| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 2:39:15 PM | Hey There Guys :)
How do you know when you in the uncertainty stage of dating and you aren't in the attractive stage anymore with a person. Any advice would be greatly helpful and appreciated.
Thanks Kristal | |
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| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 2:46:32 PM | If I no longer find him attractive, I'd be pretty certain.
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| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 2:50:14 PM | If I wasn't sure which stage I was in, that would have to be the uncertainty stage, don't you think?
OK, I had my fun writing the post you may delete it now. | |
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| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 4:11:53 PM | C Note that was hillarious!
OP: I see that you are talking about the Mars and Venus on a Date book (yes folks, its by John Gray, lol)... you might want to clarify what you are referring to, otherwise people can't very well comment.. | |
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| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 5:21:06 PM | 3.1415926535897932384626433832795028841971693993751058209749445923078164062862089986280348253421170679......
Or 42.
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| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 5:51:45 PM | How do you know when you're certain?
How do you know when you are "in the attractive stage?"
I think you've answered your own question by asking. But I understand that when we are with someone there is often uncertainty. Things like asking ourselves, "Am I feeling what I think I'm feeling?" Or simply "what am I feeling?"
Sometimes it takes us being away from that person we are considering to get a more objective view. Not unlike an artist stepping back from a painting to see how it's shaping up. | |
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| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 7:42:49 PM | Sometimes I swear the forum moderators don't delete threads like this because they know they can have a good time making fun of a thread like this.
On that note...
WTF is the topic?
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| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 8:08:27 PM | Sometimes I swear the forum moderators don't delete threads like this because they know they can have a good time making fun of a thread like this.
Interesting observation....on top of that, they 'seem' to delete the threads that DO make sense and are good, but ones like these, they just have no problem with. Weird.
OP I don't know what you mean, but how do you NOT find someone attractive anymore.? I don't understand that. IF it's TRUE love, then such a thing will never happen because you have a spiritual or atleast an emotional connection with the person and the physicals should not matter.
If the physicals do matter, then I am telling you the truth here, that it was NEVER love to begin with and the relationship never was, all it was was a play house and two people playing "lets pretend" lol or something lol.
If you REALLY love someone you won't care of how they look as long as they are happy and you both are happy and have good values.
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| Uncertainty Stage Posted: 3/14/2007 9:13:41 PM | | Yeah, sure I know. You know you aren't attracted any more when you go to the mall and find yourself looking at strange new girls with lustful eyes as you walk hand in hand with your gf. (In your case it would be your bf) That is if you used to be in love with him. | |
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