| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 3/12/2007 11:24:47 AM | Okay my name is Dallas and I noticed a lot of women have asked this question "why do men make me feel like they care and as soon as I return the feelings he runs" Well I will like all the men out there to give their point of view on this question and of course the ladies to respond to some of the responses........
I feel as if men love a chase to a degree....I guess it's something about wanting someone to want or need us that gives us a thrill...It's kind of like a rush to wait for that other person to say that they care about us or love us. And almost as soon as it happens we realize that this is getting serious and the fun goes away....I guess for alot of men it's the feeling of fear that takes over becouse we realize relationships come with responsibilty and most of us clearly are'nt very responsible. This by no means say that every man is that way becouse theirs alot of us good ones out there however most of you ladies aren't really attracted to the good ones!! I would luv to hear how all of you feel and why do you think men run?? | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 3/12/2007 11:34:37 AM | Some of us are like dogs chasing cars. What would they do with it when they caught it?
I think many are prepared to chase, few are prepared to know what to do once they have caught that which they are chasing.
Those who bolt once they have found it are addicted to the chase because they don't see the benefits of the keeping still. Some eventually get so tired of chasing that they finally settle down and stop it.
Other chase for life and still believe they'll catch the car.
Good luck to those puppies. Those are what we refer to as "road kill" in the dating world. | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 3/12/2007 11:55:47 AM | Nope - not this one at least.
It is time consuming (I should be working) - just like this post I just made lol. | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 3/16/2007 3:28:52 PM | i'd have to say NOT just men lov the chase. i (women) do to. its exciting, spontaneous, and sometimes even a little dangerous. the chase gives u a rush, helps u feel alive. sad part is in the end 99% of the chases end quickly. i'm still looking for the one that keeps going...........................if theres such a thing | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/13/2007 6:56:07 PM | | Yes, I think. A short chase though with hope...not a marathon. They will get tired and give up. | |
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Kvass
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Joined: 1/6/2007
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/13/2007 7:46:52 PM | No matter what a man has, he is always on the prow looking for something better, even if the person they are with is considered a 10. After the thrill of the chase, they are just not satisfied, they must begin the game again. FUNNY HUH? | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/13/2007 7:53:22 PM |
No matter what a man has, he is always on the prow looking for something better, even if the person they are with is considered a 10. After the thrill of the chase, they are just not satisfied, they must begin the game again. FUNNY HUH?
Bitter are we? | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:04:48 PM | | No! I'm done with that game. You want to run away, then go. If I don't have much history with a woman, why should I chase her? It just tells me she isn't interested. | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:18:00 PM | Do men love a chase? Hmmmm. Time was we used to call that "courting" or the getting to know you period of a relationship. Now days anything can happen in
the blink of ones eye, globally. Instant everything or darn near. Taking time to
understand and learn about a person of interest; "Is that the chase?" I think todays
society is too disposable (my own opinion) and relationships are fast and hot just like fast foods drive-ins. Do I personally from my understanding of the question: Like the chase? I do not think of the time I spend with someone special or possibly special to be a "chase"..... more an information period from both points of view, hers and mine
to discern wether or not a relationship between us would be possible after the intial attraction (what ever that maybe). Ok........enough for now..... | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:27:04 PM | | A chase? Nope. Its fun to flirt and drop little hints, but please, chase me around the house! with hand cuffs, and maybe whipped cream? | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:50:21 PM | Friendly note to the ladies answering in this thread. How can you possibly know what men love or don't love? If the question was, "Do women love toying with men?" and a bunch of bitter men answered "yes", would you agree?
Count the posts and you will see that most men have answered "no" while most women answered "yes" (even though the question was posed to men only). So, who knows better what men like? LOL
IMO, this whole "chase" thing only exists in women's minds as a way to explain being rejected after having sex with a man. That, or they love playing hard to get and think men like it but in reality, it's a major turn-off. | |
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Kvass
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Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 14 | |
| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/14/2007 3:29:09 PM | Not bitter! A LADY always keeps her options open. To the good ones, THANKS for for the kindness and respect shown. For the ladies,and gents, beware of those strickly for the hunt!! It is only a game for them! One bad apple does not spoil the whole bunch!   | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/14/2007 3:49:28 PM | Altho I dont care for her joan rivers did a joke once,(alot of 20 somethings and 30 somethings are saying whooooo.???)lol anyway she said.."When you're newly dating its ,Chase me Chase meeeeeeeee......!!!!!!!!"Then it becomes chase me .....chaaaaase me"...............................then it becomes Ill chase you tomorrow!!!I feel people do this to each other alot its a GAME ...I see it different than the getting to know someone phase...It really bites when you put alot into a relationship and he sees your always there for him, then he bails..WHY??you ask him and he says you got to close....OMG I guess for the chaseeeeee he or she gets tired and needs a new chase... I dont want to play Ill just take my toys and go home.. | |
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| Do men luv a chase????
Posted: 8/14/2007 4:17:02 PM | | no i dont like to chase ....its becomes an act ,,,you may win over someone just to discover she is only tempory and the wrong type ......I like the mutual attraction with an open forward aproach much better. | |
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