| Not to sure what to do Posted: 4/10/2007 11:04:14 AM | i've been dating this guy from october and since then it been a very good but there only one thing that bother me is the fact we only get to see eachother on weekend and even then i stress over this all the time and now that he got a dog it getting in the way also what should i do we havee talk about it but he keep telling to move in but i cant cuz i have no transportation to work and back what is there to do I LOVE HIM !!!!!!
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| why do you only get to see each other on the weekend? Posted: 4/10/2007 11:09:06 AM | busy schedules? lack of transportation?
i'm confused.
regardless you should have a talk if you feel like you need more (quality) time other than the weekend. i don't know how the dog is gettin in the way lol... but juss try to talk to your bf. don't confront him or nagg. just let him know you appreciate the time you have spent and you'd feel even more appreciative if he could make some time for you during the week.
men love to feel appreciated.
good luck!
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| why do you only get to see each other on the weekend? Posted: 4/10/2007 11:12:15 AM | I just broke up with my bf. many reasons for it but I do say this .... sounds like you have some insecurities ... for one, you are letting a dog get in the middle of your relationship. My BF said I gave the dog more attention than I gave him and that it got in the way of our relationship.... but the dog can be a means of bringing us together. How about all going for a walk? going to the park? playing together? Its up to you how you handle that....... I wasn't going to change my likes and my passion for animals for someone who thought it was in the way. | |
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| Not to sure what to do Posted: 4/10/2007 11:25:45 AM | | Pass your driving test or buy a car if you already have your test. | |
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| Not to sure what to do Posted: 4/10/2007 11:41:18 AM | he want's you to move in to deal.. that will definately deal with the fact that you only spend time together on the weekends. When love is a factor "where there is a will there is a way" If you put your heads together you will come up with a means to deal with the transportation issue. Sounds like he wants to take it to the next level so talk about that and figure out a way. That is only if you are ready to do so yourself. | |
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| Not to sure what to do Posted: 4/10/2007 11:43:14 AM | | A bucket (car) cost about what 800 to 1000 bucks to get you to and fro. | |
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| Not to sure what to do Posted: 4/10/2007 11:54:36 AM | | like you know...they umm do like have public transportation or you could buy a horse or ask for a ride....the reverend...gag me with a spoon | |
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