| | why do men only care about sex???Page 1 of 28 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28) | | why is it that every guy i meet or talk to automatically thinks i want sex from them? dont they know there is more to me then whats between my legs??? Im tired of being used by men for sex. Are there really any men out there that dont want women just for sex? I feel that sex is a bonus.... but only when both ppl are ready for it. Just because he is, does that mean i have to be as well?? This is an everyday thing i deal with and i would like to finally know why thats all men want me for. I am not a whore. | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 10:54:40 AM | | It's like why we eat food. Food is nutritious, smells good, tastes good, gives us energy, and when shared as a meal helps us bond socially. Now, people eat food for all of the reasons not just one, but in any case you have to put it in your mouth. | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 10:56:31 AM | You aren't the only one who has that experience. I'd be willing to bet that's what every woman has to deal with. I'd say that most men are looking for a quick easy way to enjoy themselves - cybernetically, on the phone, or in person. And some women, looking for love believe they can attain the love and compaionship they so desire by complying with their wishes. Rarely is there a good man who wants to know more about you and develop a relationship before sex becomes a topic. There are a few.
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Posted: 4/6/2007 11:02:24 AM | | People have said it before, men are simple creatures. You'll find very few men in there young 20's not looking for sex. You can stop looking or sort through them to find the ones who want more. | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 11:10:04 AM | | The answer to your question is that there are men out there that want more than sex from a woman. I know this, because I am one that actually does not like "easy women" that have no respect for themselves. Also, there are men that love their children and raise them, as well, for I do. There are good, decent men left. Not many though. But as a man, sometimes I had rather just be held by a pair of caring arms than to engage in wild sex. Something to think about though, it is not only men that are sexually aggressive and seeking only physical enjoyment for themselves. I have had many Emails from women that were just looking for sex too. | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 11:14:10 AM | | Hi not all men only care about sex.I my self would rather make love than have sex any day.But there are men and women who only care about sex, both gemders are guilty.I think all theese topics here in the Forums are either aimed at one gender or another .Men and women do the same things to eachother good and bad.There are sex crazed women and men.Wouldnt it be great if men and women could just treat eachother properly.I see and hear so many complaints theese days more than ever.I think its a shame to see the opposit sex treat eachother so badly. | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 11:31:58 AM | You're kidding right?
I'm tired of being used by men for sex.
If you really were then why are you allowing them to use you. They only get from you what you allow them to take!
This is an everyday thing i deal with and i would like to finally know why thats all men want me for. I am not a whore.
I don't know you so I can't say one way or another whether you are a whore or not, however maybe you need to step back and re-evaluate the kind of person you are projecting that you are to these people you date. It could be the way you dress, the way you talk, your mannerisms there are lots of tell tale signals that women send to men that say "do me". If you really don't want to be used by men number one stop allowing them to use you and number two, I'd be talking to some girlfriends or even guy friends and asking them how do you perceive me and BE READY for some harsh criticism. You may find out what you think you are portraying and what you really are portraying are polar opposites! | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 11:32:53 AM | | You're fairly young, but your question is as offensive as me saying "why do women only care about money"?, or something along those lines. You will meet guys who care about you and you should be able to tell the difference. If you meet men in bars instead of the library, gee guess what? I am not saying that there aren't a lot of men who are only looking for sex, but I am saying that you need to do a better job of NOT LOOKING at those men. Good men are out there (sure, it might take a while to find them...) who will think about sex as you do. | |
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soxred
| | Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 12 | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 11:39:35 AM | I think the point's being missed in here. Many, even most, even all of the eligible men Opie ever meets may want to know whether she is interested in a longer and deeper acquaintance. The only difference she can hope for is that she chooses to meet men who have more of a grip on themselves than does a child or a sack of hammers. If she ever finds she's meeting men who ask after her interest without putting the stubby point to her, I hope she realizes that she has left the lower orders (or high school) behind.
May you find every last egg and Peep, you Christians!
Cheers!
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Posted: 4/6/2007 11:55:00 AM | faitfullyurs,
I think you are missing a few things in this dilemma.Men at your age are at they sexual peak,they are wired to seek out sex.Like it or not.The way you are preceived by men has a lot to do how well or badly you are treated.It is a value system,if you are precieved with more value,more likely than not,that you are going to be treated better.Looks does count a great deal to men,we do fall in love with our eyes,the good news is that beauty is relative and subjective.Even goergeus women get dumped.I do believe that you are too young to get married....etc.This is the age when people experiment and experience life,tring to find themself and tring to make sense of it all.Do you really want to wake up at 40 having 3 kids,and did not see or experience anything about life?By the way that is about the time when your sexual peak begins.A rather cruel joke by mother nature.I hope this helped.good luck.   | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 12:08:10 PM | Hopefully you have read all the responses from people here. They are all very good and reasoned.
Try not to paint all men with a single brush and men will try not to paint all women similarly.
Not all men ONLY care about sex. But it is a part of life, and so we all have to decide when and where it will be part of a relationship. For some that is early on, for others it is late.
You have to figure out where it fits in your relationships and who you will enjoy it with. | |
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Posted: 4/6/2007 2:01:45 PM | Because We can!!!!....lol
But We have to have sumething to amuse us and to keep us vile and happy why else is Viagra so popular cuz We want sex.
Do I think that a Man should have no class because of this fact absolutely not or then We would be animals chasing our own tails or at least some tail...lol
But in all seriousness I agree WE are what we attract so be brave and ask a close friend for an honest appraisal of you. Then you can make the neccesary changes and get away from the victim role as you will be impowered towards your own destiny in relations with Men and others too. Be brave and you will be happy you did shy away from this and you will have no one to blame but yourself. It's your life and your choices so have fun your way.
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Posted: 4/6/2007 2:15:54 PM | I guess I'm one of the rare people in their early twenties who isn't solely focused on getting laid. It's not the first thing I care about when I'm in a relationship. I would much rather enjoy the person for who they are first then advance in that way afterwards.
Either you're just not meeting the right person or I'm one of those exceptionally rare people...
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Posted: 5/2/2007 6:06:29 PM | | No one put a gun to your head to have sex.Don't want sex? fine, from now tell every man you meet you will never have sex with them I'm sure they'll be fine with it (rolling eyes).Guess will be seeing you on POF for the rest of your life.Its a good thing the men have the sex drive or there'd be no people in the world,lol its ironic that alot of women don't like the sexual attention they get from men when they are young,then when they're over 40 complain men aren't interested in them and they can't even give it away,lol you see alot of women over 40 dressing like they did when they were 18 ect anyone else see the hypocracy? | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 6:09:22 PM | OP... imagine you didnt have to worry about getting pregnant and had a "thing" hanging in between your legs that would swell at the mere thought of sex.... would you be able to go thru a day not wanting sex?
i rest my case
btw..nightcowboy, you must be one of the guys she's talking about .. good attitude dude   | |
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Genrae
| | Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 21 | |
| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/2/2007 6:14:43 PM |
btw..nightcowboy, you must be one of the guys she's talking about .. good attitude dude That's exactly what I was going to say. What a piggish, shallow, and self-righteous response. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 6:23:18 PM | My dear angel fishy....look at me...I mean...LOOK AT ME!!!
I'll be 56 years old this summer. I'm an old hippie type...free love, peace...you know the drill.
When I was a young girl I wanted to be a farmers wife and have some children. I planned on being a chubby little grandma type by now.
Well, I think I went over board on the chubby part...but guess what....no grandkids spilling off this ample "wanna be" granny's lap.
Do you want to know why???
I fell for every line in the book. Plus, I had the libido to match and out do any guy on the block.
Don't fall for what that "Player" has to say to you. I don't care who he is or how sweet the line. They just wanna get laid! I'm not talking about the quiet guy over in the corner...although he'd like to get laid too! ...He just wants something more. And if you are falling for the guy who has all the smooth moves...the quiet guy who moves with a little more caution will quietly walk away and you'll never know he was even there.
Oh, Babe...could this old girl tell you a few stories... | |
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Jemue
| | Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 23 | |
| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/2/2007 6:25:55 PM |
Im tired of being used by men for sex. Are there really any men out there that dont want women just for sex?
1) You let them.
2) Make better choices if you think it's an issue
2) Any thread that generalizes this much should be deleted !! | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 6:33:45 PM | Oh...I forgot to mention...they don't all need viagra at my age...and they are still looking for a lay....even the ones who say..."I want to make love, not just have sex"....yeap...fell for that one one more time...for the last time...this last time...slow learner.
Just be smarter than me.
Peace
oh, p.s.
they don't care what you look like. Lights on/lights off...no biggy. | |
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