| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/8/2007 7:04:54 PM | Thats my question.. I feel like there are none anywhere, and i'm almost ready to give up on this whole dating thing. I have been on so many bad dates- it aint funny anymore. lol Somebody help me...lol. Can anyone tell me of any places here in Mi, around the thumb area to meet guys- no bars- I don't wanna date a drunk. | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/8/2007 8:40:02 PM | | You are stereotyping yourself....giving yourself a label. What about, I am fun to be around, love to do this, or do that. How about that you are outgoing and like to dance or enjoy art? If you label yourself as a "chunky girl" you will be perceived as a chunky girl. You are who you are, keep your head up, walk tall and enjoy being the beautiful person you are. In time, you will meet Mr. Wonderful who will love you for YOU. So, look in the mirror and come up with a new label and just smile. Try it, you will like it. I have done the same, got rid of the "big girl" label and I am much happier for it. Good luck, Cheryl | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/8/2007 8:51:40 PM | Too the lady above good for you for being so positive but you know what reality bites.
This is the way we big ladies are treated, most times don't get a second look.
The sad thing is according to most of these mens profiles they are lonely and according to most of the ladies profiles they are lonely as well but because we are all so shallow, me included we sit at home wishing we had someone to talk to at night. We have to wake up and quit being so shallow and there would be a lot more happy people in this world. | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/8/2007 10:55:52 PM | | I am a very happy bigger woman!!! I believe that there are many men out there who enjoy women with a little extra something to love. I stay active and outgoing and would never just stay home and pine for someone to love me. I get out, get busy and enjoy life. Yes, I am a bigger woman, but that isn't going to keep me in the house. I have busy teenaged children and stay active with them. You need to love yourself, because if you dont, nobody will. If its your weight that bothers you, not to be mean or anything, get active and lose some weight - you will feel better about yourself. I walk the dog 30 minutes a day. Its not coming off fast, but at least I am doing something for myself and it lifts my mood as well. When you are happy on the inside, it shows on the outside. Of course, I have my doubts sometimes, but its their problem if they dont like me as there are many more fishies out there that will appreciate me for who I am. | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/9/2007 10:07:54 AM | I've got to say, it doesn't matter the title. thick, big, chunky, chubby, voluptuous, fat, large, obese, WHO CARES.
If people are so idly focused on what's out there, they miss the good person inside. Men need to learn to love women BECAUSE of their weight, not despite it. Me, that's what I do. Of course, I was raised differently.
Good men and good women are equally tough anymore. Everyone looks for perfection, when they should be looking for a great time with a person who's human and therefore, flawed. | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/9/2007 10:13:07 AM | | I love chunky girls! I'm not sure if Im what you're looking for or not, but I wouldn't mind talking to you sometime. If you want to message me sometime that's definately fine with me. | |
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| ".....love women BECAUSE of their weight........
Posted: 4/9/2007 10:53:05 AM | I definitely agree with your point that everyone has flaws, but i wouldn't want someone to be attracted to me ONLY because i am overweight.
I think that everyone has preferences, and thats fine, but i guess my way of thinking is that if i select who i feel would make a good life partner based on looks alone, I could be passing up on someone wonderful who is perfect for me. | |
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| .....love women BECAUSE of their weight........
Posted: 4/9/2007 1:03:54 PM | | Missy Gurl...how far away is Brown City from Bay City? I can't message you because of restricitons. They are having another get together there on April 21st at Indian Barry's. It should be above everyone's inbox. Yeah..it's a bar, but a nice place and the host and co-host are wonderful people. Hey..anyone else as far as that goes...C'mon and join in. It's just a bunch of friends getting together to laugh and have fun. I struggle with weight issues too...mine goes up and down...and it used to get me down badly...but I have taken the stance of.."I am what I am"...if someone doesn't like it...Oh well...I am just..me! I just remind myself of that alot..LOL!! | |
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| .....love women BECAUSE of their weight........
Posted: 4/9/2007 1:20:31 PM | People who don't get to know the person inside are obviously not lonely enough. Too many who sit at home wondering why more alone than not. Stop looking for perfect!
And try not asking what size a person is? And then saying good when the person says the size they think you prefer. I do my best to not judge a book by its cover and it would be a treat to have a man do the same. Should I just give Barbie's sizes and then you are happy until I don't meet you? LOL. And thanks for thinking I am only worthy if I am Barbie. lol
I say I have small hands and feet...anything but the answer they want. The truly shallow will usually keep asking "forgive me but ..."
A guy who could talk to me online & on phone about anything met me but I was not petite enough so he blew me off. Then called the next day and say he cannot get me out of his mind, it bugs him and his friends say he is dumb for throwing away someone who accepted him for who he was... Well, thanks for the compliment, I guess. I told him to call me when he grows up and knows what a man is. Said it nicely and meant it nicely. | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/9/2007 3:01:28 PM | Ok 1st get over the fact that you weigh more than you should...Everyone on this planet has some kind of issue with themselves...
I am a big girl of which I have no problem with and I also have no problem picking up men. I am also not just talking about at a bar...
Self confidence of a heavey woman is so low it becomes very unattractive and shows when she talks and how she carries herself...
Me I dont care what others think of me I know who I am what I want if you dont like me leave. If you dont like how I dance dont look or come up here and do it better till then shut up. Most of the men that have liked me say it is my confidence they find so attractive..Everything else is secondary well mostly everything else...
Be confident whether you feel it or not put it on for awhile you will see it fits better then your jeans do... And is much more attractive and alot more fun..
We are all not the same we are not supposed to be.
It is a public service we give I am fat to make the skinny chics look better.... If it was not for us we would all look alike and what kind of fun would that be...
This world is full of all diffent kinds of shapes and sizes and that is great I like the variety... Bring on the men that are 6' 300 pounds then I will look very small.... | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:42:33 PM | | Actually yes...I prefer voluptous women (I hate the term BBW as it sounds patronizing). I won't lie though, when I was younger around 18 or so it was all about the twisted perception that they were hard up and desperate, and therefore easy. But as I got older I realized that most voluptuous women have more confidence than the so-called "barbie dolls", and you know what? that is way sexier than fake boobs and an emaciated frame. | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/11/2007 1:24:58 AM | | While most guys prefer the Barbie dolls... there are some great guys out there who dont mind us thick ladies... kreep your chin up... one will come your way... Cin | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/11/2007 8:26:05 AM | | Yea, guys who love women just because your a women it has nothing to do with weight but some guys make up reasons not to like you cause he's scared, of what people might say about him, further more if its 10,000 people on a site and 1 or 2,000 are not small and petite the remaining 8 or 9,000 are, u have to think beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so ask yourself what were we taught to be beautiful, be a lot of the same people that think they fine they anit **** them be the ugliest ones so make a note you can be the most beautiful girl in the world but if your attitude is sh!tty you don't know how ugly you really look and I'll take a plus size over that any day. | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/13/2007 6:46:07 AM | To the person who said ' some black men love plus sized girls',,,,, Well some 'white' men do too, so maybe its better to say that there are 'some men' who like plus sized women. :) With that said,,,,there are dating sites out there geared for men and women who prefer their partners with a lil (or alot! lol) of meat on their bones. I actually have an account at one of them myself.
I think its absolutely true that first and foremost you like who are (very well said to the people who mentioned that). It has been said that men (and women) are attracted to others with confidence and if you happen to be a confident bigger person, most times others will overlook your weight and see what an incredible person you are cuz it shines right thru. Of course,,there are those who just refuse to get to know 'chunky gals' as that person a couple of posts up has so eloquently uh,,,,stated. My opinion on that,,his loss.  | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/13/2007 9:44:54 AM | | Weight is just a number...I used to weigh 110 a few years back...After 5 kids and 20 years I put on a few pounds...at first I hated it...I couldn't even go shopping and buy clothes because everything I tried on made me look "fat"...then I ran into this guy that loved my brains and sparkling personality...and when he finally got around to it loved my body too...I learned to love myself just the way I am...I dance, I laugh, I play, I sing...life is grand don't let negative shallow people ruin it for you...we only get one shot honey, live it up | |
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| Are There Any Guys Who Like the Fat Girls?
Posted: 4/13/2007 10:25:47 AM | | Here is just a thought....Why not try to make some improvements in your lifestyle? Not to sound superficial, but if you have doubts about how guys view you, then you have options...You just need to choose them. Healthy eating, working out, and staying active are just a few.... | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/13/2007 1:38:24 PM | | I absolutely agree with what you said. So many times I've been asked how i look. I can tell a person anything online. That is so unimportant. Jerks come in any race or size. Just because a woman is a size 2 doesn't mean she's the right one for you. Beauty is from within. Overtime looks can fade. You have to love yourself regardless of what another person perceives as being beautiful. Good luck to all trying to find true love. I am still looking and I know someday he will find me | |
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| Are their any guys left who like chunky gals?
Posted: 4/21/2007 1:48:15 PM | It's definitely a cultural thing. Women have been bombarded by the media over the past 70 years, telling them they have to look like Twiggy or some supermodel in order to be "attractive". Most women are only trying to impress each other to see who comes closest to the "ideal attractive woman" that has been beaten into their head since they were little girls.
When is the last time you heard two men talking as such: "Hey Bob, those new jeans really make your butt look great!" or "Gary, your new hairstyle looks absolutely gorgeous!, what salon do you go to?" Although there are a few bars here in GR that you may just here this at - it is not the norm.
Personally, i'm always afraid I am gonna break those skinny women...Give me an ample woman with lots of fulsomeness any day! | |
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