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 wow_tt

Joined: 1/24/2007
Msg: 1
Did I over react?
Posted: 4/3/2007 1:04:05 PM
My b/f and I have been going out for 3 months now. We were intimate on the couch and everyone was satisfied! Then he gets up ...goes on the computer and does a search for "BJ's" in his area! I blew up!(no pun intended) Was I wrong to be mad at this?
 maryrachelle

Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 2
Did I over react?
Posted: 4/3/2007 3:21:01 PM
so he was looking for women in your area that gave blowjobs after you just had sex with him?
 YaoiGirl

Joined: 10/26/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 4/9/2007 2:46:17 PM
Nope not at all. You did NOT over react at all. What a cad! I would have told him to leave and never to return.
Or better yet get on the phone and fake call up old boyfriends and say you wheren't satisfied and needed a real man.

 ColdRedRain

Joined: 2/24/2007
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Posted: 4/11/2007 3:23:24 PM
No, you didn't over-react. And don't be afraid to tell it like it is. Tell him "that's about the most classless thing I ever saw a man do". Passive aggression solves nothing except making psych doctors richer.
 thiansky

Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 5
Did I over react?
Posted: 4/27/2007 7:11:33 PM
Dump the jerk. He has no respect or love for you.
 kk1972

Joined: 3/17/2007
Msg: 6
Did I over react?
Posted: 5/5/2007 3:09:22 AM
You didn't over react. I would have told him to get the hell out! I have another problem for you. What makes it ok for a guy to stand a woman up all the time, and the woman isn't supposed to get mad? He has a "well stuff happens" attitude. He doesn't return phone calls, or emails but "don't get mad, I was busy"..Why is finding a polite man so hard? Why is dating so stinking hard? I give up. I'm swearing off men for a while and thinking about things.
 stavlo

Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 7
Did I over react?
Posted: 5/16/2007 11:43:46 AM
You were in the right as far as I can tell. Time to trade him in.
 Crash 1

Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 8
Did I over react?
Posted: 6/30/2007 11:55:13 AM
Absolutely not! It is guys like that who give all guys a bad name. That was unconscionable. It is sounds to me like he was just using you. I would say move on and don't look back. You'll find someone better.
 hotmama325

Joined: 8/16/2007
Msg: 9
Did I over react?
Posted: 10/8/2007 9:45:44 PM
no
that sounds absolutely nuts
kick him to the curb
easier said than done
he is bad for u
u deserve so much better
ur priceless
 hotmama325

Joined: 8/16/2007
Msg: 10
Did I over react?
Posted: 10/8/2007 9:46:53 PM
Try Mark1978
he is also a Capricorn
and he is also ur age
that is his fish profile
 Driver50

Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 11
Did I over react?
Posted: 10/25/2007 9:16:02 PM
Dear wow tt,
This gentleman is what we in the Chicago metropolitan area used to call (and STILL call) a "jag-off". Look, is the guy goofy, or something?? Seriously, give him the boot.... I'd say, a size 14DD, with lead cleats and spurs and anything else that strikes your fancy.

Find someone who knows how to keep a proper reign in on his twisted libido!!!!
 markus4555

Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 12
Did I over react?
Posted: 11/8/2007 6:44:12 AM
Wow, that's a bit insensitive, to say the least. Though before you fly off the handle next time, if there is one. Find out camly, why he is doing that. there may be a situation that he's not comfortable talking about, or some that isn't getting satisfied.
On the other hand he may just want to jerk your chain. And finially, he may just be a total self-centered turd that you should probly flush out of your life.
Mark
 patticakesthree

Joined: 10/3/2007
Msg: 13
Did I over react?
Posted: 11/8/2007 1:12:04 PM
Hell No...Some friends and I are on this site and we have had things like this happen to us. And after reading some of the stuff on here about bad guys...we wonder if we haven't been dating the same guys as other women on here.
I wish all us women could get together and tell our hell stories and give names to each other so we would know..who on this site is just game players, just after sex or is just a plain old internet pervert who you will never meet but just wants to sit here and talk dirty to you. There are just so many on here ! ! !
To all you good guys...I'm sorry.. But there are way to many men on here ...giving you a bad name!
 verbatim46

Joined: 2/10/2006
Msg: 14
Did I over react?
Posted: 1/17/2008 1:38:22 AM
no dump his ass ...then date me its easy...case solved
 dan55746

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Posted: 2/12/2009 11:45:58 PM
gett him by th door pretend your gonna blow him an crack him in the nuts

an never talk to him again

i'm sure he will learn his lesson with the true meaning of "blue balls"

 JOGGINGSLOTH

Joined: 7/12/2008
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Posted: 2/16/2009 9:48:49 AM
No dear, you under-reacted,
being a science teacher, you should have offered him a BJ, then while in that vulnerable possition, ..... show him your atom spitter (ifin ya know what I meen).
Then send him on his way, with one less molecule, he wants to act half "nuts", he should be half nuts.
NOW... next time, don't give-up the groceries, to a pig......
 Angelic Witch

Joined: 4/26/2007
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Posted: 2/18/2009 11:40:06 AM
kick him to the curb....you deserve better
 karma1160

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 3/1/2009 9:04:23 AM
Games Games Games. He is too emotionally incapable of be forthright and honest with you. Go back to the bus stop and find your bus. Maybe he just prefers to have women end the relationship..... Games What intelligent man in his right man would do this????????? none
 DMBfan4170

Joined: 4/28/2009
Msg: 19
Did I over react?
Posted: 5/14/2009 1:54:31 PM
I don't think you over reacted one bit... what a jerk off loser... MOVE ON...
 befree190

Joined: 8/31/2007
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Posted: 6/13/2009 6:13:34 AM
Not at all
Kick him to the curb, if he did that then he hasn't any respect for you.
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