| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 3/27/2007 9:37:53 AM | Okay I've been doing these online dating things for about a year. Trying different sites etc. I have given a few guys my IM and chatted with them.
It's like BAM right off the bat all they want to talk about is SEX. The bad thing about it is when I tell them it makes me uncomfortable to please not do it they just have to get in that last SEX comment.
So what is up with you guys DAM!! Aren't there any of you out there that would like to meet first and see what happens? I guess I'm just from the old school. The funny part about it is it seems to be more the older men than the younger ones. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 3/27/2007 9:50:47 AM | I get that as well. Sometimes in the second message... and how I see it & say it is like this... I am a mature adult & I can talk about different aspects of sex with another adult. BUT it DON'T mean I'm gonna be having sex with the person I am talking about it too. Just in general but, if the man is asking can I do it to you like this, would you like it if I etc; I just say..... well the other times i've done that like that with SOMEONE eles it was all good. BUT I'm not looking for a FWB, a booty call etc;
So if that's what your looking for I think we've waisted enough of eachother time on the subject.... have a good day.......... Bye!!!!!
Men & woman that can talk about sex in the open I feel it's a good thing... but when you don't know the person (as in just starting to talk) then what's the point!! I know me personaly am NOT gonna go just meet someone cause he tells me what his "skills" are..... Just cause I'm on a dating site, don't mean I'm desparete in getting laid!!!!!
But that's just my 2 Cents on it!!  | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 3/28/2007 6:14:43 AM | You know -- I don't IM with anybody that I don't know. I work at home, on my computer, and I always forget to turn my IM off and then my work is interrupted.
Since I'm not assertive enough to tell somebody I don't have time to talk, I miss deadlines, etc.
So - nobody does me that way. They're a lot less likely to write stuff like that in an email that will be on your computer, I think. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 4/12/2007 3:01:05 PM | If you read my profile, it specifically addresses that about myself.. i do not want sex from any one i just met on this.. If i want sex i found out from these sites that guys can get it any time they want it.. i turned more down than i ever got.. so no ma'am.. it isn't just about sex with me.. I want that feeling i got a million years ago when i fell in love and i was married for the first time.. I want that feeling again. to be in love, Where the heart itches and you can't scratch it.. Where my whole life is the though of her. To hardly wait to get off work or wherever and see her.. Not all men want sex.. the sex is not any good if you don't love her.. it's just a natural animal act if no feelings involved.. women are doing it too | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 4/17/2007 5:18:22 PM | | Ladysj I will say this guy likes sex also but I am a gentalman and yes I like to date and get to know someone and its not just for sex. There are other things in life besides sex. Yes I love it and want it but I want to get to know someone first. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 4/18/2007 2:04:25 PM | | I so agree. Sometimes I'll be lucky and run across some guys who will talk about the real stuff, but man, sometimes I'm really uncomfortable. And....asking me to send naked pictures? C'mon....if I want you to have them, I'll send them. Don't start asking me two days into a conversation. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 5/22/2007 7:06:47 AM | | I have heard many women that I have talked to, or read thier profiles, mention this subject. I'm not sure if guys do this because they can simply because they have the "shield" of the internet, or because they simply have no manners or morals. I come to these sites to meet people that in other situations I may not meet. Talking about sex right off the bat, to me, is a HUGE turn off. I really have no desires to talk to a woman who is ONLY interested in my apperance, or what I have done in my past life, or what I'm working on for my future life. If you have known each other for some time, and your talking "sex" as a tounge & cheek kinda thing, then have a blast, it may be that it's a good release of tension, or an ice breaker for that first meeting. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 6/14/2007 1:13:52 PM | I'm sorry, but it sounds like there are a lot of jerks out there. I'm on this site to talk to people, and find some interesting conversation. Sex isn't even in the equation, I mean I have to like someone as a person before I even consider sex.
These kind of sites allow me to talk with and get to know people who I otherwise might not get to be able to know. I'm here looking for maybe eventually a partner not for a conquest. It sounds like even some of the older guys here really need to grow up. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 6/25/2007 10:48:06 PM | Girl, I so agree with you and the other ladies. I know there are decent guys out there, but where are they? I see the ones here on this forum for the most are decent, but where are the ones I can make a connection to? I'm tired of guys emailing and IMing me about sex too and wanting naked pics of me. And asking if I've got friends who are willing to join. It's not right. I have even specifically put in my profile not to say anything about sex and that I don't want it, but I still get the pleading emails for it.  | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 9/17/2007 4:01:09 PM | | You want what you want, and we want what we want. I don't know about the rest of those co_ _ suckers, but I am willing to give a little to get a little, ain't that what we as partners are suppose to do? help each other with our needs? | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 10/10/2007 6:56:48 PM | No Not all men are just after sex. I dont ever mention sex when I meet a lady. Why mention it? If we are attracked to each other it will in time naturally happen. Rather you want to understand the persons heart first. This only comes from talking about real issues of life: marriages, kids, jobs, Church background, and etc.
Intimacy with a lady must flow from her being totally secure with you and this doesnt happen on first date or second normally. However I have had a woman trick me into her bed, on our second meeting. Ok I willing went along, that is a long story!!!
Men who are eagar to bring up sex are "shooting themselfs in the foot". | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 11/2/2007 5:21:37 AM | I canonly speak for myself. No i am not here for the sex. Sex being great as it is, that is the last thing I wanted when I joined the site. I have dated three women from this site. The first one, got drunk on the date and then became angry when I told her we were not going to have sex, and went home. Then other two made it very clear that it was okay if we had sex on our first date. Didn't happen. Looking for the old style dating. As you said there on men on here that are here just for it, but then there are women that are the same way. Just have to be firm in your satand and say no sexual talk included. Take care. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 11/18/2007 5:02:45 PM | Hello...there are plenty of us (men) that are here looking for something other than sex....It of course doesn't mean that we dont like it ..or want it...we are all human..both men and women alike.But it only takes a few men to ruin the chances of many.
I for one am interested in much more than sex...there is much more to an intimate relationship than sex..... | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 2/11/2008 9:05:37 AM | | Set your own boundaries. If you are uncomfortable talking about sex, tell them so and if they violate that, click them off. How hard is that? The truth be known, women are just as interested in talking about sex as men are. They are just on a different timing and personality setting level. Another truth be known is that somehow beneath what seems unseemly behavior to you, men are looking for intimacy because of sex and women are looking for sex as the ultimate result of intimacy | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 2/13/2008 10:48:38 AM | | I haven't been on dating sites long but it sure didn’t take long to figure out why some people have it posted that they are not into sex talk. The young ones always seem to turn into cam nuts right away just so they can get off. I enjoy camming but to see the persons reaction to what is being txted not to see the physical side of their desires. Now that I am making that clear I am not getting trapped in someone doing a nice conversation for a few mins just to flash me as soon as possible. Sex is great and I am absolutely a sexual person but common give me a break if I wanted to do myself why would I be on here. It was 1990 when I dated last so this is new to me, but really lets get to know someone and meet and then see if there is any chemistry to set on fire. Not start a fire without any way of putting it out. Most of the time it is the smell of someone and the feel of their hand that lights my fire not their ability to brag about what they think I might want them to do to me. So guys if your trying to light a fire why not find out what kind of kindling you started with and then set back and enjoy the bonfire. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 5/15/2008 3:05:43 PM | In the past month I've stopped talking to two different women I've met on POF because all they wanted to do was push a relationship and sex before I wanted to make that jump.
I may be exceedingly rare, I don't know, but I have no desire to jump right into that. I've been there, done that, got the scars. I'd rather get into something that will last. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 5/23/2008 10:22:51 PM | | We arent all about sex, but it is something we find quite important. Nature (GOD) imbued in man to drag women back to his cave and.......uhh, sorry got a little bit carried away. But you get the picture. Most of us are looking to find someone to spend the rest of our lives with and live happily ever after. Just like most woman dream about. Unfortunately, it hasnt quite worked out that way for me, but.....at least I can still get sex every once in a while on my grand search for "The One". | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 5/24/2008 5:31:30 PM | I wanna know are ALL of you girls so stuppid that you are genuinely convinced, that because a guys interested in sex, then thats the ONLY thing he's interested in.
I wanna know, are ALL of you girls convinced that sex is the ONLY thing you nedd to bring to a relationship. (Believe me a prostitute provides better sex but not better love or comittment.) | |
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