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 Ross PK

Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 1
I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 3/30/2007 2:50:10 PM
You know, there's been studies. When a woman finds a man attractive she looks at his crotch.

Now, I went to town today, and I looked at all the women I walked past, and do you know something (yup, it's soooooooooooooooo obvious) not one looked at my package, infact hardly any even looked at me, there was only about two in the whole day that looked at me.

I always knew it was impossible for a woman offline to be interested in me.
 Gravity_Vortex

Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 2
I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 3/30/2007 2:59:28 PM
What...... Do you think for a second that, that is all there interested in.....? I think you need to give your head a bloody good shack....or better yet a good hard slap up the side of your head.....
 Ross PK

Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:01:29 PM
Um, like I said, studies have shown this. It doesn't mean that women are only interested in sex, it's just a natural thing they do when they find a guy attractive.
 dipstick deluxe

Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 4
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:05:14 PM
He does have apoint. Before, when I found a woman attractive, I usually talked to her boobs..... Then I turned 14....
 Ron9

Joined: 8/10/2004
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:20:43 PM
Ok Ross ...... old buddy.

I am about to give you step by step instructions on how to get over that bullchit “women are just not attracted to me” crappola

Step 1. Think you are attractive - and have things to offer

Step 2. Forget step one > KNOW YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE - and have cool azz things to offer


Before anyone else can become convinced - YOU have to become convinced.

Did you smile at any of those gals you saw today? - or did you walk around dragging your self-esteem along the ground by a little string tied to your belt loop?
 Escences

Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:29:42 PM
Oh for Petes sake do you believe everything you read or hear? A study?? LMAO!
Try just tuning into the real world, not all women are out for a peek at a guys package. Maybe they arent interested in looking at people that day introverts or something.Maybe your setting off desperate vibes, who knows?I agree with the last post try smiling more!It takes honey to catch flies better than vinegar.Sounds like a pity thread to me.
 ktzmeow

Joined: 12/22/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:39:20 PM
Id like to agree with Ron. Self esteem & personality are way more attractive then what sorta package you have, we are women ya know, we have minds!! Just kiddin, but really what study was that, Id like to get the statistics..
To me , any guy or girl who shows self confidence, well lets say they "shine brighter", better aura perhaps. This of coarse doesnt apply to egomaniacs, that a whol e other mess of colors there. So turn that frown upside down & go smile , see if you get more attention.
 aliy

Joined: 9/18/2006
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:43:09 PM
Ok ~
Here it comes from a woman - since you didn't believe the GUY! -
(So, of course there will be more words! ha!)
Studies are STILL just somebody's Opinion! I love men, and I love sex, and I NEVER look at a guy's crotch til the third date at least! What for? It isn't the size that matters - really! It's what he does to my head and my heart that will do it when we do it..
Also, out in public, I NEVER would do such!! - It seems so rude to even think that! Men must have done that survey! The most I'd ever do is smile and quickly look away (from his FACE!), and I'm VERY assertive! But I like to let the man lead - Personally, I need an assertive man.
So, you see a lady you want to meet? Talk to her! A funny/witty remark, or a compliment, or a question, and she will definitely talk to you if she finds you interesting!
One other thing - If you are running yourself down in your own mind, you need to fix that FIRST!! OTHER studies have shown that the one thing most women find most attractive about a man is his CONFIDENCE, put another way, lack of self consciousness... So, quit stressing and have some fun! I forgot to look, but you must be young (for a man, that means under 40, or 50!) - Don't worry - It gets easier!! One of the few joys of getting older.. Ha!
Oh, and life is too important to take seriously, remember that...
Love always
Aliy
 aliy

Joined: 9/18/2006
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:48:15 PM
I thought that last post would go in right after Ron's as a response; but it didn't, and doesn't make sense where it is... k?
 ktzmeow

Joined: 12/22/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:50:29 PM
Boys oh boys...when do they really become grownups?? Im scared!
 Jade_38

Joined: 1/29/2006
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Posted: 3/30/2007 3:52:39 PM
I love red headed men. I must tell you if you passed me on the street I wouldn't look at your crotch. I would be too fascinated with your eyes. You are an attractive young man. Don't forget that!
Good luck keep your chin up, you'll find that special someone. She's out there waiting for your sweet smile.
D
 Dark_Utopia

Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:04:26 PM
Stop your whining .....the fact that no one seems to check you out does not mean there is NO ONE checking you out...

Women are very subtle about that , if you see some girl checking out your package she needs to be a bit classier and less obvious ...I mean really ...thats lame to get caught doing that

 ladyc4

Joined: 2/14/2006
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:08:21 PM

You know, there's been studies. When a woman finds a man attractive she looks at his crotch.

Oh that's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard! Where was that study done? Fool U?
Cindy O
 karibabes

Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:14:42 PM
I don't walk down the street staring at mens crotches! I might notice him more if he seems to have an air of confidence about him.
 Kiss_My_Karma~

Joined: 7/4/2005
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:15:02 PM
Oh they looked.....you just didn't see it because we know how to hide it much better than the ogling of the chest that we get from men.
 stylish2000

Joined: 2/16/2007
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:23:25 PM
if you looke at your other STUDIES your also realise that women are mainly attracted to personality! i tell you one thing mate, im not boasting but i am very hot guy. i could have been a model.... and i dont do well with women AT ALL!

i dont do well because my social skills arent that good and i need to build on them. trust me its all about personality.
 SinnamonTears

Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 17
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:25:21 PM
I agree with gravity maybe you need a slap upside your head....what study did you read....the one out the last cracker jack box you bought???? Grow up.
 Escences

Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 18
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Posted: 3/30/2007 4:36:46 PM
Besides its not the looking at the crotch that tells you they like you its the pupil dilation! Geez everyone knows that.The crotch is the last place I look unless your pants are on my bedroom floor.
 Woodstar

Joined: 2/16/2006
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Posted: 3/30/2007 5:47:46 PM
When I was a young tender innocent...looking at a mans crotch was the LAST thing on my mind...in fact, there was an ewwwww factor attached to the yuucccckkkk!!!!! factor. Now, that I'm an old seasoned broad...well, like the rest of my sisters say...we're more subtle than that. If you catch us at it we'll just deny it.

You are showing your level of testestrone poisioning. Its okay, you'll mellow with age. In the meantime, listen to your kind. Stand in front of the mirror, look deep into your beautiful eyes 'cause thats where the girls are looking...then slap yourself and yell "SNAP OUT OF IT!"
 HikingFitGuy

Joined: 3/20/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 3/31/2007 6:20:36 AM

I always knew it was impossible for a woman offline to be interested in me.


good thing you are online then. It's good you realise how it is, so by going online, at least it may not be impossible to get a date afterall now
 loveisclickaway

Joined: 2/1/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2007 6:34:52 AM
Maybe if you took the wrapper off the package and let it all hang out, someone would notice???? Grow up! You have no confidence in yourself and a poor opinion of what women want. If women only wanted "large" packages, 99% of men would never find a woman...

lol!
 Ross PK

Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 3/31/2007 6:52:36 AM

Did you smile at any of those gals you saw today? - or did you walk around dragging your self-esteem along the ground by a little string tied to your belt loop?


I didn't smile (what's the point if they're not even looking at me), and I really don't think I walk about as though I've got really low self esteem, I walk around confidently with my head held up.
 Ross PK

Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/31/2007 6:58:30 AM
I agree with gravity maybe you need a slap upside your head....what study did you read....the one out the last cracker jack box you bought???? Grow up.


Wow, you sound like a friendly person, what an attractive personality you have... NOT!

I've read about it on another message board, and a few girls who had replied to the topic actually said that they never really noticed before but they DO actually do this with guys they find attractive.

Then a guy posted who said he had a look at women when he was out and about that day and some DID actually look at his crotch.

So how exactly does this mean I need to grow up? Or are you in actual fact not making any sense at all?
 PalmBeachBeauty

Joined: 2/9/2007
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/31/2007 7:12:49 PM
Perhaps while you were looking at women not looking at you, you missed seeing the ones who were...
 Woodstar

Joined: 2/16/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2007 7:38:08 PM
Gee...I feel like a failure. I was in town today buying a new fishing rod. Several men smiled at me and I smiled back. One even started a friendly conversation with me about how he would like to go fishing with me. Anyway, I forgot to look at any of their crotches! Damn....I must be getting to old.
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