| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:23:37 AM | I pose this question to all the people out there who have been vexed by many a sexual situation.
What do you think todays sexuals morals are ? Sort of like the 10 commandments for sexual behaviour in today's world ?
Now obviously EVERYONE is going to say use a condom first so can we dispense with that one right away ? But what about everything else ? Sex on ther first date? Oral do's and don'ts ? Taboo or kinky sex ? What are your sexual 10 co0mmandments ?
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:39:27 AM | My personal sexual rules would be:
Do as thou wilt, shall be the whole of the law......as long as...
everyone involved is of legal age, concenting, and disease free.
The flip side being,
Judge not, the sexual past of others, for their preferences do not make the person, but instead the person makes the games.
Yes, I'm being a little silly, but seriously, it's all good as long as no one loses an eye. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:40:22 AM | 1) an' ye harm none, do as ye will
2) don't get caught
3) if possible shower before sex
4) don't knock her up
5) make sure she's above the age of consent
6) make sure she does give consent
7) make sure sleeping with her is not more trouble than it's worth (cardinal rule)
8) when in doubt, don't
9) try not to fall asleep or call out the wrong name
10) most of all, have fun...if not, just do something else | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:48:50 AM | 1.) Thou shall not drive too fast going into a blind curve.
2.) Thou shall not ignore your gut feelings.
3.) Thou shall not covet one's ignorance for it.
4.) Thou shall not rely on books, the Internet, toys, or 'training' films for all of one's learning.
5.) Thou shall not make it unpleasurable for the other partner. (The Golden Rule?)
6.) Thou shall not be afraid to explore thy partner's body and experiment w/ new techniques.
7.) Thou shall not miscommunicate one's intentions w/ thy partner(s).
8.) Thou shall not ignore that sex is a procreative activity ...and condoms are no guarantee for not achieving this end.
9.) Thou shall not sleep around when in an exclusive arrangement.
10.) Thou shall not make it boring by being too routine. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:50:00 AM | Interesting two active morals threads on the frnt page...popular topic.
The Golden Rule. Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:52:11 AM | What can I add to the 4 posts above? Big fat O - Spot on!!
Everyone has sexual morals - we just have different ones from each other. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:05:39 AM | I would have to agree with all thathave posted ...
I am curious about those not so open minded ... It would seem that there are alot of people here that are not so openminded and sexually open to new ideas or situations ... what are their morals based on? Religion? Societal pressures? What are thier commandments? | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:12:40 AM | I honestly don't know but I have taken some recent abuse so agree they're out there..... Waiting for the verbal bashing as I write | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:16:28 AM | 1.) Thou shall get her off
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Thanks-------I think i want to get off now!  | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:24:16 AM | 1.) Thou shall get her off
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Ok sorry change that too I will give her an orgasm!!!!
Sorry! Some guys you just have to knock it into them! | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 12:09:28 PM | Don't have sex with someone who does not want to have sex with you.
Don't have sex with someone you do not want to have sex with.
Don't have sex with relatives, children, or animals.
Don't kiss and tell.................without permission.
Don't whine about the consequences of your actions.
Don't be selfish or tolerate selfishness............all the time.
Don't avoid some selfishness, in yourself or others.
Don't have too many rules, its supposed to be fun. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 12:17:02 PM | 1. get tested at least 2x a year
2. ask him when he was last tested (and expect an honest answer)
3. always come prepared (don't expect him to have condoms)
4. don't let him cum inside (even in LTR...i don't need to be another single mom)
5. keep contact info for casual partners (in case something goes wrong with 1 - 4)
6. no married or attached men (don't need that bad karma)
7. be bathed, perfumed and clean (applies to him too...bad smells = turn off)
8. fresh sheets on the bed
9. cuddle afterwards
10. replenish with an amazing breakfast in the morning
and for bonus points...call when you say you're gonna call ; ) | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 1:21:58 PM | Stop with these silly commandment type thingys....
Sex and morals? HA HA HA
No intercourse on first date.
No such thing, as far as I'm concerned, as taboo.
I am your sex goddess and thou shalt have no other sex goddess (unless you share her with me)
Try anything once, fun things-over again. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 1:22:24 PM | Paraphrasing one of my favorite songs:
You're alive, you really are here, now, yourself
And you can do whatever you want
Just don't hurt anyone (in any way)
Unless they ask you.
~ David | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 1:57:55 PM | No family member in the next room
No animal watching us
No socks on ('cept one)
No food inside the vajayjay (that means no cherry cordials !)
Nothing near the bum
No attempts to convince anything near the bum
No thoughts of even tryin' to convince anything near the bum.
No diapering or powdering nothin'
No "shared" toys. We'll play with my toys and that's all.
Just because it says "black and decker" does not mean it's safe for sex.
No sayin' "I love You" within' an hour of before, during or after sex.
NO PAIN ! The safe word is "Aunt Bee...ya got any bisuits ?"
last but not least no....petroleum products...'specially diesel fuel.
It smells great on a man, but it's kinda flamable. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 2:06:35 PM |
What do you think todays sexuals morals are ?
I don't think there are any. Not in this society at least. ..and that is good! I think it all comes down to each individual, thankfully we are beginning to be seen as individuals and not as a whole.
As for commands, I don't take orders very well. So, I would not push demands on anybody else, they either want to or they don't...quite simple. I can communicate to my partner what I like but doesn't mean I will get it... | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 2:37:10 PM |
The Golden Rule. Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You.
A nice thought, but I don't think most women would like a shampoo bottle shoved up their ass.... | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 6:00:43 PM | I saw three questions here:
Sexual Morals ... Do you have them?
By definition, whatever I do constitutes my morals. This really makes little sense without a reference point. It's like asking if I do what I do.
What do you think todays sexual morals are?
This is the million dollar question. The thing I notice the most is the difference between stated values and practiced values. I personally have a lot more respect for a woman who states she is sexual and has had many partners, than a woman who proclaims only in a relationship but doesn't count those one night stands, even though the latter has less total partners.
I question the inclusion of pregnancy and disease as reasons for morality. Certainly they are important, life affecting concerns, but they seem like practical issues rather than moral ones. Chosing moral monogamy so you and your partner don't have to worry about disease seems to imply without disease, the reason for moral monogamy disappears.
Now if you are really concerned about getting infected, and chose monogamy to reduce the risk, that's not being moral in my opinion, that's cost/benefit management.
What are your sexual 10 commandments?
This is harder to answer than I first imagined, I have trouble with absolutes, ideas that that don't vary irrespective of context or point of view. "Rules" I follow when single mostly wouldn't apply if in a relationship. Ultimately, with the right woman, there wouldn't be any rules. Since I don't start out that way, I have to say there has to be a progression of rule changes along the way!
Now that I think of it, what I find interesting is thinking about the relationship events needed for me to start changing my mind. Hmmmm.
Bob | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 6:19:46 PM | -Its better to give than to receive..
- Allways wear clean underwear you never know when you might have a car accident or get laid.
-its better to give than to receive..
-dont freak out if she wants to drive for a while. Its supposedly very empowering for woman to get to be in the driver seat....
-if you're not into vanilla allways use a safe word.
-Limits may be pushed but ultimatly respected.
-spoil her with high heels and lingerie.
-and dont stop telling her how much of a hottie you think she is. Remember behind many a pretty woman is a man who is bored with her.
-comunicate.
-dont knock it till you try it... | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 6:31:17 PM | I don't regard it as morals per se because if I was living up to the morals of my religion (Roman Catholic), I wouldn't even be thinking about sex. (Just as much of a sin as doing it according to doctrine.) So, basically I've dropped the morals part because one can not be 'a little bit pregnant'.
What I do have is my own personal 'immorality etiquette book' that some may find crude and offensive and others may find so boring and vanilla that they think I'd make a better nun.
Bottom line is if it is someone who I have been blatantly love struck over for years and we have had sex before then I am ready to walk through the door and start taking my clothes off. There has only been one man who ever fit in that category.
However, there are some who for whatever reason we more or less negotiate the whole thing down to "let's f^ck". That can take six weeks of phone and internet communication but happen by agreement when we first meet or it can happen because I have known someone over a much longer period of time but the relationship had never been sexual up until that point. | |
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