| Body Type -- Prefer Not to say Posted: 3/7/2007 1:51:59 PM | How do you look at photo on profiles? How closely do examine the profile? Are you taking notes.
Of course, looking at photos you can tell what the body type is. Particularly when you see the full-length photo. Difficult to hide the bulging thighs and caboose.
Of course, we all make our decisions on what's inside. Oh, of course. We're not superficial. Not one bit. | |
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| Body Type -- Prefer Not to say Posted: 3/7/2007 2:13:52 PM | Frankly, I don't care if they say"prefer not to say" if they include a recent whole-body shot.
What ticks me off to no end is when I see a border-line obese person with average next to their picture. At the same time if a person is just a few extra pounds in their pictures but carries it well, I don't mind seeing Average. I think I fall into that boat : : lol | |
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| Body Type -- Prefer Not to say Posted: 3/7/2007 2:57:44 PM | In today's world, with a lot of people not eating the right foods and with all the fast food places around, with everyone scurrying about in such a hurry to get nowhere at all, it is possible to say "average" and be spot on.. As everyone is either skinny or "a few extra pounds"! I'd like to see the admin put in a heightand weight box and make it a mandatory requirement to answer. It would discourage a lot of people from posting though.. I am 6' 3" tall and 235 lbs. Trouble is that MOST of it is in my middle and I don't drink beer.. When I see a profile with more than one "prefer not to say" answers included I just skip that one and go on to another one.. I don't really mind a little extra padding anyway... IT really IS what is inside that counts with me!! | |
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| Body Type -- Prefer Not to say Posted: 3/7/2007 3:47:09 PM | | I'm one of those who put "Prefer not to say" in my profile, but I also put my size there so nobody can say I hide it. And if people don't pay attention and read well my profile that is their fault and not mine. :LOL: | |
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| Body Type -- Prefer Not to say Posted: 3/7/2007 5:44:13 PM | | I am a big robust woman and i carry it well and I have no problem saying so in my profile. I think people use the "prefer not to say" answer because they are not comfortable with themselves at this point in their lives. I dont understand dishonesty in saying "a few extra pounds" when they are #250!!! Like no one will notice??? lmao Just be upfront and honest in your profile and people will respond. | |
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| Body Type -- Prefer Not to say Posted: 3/10/2007 6:05:28 AM | | Well I am very honest and upfront about the way I look.. I am a BBW and though a lot of men say it does not matter it really does to them. I look at it this way you can lose weight change your hair color even change the color of your eyes, but you can not change your heart and who you are truly inside. So if you prefer not to say your body type thats fine with me.. we are all indiviuals and have our preferences. | |
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| Body Type -- Prefer Not to say Posted: 5/12/2007 9:08:21 AM | | ok,, this one is puzzling, is it prefer not to say because they are ashamed to say, or is it because they want you to know them intellectually as a person first, then spring it on you,, i think prefer not to say shouldnt be an option given,, its too misleading. | |
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| Body Type -- Prefer Not to say Posted: 5/21/2007 10:02:34 AM | Yeah I don't careif they don't say "prefer not to say" As long as they have recent shots. After all you can how the person is with a good shot.  | |
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