| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 4/8/2007 6:49:24 PM | | Are there any mature women out there looking for a younger mature male? It just seems as though i can't find any older women who look at my age and not assume i am immature. I can't help that i am attracted to older women. I just wish i could help with them being attracted to me. Any advice? | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 4/10/2007 9:58:23 AM | | Since there is a website for "sugardaddies"...I would figure there is one for "sugarmamas" also. Google it. | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 4/10/2007 8:44:44 PM | | You know it's funny you should ask. Because I am an older woman who is constantly flooded by letters from younger men. And yes, I love younger men, HOWEVER, the thing is not that I think younger men are not mature, the thing is that most of the time younger men don't really think about the future with an age difference. I am 54, almost 55. Now if a man say, 30, wants to date me, here are the things I have to point out. I will never again produce children so if you don't have any now, you never will, because at my age, a relationship is forever, I am too old to waste 10 years on the wrong person. And if you do have children how are you going to explain to them that their new stepmom is the same age as their grandma? And in 15 years when you are going through your male menopause, also known as mid-life crisis, the woman by your side will be 70 years old, now tell me you won't be looking at younger women. You see, these are the things we older women have to be honest with ourselves about. You may think its about maturity but it's not, its about the future. But thanks for appreciating the mature woman. | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 6/19/2007 11:48:51 PM | Hello. You do not say your age, but I am a 53 year old Christian woman in Klamath Falls. So far I have searched for gentleman friends from 40 and above. You can email me if you would like to talk. Thanks | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 7/10/2007 6:57:17 PM | I prefer to date younger men, they have a zest for life that I like. Finding a young man who is mature and thoughtful is another thing.
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 7/18/2007 5:39:37 PM | | In general I do feel that age is just a number.... it is what is in the heart and sincerity of the man I search for. I will be 52 in 2 weeks but feel half my age and told I look about 10-15 years younger then I actually am. If you are still searching for someone to possibly buld an ltr... feel free to contact me..... Hope to hear from you soon Ciao | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 8/6/2007 12:09:37 AM | I'm only 30 but in all honesty I seem to attract and be attracted to younger men. I am very independant but I think its my childlike nature that seems to attract towards younger men. I haven't met many younger men here though that really want a relationship other than to have a brief fling. I think it would be great to meet a younger man that actually wanted more than that. I might even be able to teach him a thing or two hehehe.  | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:57:26 PM | Hi There!
I was married to a man 10 years younger then me. I didn't feel any real age difference .
Now when I date a man 10 to 15 years younger... I am more aware, and find younger men are in a mode of buying things, as I am in a mode of getting rid of things, relaxing, and just enjoying life. | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 11/26/2007 8:52:37 AM | | I was with a woman eleven years older than me when I was nineteen. I don't have any 'mama issues', just found her to be a rather enjoyable person. Though, I tend to agree with the age bit on getting older. It all really just depends [no pun intended], on the people though. My grandma of 91 is still just as active as she was when she was 70, but on the flip side, an old lady friend I help out is only in her early 80's and is falling apart at the seams. | |
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cj361
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Joined: 9/20/2007
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 11/30/2007 11:27:19 PM | | I guess I'm starting to fall into that "older woman" category. I agree that the future thing is really important. I've done the younger thing and I don't find that I'm someone it works well with. I want to be able to grow older WITH someone not ahead of someone. Old fashioned idea of what life is supposed to be like I suppose. | |
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custis
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Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 12 | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 1/20/2008 11:26:16 PM | | I prefer younger men largely because I look so much younger, and I guess I go for younger looking as well. As long as the guy is somewhat stable.. job, roof over their head/not their parent's.. similar interests, I have no problem with dating younger. | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 2/10/2008 10:28:39 PM | To attract an older woman, you must understand and communicate in her language. The same as if you were to meet a Dutch woman or a Russian woman. You need to know their language in order to communicate what you feel.
Our generations are different from one another and our lingo's and understanding of different words and phrases, are again, different.
You also need to be able to present yourself in a manner that is not embarrassing to the object of your passion. In otherwards, if you are going to date a woman who is older and perhaps more refined than you, then you need to be prepared to present yourself in an appropriate fashion and at the same time be able to introduce your own "culture" into her life in a way that is not alarming or overwelming to here, such as, if you like heavy metal, and her "generation" wasn't into that, then you need to be able to explain the music and why the man who is supposedly the vocalist is screaming......It's all cultural but ofcourse, you must first get her interested in your culture and if she is not, then you need to be willing to not insist on including her. It's the same as if you were to date someone from the east coast when you were raised in the west coast. The cultures are very different. Presentation is 9/10ths of what you need to begin with. So for heaven sakes....be sure to pull your pants up and put a belt on before you go to her door. Good luck.....an older woman | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 2/16/2008 1:23:37 AM | | I'm with you Gemsong....nobody ever believes I have a 21 yr old son...and all his friends try to date me! | |
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custis
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Joined: 3/16/2005
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 5/26/2008 1:17:01 PM | | I've been seeking an older woman for ages. I haven't had any real luck since most of the people were fake or insecure. Are there any older women searching for a young man? I would be extremely excited if there was. | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 9:53:25 PM | | Actually I am one.. and I am on listed on Plenty of Fish. And I specify the age I am looking for.... We are out there..dont give up.. because I am still looking too.. I cant seem to find any younger ones on there that are interested in older women..lol | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 9/17/2008 9:38:44 PM | | Many young guys will screw anything with 2 legs!! Buts that's all they want, notches on their belt. Most older women that seek out younger guys get used and treated like crap. Not always but most of the time. | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 12/31/2008 9:54:13 AM | | Right on sister! 75% of any contacts I get on this site are from men in their 20's. It is not that the men are all immature but just as you say they do not see 10 years down the road. maybe I am clinging to the last vestiges of youth now but it ain't gonna last w menopause just around the corner. I am sorry but it is the rare 35 year old sticking w a 65 year old! What is really odd is that at least 20% of the contacts are for LTR reasons not a fling. I for one do not want to contribute to the pool of men out there who feel bitter about thier past relationship history and don't want to hurt anyone. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2008 9:57:23 AM | | Hey I am old and heavy metal was all we listened to! Then there was Punk the first time around. | |
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Posted: 1/7/2009 8:25:21 PM | I want to go on record I am not looking for younger men, I see the first line of posts appear on profile and do not want to be mis understood!!! I want a nice normal happy 40 ish man!!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/8/2009 8:06:12 AM | ^ L I e S ^ i tell you, L i E S!
she wants you all to write:
over and over, like crimson and clover-
like a record, baby, right round, right round!-
Grab the canoles, leave the gun-
(muddled my dated lyrics)
ThoughtS for a NeW ForuM:
OldeR WomeN SeekinG SenilE DirtY YoungeR MeN
(is there another kind?) | |
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| Older women seeking younger men
Posted: 1/9/2009 8:47:32 PM | | hahahahahaha very funny i got some buzz off that women over 30 are incapable of telling the truth about there age | |
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