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 paligirl

Joined: 9/25/2006
Msg: 1
to pad or not to pad?
Posted: 3/14/2007 9:10:25 PM
This is not a problem for me, considering that I have a huge chest...but i'm curious, men. Would you rather be flat and look flat while she is dressed? Or would you rather the woman wear padded bras to make her look like she has boobs?
 Fujie900

Joined: 7/3/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:16:18 PM
Comn women stop with the vain BS, just be yourself. Small is every bit as hot as large to me, cuz really im a butt man, so its a no brainer for me.
 darkpony02

Joined: 2/3/2007
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:25:18 PM
If you don't have it, dont pad it! Thats false advertising, besides breasts aren't a deal breaker. What if we padded our crotches, or got 6 packs airbrushed on?
 petrarch2

Joined: 2/8/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:32:10 PM
I would guess the people who pad are also the ones complaining about how after they start fooling around with a guy he never contacts them again. Like the others said its false advertising. How would you feel if you were writing to someone who claimed to be a 6'2", 180lbs athlete only to meet him and find out he's a 5 foot, 300 lbs blad man? There's no difference.
 dorionland

Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:41:03 PM
No. Never pad.

Small tits... wear something tight.. no bra
 talista

Joined: 10/11/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:42:35 PM
Most A cup bras, with the exception of sportsbras...(even some of them do too) are padded. FYI

I actually like a little padding because even with padding my nipples protrude through in the cold
 scruldbrug

Joined: 11/30/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:42:37 PM

Would you rather be flat and look flat while she is dressed?


Well, I have a massive chest dressed or undressed since I'm a great studly manly man.

If we're talking about women, though, I'm an butt guy. I prefer women to have a nice butt and smallish breasts.... just a nice nipple is good.... well TWO nice nipples, that is.
 northsideman

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/15/2007 2:03:43 AM
some say it is fake advertisement, and perhaps thaat is true, but in thee end it is how you want to loook and feel. size is not an issue for me, so i do not care. it is more important to me that she is weaing something that makes her feel comfortable.
 Smjle

Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 3/15/2007 2:23:14 AM
I tend to like small, perky, and firm breasts on athletic girls. Large breasts are going to sag and look bad when the women are older so I find them less attractive. That said, if they have small breasts, a little padding is fine. I would not like a lot of padding.
 shimmerinthedarkness

Joined: 11/12/2006
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Posted: 3/15/2007 2:26:05 AM
darkpony is cracking me up. i'm not a guy...but i have input!!!

not all girls wear padded bras to make themselves look bigger. i wear somewhat padded bras to hide my nipple rings. i wouldn't call that false advertising...i'd call that self-preservation.

lol.
 AwP

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 3/15/2007 2:45:14 AM
Don't do false advertising, wouldn't you prefer to appeal to those who prefer your body type anyway so they won't be disapointed when they see you undress? For those who use padding to hide their nipples, guys LIKE seeing nipples, generally guys tend to like seeing nipple more then they care about their size preferences.
 Sawufirst

Joined: 1/24/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 3/15/2007 4:16:05 AM
Nope just be yourself, if you spend all your time worrying about how you look, you just look worried. And who wants to talk/flirt/mingle with someone who looks worried all the time?
My 2 cents
 zentral

Joined: 10/30/2005
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Posted: 3/15/2007 7:39:08 AM
No padding!!! I dislike squeezing something that feels like a styrofoam cup!
 Ron9

Joined: 8/10/2004
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Posted: 3/15/2007 8:26:21 AM
Lol .....................

When I was about 16 lol - the "truth" fell out of her shirt lol ......

Blue tissues fell out of her shirt .................

I ran into her about 5 year later - that time she took her pants off and all was good ...........

NO - don't pad anything ... just go with what you got and be ........ PROUD
 ubkobalt

Joined: 5/7/2006
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Posted: 3/15/2007 8:48:02 AM
Ok, here's something that I think most woman needs to work on:

Stop worrying so much about these things. Take that energy, and be nice to people. Be fun. Be good. And that will be 100 times more attractive than a silly padded bra. Or makeup. Or hair. Or whatever.
Life can kind of put a spot light on you in people's eyes when you're these things.

The spotlight doesn't follow fake plastic gimmicky people. Unless you're Paris Hilton.
 haliboyvin

Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 3/15/2007 9:38:03 AM
Well I guess I can come on here and give you the typical answer your looking for and say that size doesn't matter and its who the person is that really counts, while I do agree with that and don't really care about a persons chest size I don't think they should have to fake it and try to make people believe they're bigger then they really are because 1. some guy might be into bigger sized girls and find out shes not as big as he'd like and she'd get hurt and 2. people should feel comfortible with who they are without all the typical cliches that people lay on us, but hey if that floats your boat and you think you need todo that to be yourself then it really doesn't make a difference.
 -=Kalidor=-

Joined: 7/14/2006
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Posted: 3/15/2007 12:04:07 PM
I stopped paying attention when I read "considering that I have a huge chest"
 coruja

Joined: 7/17/2006
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Posted: 3/15/2007 1:18:49 PM
I'd rather she had the confidence to dress how she wanted to for herself - if she's happy with how she looks, she'll look good to me.
 hope4forever

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 3/15/2007 1:29:52 PM
I'd say whatever makes you comfortable. I'd be happy having someone to be with. I wouldn't be out to show her off, just have a good time and get to know one another.
 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
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Posted: 3/15/2007 1:44:02 PM
should a guy stuff a cucumber down his pants before he goes to the club?

Its like the fast food ads.. you see this delicious big burger in the add then you unwrap it and here that sound WAhhh wahh wahhhhhhhhhh! Best to be honest up front.. we can tell if its stuffing or turkey
 millwrightpaul

Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 3/15/2007 1:45:35 PM
do not pad...accept what you have and move on. that is not all men are interested in.

would you like it if i showed up on a date with a pair of socks down my pants?

why cant you women just accept yourselves. you are much harder on yourselves then men are. women tend to be their own worst enemy.

i apologize to those women that got caught up in my generalization, but i was to lazy to rewrite my post.
 Ryan832

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 3/15/2007 1:46:10 PM
A woman should not pad. Men know the difference between real breasts and when a woman is wearing a padded bra. I like girls with smaller breasts, but it is a slight turnoff when they wear a padded bra.
 gallowaylad

Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/15/2007 1:47:11 PM
no pads, burn those bra's i tell thee, send them all to hell
 Algy

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/15/2007 3:02:37 PM
I’m all for padding. You never know when you’re going to need a tissue. I knew a girl that used the entire front page - that really came in handy when we were stuck in traffic.
 Thalomos

Joined: 5/29/2006
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Posted: 3/15/2007 3:05:13 PM
Do you think she could save the funnies for me?
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