarized. Well, I was working at a place with very high security - armed guards, metal/explosive detectors, badges, wands, pat-downs, etc., and everyone had to pass through this before even getting to the receptionist to sign in and ask to see anyone.

I mentioned to the security guards that the soon-to-be ex was coming to the office and if they wanted to have some fun......well, I wouldn't be there to spoil it (or make is seem like a set-up).

The guards set off an alarm when the soon-to-be-ex passed through the metal detector, then had him dump his shoes, pockets, etc. Again walk through the machine. BEEP! Back through only to be asked to step aside and be "wanded". Sneaky guards knew there was a spot in the floor where a metal beam was located and had him stand right on top of it. BEEP!! went the wand, with the ex looking more and more confused about the whole thing.

He had to lift his pants legs over his knees, was patted down AGAIN, was asked if he had any metal or shrapnel in his body from surgeries or anything, but was finally cleared and finally allowed to get himself put together, and THEN the guards called my office to come up and meet him.

I heard about it all later, although the ex did say he thought I paid the guards to do that. HAHA!! I didn't NEED to pay them! They had a blast doing it for ME.

Still wonder if he ever figured out that the joke was entirely on him...
 lookandlearn

Joined: 12/9/2006
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Posted: 3/4/2007 6:27:55 PM
The meanest thing I did? was let his secret new woman have him - man he is unhappy now! and they say there is no revenge!! ha ha (and I didn't have to do a thing except cry for 6 months!!) lol
 24DegreeAngel

Joined: 2/26/2007
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Posted: 3/4/2007 6:29:40 PM
not into the revenge thing myself.

My sister found out her boyfriend cheated then took him on a drive to the country... tied him up... he thought she was being kinky.... she took down his pants and got out the hedge trimmers andtold him she knew he'd cheated and threatened to cut off his penis. (which she had told him she'd do when they first started dating) She didn't but she did leave him there....

Not a big fan of the boy but I still thought that was HORRIBLE...
 quadmom

Joined: 11/6/2006
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Posted: 3/4/2007 6:36:38 PM
I usually move on and don't look back. But if it was a particularly nasty break up...ooh, my vengeance knows no bounds.
 *tinydancer*

Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 3/4/2007 6:44:40 PM
I've never sought revenge on anyone. I wanted to, but that's just not my style. Besides, I believe in karma. You do bad things and bad things will happen to you.
 *tinydancer*

Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 3/4/2007 6:44:59 PM
Dang it ... double post.

BTW, it's M-E-A-N.
 blueeyez75

Joined: 10/9/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 3/4/2007 6:54:27 PM
I don't have it in me to be mean for the most part. If they have done something that bothers or upsets me, I just talk about it and move on.
 MRT-MOM

Joined: 2/3/2007
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hehe :)
Posted: 3/4/2007 7:26:32 PM
My ex and I were introduced to a girl at a bday party of a friend. I was expecting our 3rd and she was expecting around the same time. We all hung out together and our kids played together.

Towards the end of the pregnancys and afterwards....he spent more and more time with her. I asked him about it and he said that they were just friends, she was like one of the guys. I believed this because a) the girl was not attractive at all and b) her ex had left her for someone else. Even though it annoyed me to hear of the town goosip and stories....I shrugged it off and stood by his word.

Well, they both betrayed me. I packed my stuff and left eventually, but it bugged me that I had been made a fool of so.....

I made a flyer with a pic of a sow in a french maid outfit as the bg and titled it "A****'s Homewrecking Services" The title was followed by a lovely description of the type of services you'd expect her to provide.
I made about 50 copies and posted them up and down the Main St of the town on April Fool's day. Man was she PISSED! The town is very small and it got seen by nearly everyone!

I believe in karma, but ppl need to stand up for themselves too. I was not about to be made to look the fool and not say a thing about it!

Tracy


btw....as for him, I didn't have to do a thing. He got her...no punishment worse then that!
 wpg_chick_84

Joined: 1/23/2006
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Posted: 3/4/2007 7:28:09 PM
I've never really done anything mean to an ex before besides call him nasty names. I was tempted to egg one guy's car in the middle of winter but never did (he cared more about his car than he did about me and cheated on me so he probably deserved it).
 belly18dancer

Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/4/2007 7:29:21 PM
when i found out my alcoholic bf had cheated on me...i messaged some women on his ''favorite'' list on another site...let them know he was a great guy who drank way too much, was a heavy alcoholic and that he'd cheated on me...wanted to know if any of them had slept with him, and let them know i was being checked out for diseases due to his craziness....I had photos of him and I posted on my profile to prove we'd been together as a couple

now i doubt any of them believed me since none contacted me but they did contact him and he flipped out on me...he was so pissed off...but i didn't care...i said i'm saving them a lot of heartache...i did notice they were no longer on his favorite list

yeah it was childish, but it made me feel good....
 FluffyPinkCuffs

Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 3/4/2007 7:34:11 PM
I divorced him.
 Winebuddy

Joined: 7/14/2006
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Posted: 3/4/2007 8:04:56 PM
^^^ Fluffy....good one!
I took a box of his precious strawberries and run
 SnuggleSmacks

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 3/4/2007 8:51:56 PM
I'm still friends with all but 3 of my ex's, and the only revenge I got on those 3 was to ignore them until they went away. One of them still comes around sometimes and attempts to hug me. I look right through him without a word. I have no interest in revenge, I just want him to leave me alone.
 judythecuety

Joined: 2/2/2006
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Posted: 3/4/2007 9:34:10 PM
Never got revenge myself..


Know a woman who works for the health department who discovered she was unknowingly dating a married man...She had a health worker go to the house and tell the wife to get tested for various venereal diseases she might have been exposed to by her husband.
 SnuggleSmacks

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 3/4/2007 9:50:02 PM
^^^Wow, harsh!! I've never used such a thing for revenge, but I have told several very persistent and creepy men that I have herpes. This was after telling them all the truthful and honest things like "Go away!"
 judythecuety

Joined: 2/2/2006
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Posted: 3/4/2007 9:57:34 PM
Snuggles maybe you should tell the hugger about your herpes?? heheheh
 SnuggleSmacks

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 21
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Posted: 3/4/2007 10:01:55 PM
LOL...I thought of that, but I'm too nice to do it in front of his present girlfriend (why does he always want to hug me in front of her?!?) Plus, we run in the same social circles, and it could get unpleasant for me if such a thing were actually believed.

The cold shoulder is just beginning to penetrate his thick head. I'm sure he doesn't want to press the issue. All I would have to do if I did want revenge is to tell his girlfriend exactly what he did to me. I'm just not that petty. I wish him happiness, as long as it doesn't involve me.
 sassyaquarius

Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 3/4/2007 10:12:55 PM
When I was young and immature... I may have enacted a little revenge now and again, lol

But I got my Karma... I'm all "pardoned" now :)

I won't go into detail, but I "ratted" out my ex which put him in jail... as they loaded him into the paddy wagon I waved sweetly from the porch..

Oh so gratifying
 agardi51

Joined: 2/26/2007
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Posted: 3/4/2007 11:52:02 PM
I hope he banged your mom when he got released dear. Not to be cynical but I had an
ex bang my dad. What a whore! That is the meanest!
 slyqtpy

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/5/2007 9:56:27 AM
it's just bad karma to do something as revenge. In my experience, after he cheated the fate's deemed it necessary for him to get his penis caught in the zip of his jeans which sent him to the emergency to get stitches in the end of it. I think that's karmic justice! I couldn't have done any better!
 NadiaS

Joined: 1/12/2007
Msg: 25
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Posted: 3/6/2007 9:14:49 PM
I have never even entertained the thought of getting 'revenge' on an ex!! It's completely against my nature and am too proud to stoop that low!!
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