| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 11:32:17 AM | would you date a woman that is 5 months or up pregnant?
No I'm Not pregnant, but I've heard some women that while they are pregnant they still want to date other men. I wonder why they are looking to date still?
I would love to hear from both sides of the coin. :-)
Plus I thought it would be a good topic to talk about.
***And yes I'm doing some research for a piece I'm working on***
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 11:38:20 AM | | oh hell no.. when i was pregnant and single, the LAST thing i needed to be putting my energy into was another relationship. i was far too busy putting my energy into creating another human being. i didn't even think about opening the door to a relationship until she was 6 months old.. and even two years later i'm not putting it first on the priority list. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 11:57:20 AM | | i wouldnt date a woman who was pregnant simply because i would find it hard and weird when the time came for the birth etc having the father around all of a sudden, plus i would be worried i couldnt connect or strike a bond with the baby which would surely upset the mother. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 12:10:36 PM | I am pregnant; I am not looking to date, too much for me to sort through right now. I think it can work for some people however. I guess if the person was ready to date had closure with the ex and had all the baby details in place she could be ready to date or start a new relationship again.
Some men find pregnant women incredible sexy... On the plus side most pregnant women have incredible high sex drives..Maybe that just me though..lol | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 12:25:29 PM | Funny story:
When I was pregnant w/ my son, his father and I had broken up and I didn't want to get back together. When seeing me a little sad about my situation, a male co-worker asked me to a movie (I thought to cheer me up..after all..who would date a pregnant woman?) My female co-workers thought he was going to hit on me....the other male co-workers thought maybe he was gay. Turned out to be neither........it seems he was a religious fanatic and throughout the entire movie he either showed me quotes from the bible or preached at me about how the baby needs a father.....
Not a fun 'date'......lol | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 12:44:02 PM | I think it'd be ridiculous for a woman who is pregnant to expect to find a *new* guy to seriously date (with the exception of her being a high-level model, rich, and/or famous). I think the limited dating options for a woman who is pregnant would be guys that she has known for a long while... him knowing great qualities about her and them being a great match, etc. But even that would be rare, depending on many months along she is.
It's hard enough for single parents to meet someone new for an established relationship when their child is 1-4 years old... let alone being pregnant and the guy knowing that he would have to tackle responsibilities in the future before even getting to know her (and while she's pregnant).
Random hookups or 'friends with benefits'? Possibilities, depending on what kind of guys she'd settle for on that! But then again, she wouldn't be really 'dating' them. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 12:57:11 PM | | When I was pregnant with my first I found that many guys were interested in one thing only. A one night stand it was like I was pregnant and single so I must be easy so they thought they could get some. When they found out that was not what I was interested in they called me all sorts of names. I was not interested in dating for that reason alone. How did I know if they wanted a realationship or quicky so I banned guys all together until after I had my baby and then for some reason after I gave birth their attitudues changed and the guys I met wanted a realationship so its a two headed sword as far as I am concerened. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 1:20:52 PM | Out of experience when i was expecting i actually end up going out with a guy who i randomly met at the laundrymat i was about 3 or 4 months pregnant...we lasted only eight months...but it really created a special bond between us since he was there for me and the kid all the way to the end saddly my colicy kid cause us to break up....so i guess it all depends on how commited the guy is and how prepare he is to have kids...
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 1:29:43 PM | Well, I probably wouldn't at my current age. But I have.
I didn't know she was pregnant in the beginning. It wasn't until we had dataed for about a month that she told me. But, to me, it wasn't a huge deal. The "father" was out of the picture and we got along just fine. Eventually, we married and lasted 25 years.
THEN she left.
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 1:34:09 PM | | the stress of dating should not be something that someone should be putting themselves or a baby through. If I was single and pregnant, dating would be the last thing I would want to do. I understand that preganant women who are single feel lonely and vunerable, but going out on dates is not the answer. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family. Whos to know what this guy will turn out to be ? Do you really want to put yourself through that and have him around for when your child is born? Theres just too many sickos out there who are just waiting for a oppurtunity to prey on vunerable and defenceless women, don't make your self the target. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 6:02:27 PM | You see that is what I thought too. But I then I heard someone saying she would love to date even though she is pregnant. I was "Wow, I would be too busy thinking about other things." But hey, you never know. Maybe if you meet someone you can connect with. It could be a good thing.
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 8:18:35 PM |
I've heard some women that while they are pregnant they still want to date other men. I wonder why they are looking to date still?
I think women still want to date because they are vulnerable and scared they don't have a father for their baby. Seriously! I think any man who gets involved with a pregnant woman should be prepared to become her baby's daddy. That's what she is looking for. That...and to know she is still desirable, sexy, and can attract a man.
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 10:51:00 PM | | I woudlnt date a pregnat chick or a woman with a kid. Nothing wrong with them but thats jsut too much for me to handle as i alreay lead a busy life. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/23/2007 11:34:40 PM | It would depend on a lot of different things. If we were a good match, had similar interests... the usual things. I think how much the biological father was involved in the picture would be a big influence as well. If they were still really close I would be wondering if they were going to get back together and whatnot.
I guess the way I look at it I'm willing to date a woman who has kids, why wouldn't I be willing to date a woman who is pregnant. Maybe already having kids of my own has some influence on it as well... I like kids. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/24/2007 2:44:55 AM | I can't imagine being single and pregnant and even wanting to date.
yes you might feel lonely/alone etc but to me it wouldn't be fair for the other person to enter a situation like this , unless it's very clear where everything stands (ie - biological father, relationship ,circumstance etc) and usually , with these types of situations it's far from clear. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/24/2007 3:37:00 AM | | I would IF the child was mine, BUT IF it was somebody elses child that would be a very different matter - saying that - I'd be prepaired to date a lady who has children by someone else - s0 there is a dilema. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/24/2007 3:59:23 AM | well i was ''dumped'' for another woman who was pregnant ,,,,seemily she got knocked up on a one night stand ,,didnt know the father and my ''ex'' took her on and baby and now ive heard she is pregnant by him after dating seven months ,,lol ,,,
well all i can say is good foundation for a relationship!!!!! dont think i could settle down or have a realtionship with someone who ''gave it'' away so easily ...but takes all to make world goround dont it ,,, | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/24/2007 5:02:05 AM | | i would if we had something special but it would be easyier if the dad was a dead beat,i did date a girl for 3 years and we split it was hard because i missed him and she stoped it all and he was like my son and i wish he could go with me fishing but instead he has no male inflience because she didnt want him around my new girl friend .i can understand but i have a good job a nice house and he craves male attention and i only see him in the park and i have to do it on perpiss | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/24/2007 9:27:54 AM | Who's to say a pregnant woman can't genuinely fall in love with a wonderful guy who adores her and wants to be part of her life. Many are making it seem like a relationship is only gong to cause stress to the pregnant woman when it actually, with the right person, be an incredibly positive experience for her. I think it all depends on the person and the situation behind being pregnant and single.
I think pregnant women are the sexiest thing on this planet! I am amazed at how many women have told me their husbands wanted to keep their distance from them when they were pregnant. I would have been the complete opposite. | |
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