| good kiss / bad kiss
Posted: 3/24/2007 11:58:35 AM | there are many threads here on the subject of kissing. but none that asks simply what is good and what is bad?
ive always wondered when people talk about a good or bad kisser what they mean.
it seems that most agree that just sticking your tongue down someone's throat is "NOT good". but aside from that, what is it that makes someone a GOOD kisser or a BAD kisser? | |
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Posted: 3/24/2007 12:09:39 PM | watching each others pupils dilate and the blood rushing to the cheeks
kissing and stroking a womans neck is very sexual and enjoyable
the adrenalin rush and the tingling down youre spine when you both connect with a passionate kiss.
kissing is great
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| good kiss / bad kiss
Posted: 3/24/2007 12:47:01 PM | You'll know which is which by experience only. Definitely some people have it and some people don't. Sort of like a hand shake. Is it firm or limp? Is it a connection or just......? I guess you could practice kissing an orange or something . Bottom line me thinks you either have it or don't have it, if you don't have it then you probably never will. Think its a talent passed on by genes.
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Posted: 3/24/2007 12:50:22 PM | I would have to imagine that this is a personal preference--what's good/bad for one may be the opposite for another. But from someone who has a passion for kissing.....
Bad kissing: Hard lips, too much force, using too much tongue, using the tongue like a sword, using the tongue like your whipping up a cake batter, so much saliva that it runs down your face....
Good kissing: Soft lips, meeting slowly, taking your time to enjoy feeling the texture of each others lips, lightly brushing your tongue against his lips, stopping momentarily and feeling each other's breath, tongues gently dancing.......whew!!! | |
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Posted: 3/24/2007 6:12:50 PM | The worse kiss ever was some years ago, but I'll never forget it. A little background info... I set my cousin up with my friend and my friend then wanted me to meet a friend of his. My cousin and I went to my friend's house. Well she and my friend went into one of the bedrooms and left me with this guy. He said he wasn't that experienced with girls.
Eventually we ended up kissing, but I felt as if I were kissing a St. Bernard. Way too much slobber for my taste.
Afterwards, he made the comment about practice makes perfect and if I wanted to kiss him again. Talk about putting me on the spot... Needless to say we didn't see each other again and if still gives my cousin a good laugh from time to time. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2007 7:15:34 PM | | uuhhmmm, you need to kiss someone for figure this out... And unless you're going to drive around and kiss everyone on this site and then make a post on each kiss, then this thread doesn't have much point behind it... | |
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Posted: 3/24/2007 7:24:08 PM | | Everyone has there own preferences on how they like to kiss and how they liked to be kissed, what is one good to one may not be so to another...personally for me I can tell if he will be good/bad lover by how he kisses, can't kiss worth a crap..sex will be bad and unfilling for me, probably good to him. Good kisser and its on like donkey kong for us both | |
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Joined: 6/26/2005
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| good kiss / bad kiss
Posted: 3/24/2007 7:53:37 PM | Bad kiss = too much slobber, their tongue all over your mouth i.e. over your teeth, on your gums, on that little thingy under you tongue......or they just dart their tongue hard and fast into your mouth (I call it a woodpecker kiss)....ewwwww!!
Good kiss = well, they just speak for themselves.
I once had a guy try to french kiss my eye....omg, that really freaked me out!!! | |
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Posted: 3/24/2007 8:55:02 PM | a good kiss can make you orgasm,..a bad kiss would be a deal breaker. kissing should be fun and gentle...well sometimes forceful  | |
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Posted: 3/24/2007 10:08:33 PM | | You cant ask a question like that and expect a straight answer, it all depends on personal preference. What one women might find sexy, another might find gross. I suggest take it slow first and see how she responds. | |
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Joined: 8/24/2006
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| good kiss / bad kiss
Posted: 3/24/2007 10:12:49 PM | Well, if someone sticks a tongue in your mouth and you start choking then that person is a bad kisser...
In my opinion a good kisser is someone that kisses with passion and tenderness. Also the way she kisses can make someone a good kisser for me.. But I think everybody has different taste on just about everything, including kissing, so it depends on how you want to be kisses that makes a person a good kisser....
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Posted: 3/24/2007 11:47:03 PM | I must say darice 58 that you took the words right out of my mouth. My sister used to complain about the way her husband kissed. Evidently, she never told him but he would slobber all over her mouth. Recently I met a guy and right away he started with the slobbery kisses. I didn't say anything for awhile because I didn't think it would make any difference - I just kept pulling away every time he started the slobbering. Well finally I just got sick and tired of it and said "stop slobbering all over me" and he just stopped. Guess no one had ever told him it wasn't good or he had some ulterior motive for doing it. To me it was disgusting - especially since I hadn't known him that long and wanted to begin the relationship as friends at first, which he agreed to. Of course it was too late for "us" by the time I had to tell him and it was the end.
Now, a good kiss - starts out soft and sweet and then progresses as the two people give each other signals. Rushing things is a turnoff for me. When I grew up that's all we did unlike today's couples. So, we got very good at it! LOL  | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 12:27:38 AM | When a guy puts his hands on the sides of your face and does that long, gentle, slow kiss... Yeah...good kiss, that. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 12:38:37 AM | | I agree that a kiss should be good and sincere and erotic | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 1:17:32 AM | bad kiss - too much, slobbery or too little, no emotion, no passion
good kiss - to me nothing is better than a great kiss, soft, wet ( not too wet), hot,
not rushed, passionate
I agree with what was said above, if someone cant kiss, I would not hold out
much hope for passionate sex | |
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kaelen
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Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 18 | |
| good kiss / bad kiss
Posted: 3/25/2007 12:30:07 PM | bad kiss= 1) mouth closed too tight
2) slobber all over your face...for gawd's sake GROSSSSSSSS!!.......lol
3) keepin their head in one stationary position......move YOUR head around!!!!
4) DO NOT cram your tongue down my throat to check 4 tonsils...not there neways
g8 kiss= 1) me personally has to be IN LOVE w/ the person 4 one
2) lookin into each others eyes and see/feel the intensity of it
3) movin ur head around would help as noted above.....
4) using each others hands on one anothers face/hair to caress
5) bite the lip softly.....k,.......*phew*....."it's gettin hot in herre"... | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 4:00:35 PM | how to win all the ladies
Step one: Pounce ! give little to no warning and always when least expected like right after they tell you their left hand is being amputated due to chronic nail biting.
Step two: Invision your face like a hoover vaccum vast and wide with the unparraleled ability to suck with great force, use the force to form the tighest of seal (if your mouth is big enough enclose their nose to and cut off the air supply that way the added thrill of no oxygen gets the blood pumping.
Step three: Penetration! This is where we seperate the boys from the man! you going to be a hero or a zero? Take your tongue and cram it as far into thier mouth as it will go then farther. its never to deep just imagine your drilling for oil. Then try to lick the back or their throat or tonge to hit the gag reflex and that will really send them over the edge.
However keep in mind if you just want to save time and effort you can just spit in their mouth and tell them its practically the same thing, right sweetcheeks?
at that point the women will line up for you | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 4:12:34 PM | | I totally agree with darice and her points...I enjoy kissing immensely. If a guy has dodgy technique, I will show him how I like to be kissed, but I show him in an unintimidating, fun and sexy way...I've had no complaints, and most guys are more than happy to be demonstrated on! | |
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Joined: 8/2/2006
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| good kiss / bad kiss
Posted: 3/25/2007 6:45:19 PM | I like the approach of it all. I believe the approach right before is KEY to a great kiss.
I am not a big fan of too much tongue and tons of saliva everywhere. If I am going to kiss someone new, I would feel for their way of kissing and kinda follow along till I am more at ease with kissing them. Usually that works for me. If I am not enjoying it at all, I will stop it and comment...Yes I am that bold! I am no stranger to letting them know how I like to be kissed. I have never had complaints in this area | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 7:18:23 PM | good kisser - firm without being forceful. not too much tongue - tip only, thanks!
bad kisser - excess drool, excess tongue, excess suction, sloppy, biting, and not stopping for breath on occasion! | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 7:40:04 PM | I stumbled on this and just had to share it with everyone. So true and too funny!
The Katrina Kiss. If you watch television and are even the least bit aware of world events, you know EXACTLY what I'm talking about! This is a kiss with entirely too much water. You are drooled on, slobbered on and when the kiss is over, you feel the need for a towel and maybe a shower. If you have a salivary gland problem, or your partner just makes you drool with lust, try SWALLOWING before you start KISSING. 
The Iguana Kiss.  Crusty, crunchy, scaly lips are OUT. This is a true case of lizard lips! Keep that kisser soft and touchable. If you run your lips gently across your lovers neck, cheek and lips, they shouldn’t be left with what look like paper cuts.
The Prozac Kiss.  You might wonder if this tongue needs tranquilizers, as it appears to be having a nervous breakdown! Fast, furious, darting or high-speed swirling motions reminiscent of a washing machine on the rinse cycle. Interesting I suppose, if you’re into that sort of “household instrument” thing.
The Cave.  In this instance your partner’s mouth is open so wide that your tongue meets nothing but air on all sides! There is no exchange of sensation. It’s like you’re kissing by yourself! Try saying something and see if you hear an echo!
The Dirty Harry. Guys, either grow a beard or shave. That 5 o’clock shadow thing looks cute, but it can wreck havoc on a woman’s tender body. Whisker burn just plain hurts. You don’t know what it feels like to have sand papery stubble pierce the skin around your eyes or cheeks! With half her face scraped off, a woman feels less than romantic and is more inclined to get up to seek medical treatment than she is to get busy.
Trolling for Tonsils. Everybody likes tongue kissing, but my goodness! A little restraint on the depth of the kiss might be in order.  If you have a tendency to extend your tongue to its full length in your partners mouth, be sure to check for a pulse when you get through.
The Kiss of Death.  You would swear that there is a body buried around here somewhere, because the smell of decomposition is mighty strong! Brush those teefis! Use one of the vast selections of mouthwashes on the market. Hey, they even come in various colors, so it's possible to find one that coordinates with your bathroom décor! Get a new toothbrush every 3 months! Visit your dentist and check for gum disease and cavities, both of which contribute to bad breath. Eat more fruits, vegetables, and drink more water to keep your insides clean too.
The best kisses are those that are memorable, but leave you pantingly wanting more.
The language of a kiss is communication without words. At various times you want to communicate attraction, affection, love, passion, lust, and I’ll miss you, baby.  | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 9:51:15 PM | Good Kiss- The coming together and soft touching of the lips, gently parting as the tongues touch softly exploring. Nipping the bottom lip and then bringing it gently in for a little soft sucking. Then a little more intense, little stronger, breathing harder as you explore each other a little further. Building up till you have each other so hot that you just have to have each other.
Bad Kiss- opening your mouth as far as you can, sucking the lips of the other like you want to separate them from the face. Slobbering so it runs down the face and falls into the other persons mouth. Touching the dates tonsils with your tongue to the point of gagging her. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 9:55:34 PM | :)a good kiss is when I feel the passion all the way down to my toes and she feels it all the way in her juice..lol..hehe
a bad kiss haven't got a fkn clue | |
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