| Relationships Posted: 4/11/2007 5:12:53 PM | | This post is for all of the people who have thought deeply into the matter of; "Why am I still lonely on a site that has thousands of singles?" I have contemplated deeply about this issue, and seek insight into how a person can manage to still be single, on a site like this. | |
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| Relationships Posted: 4/11/2007 5:21:53 PM | | Because we all have different want's / needs. No one is really looking to settle so we just keep on keepen on! | |
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| Relationships Posted: 4/11/2007 5:38:25 PM | | I find this to be odd, so why are they on a couples site? In a sense your settling for at least a short period of time. This is confusing. So you mean to tell me, that people who look for potential partners on the computer are playing games the most? | |
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| Relationships Posted: 4/11/2007 6:14:20 PM | No I didn't say that... I am not looking to play games.. Looking to date until I meet someone that hopefully, we both mutually want to become exclusive.
It sux though because I've had men that really liked me... and for some reason I wasn't physically attracted to them... or just didn't feel the chemistry. There have been a few guys that I've really liked and they didn't dig me.
It's not about games... but it's just a weeding out process. I wouldn't settle for some guy I didn't fully have feeling for him because I know I'd end up hurting him. I wouldn't want someone to settle for me either! | |
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| Relationships Posted: 5/21/2007 10:36:14 AM | | because you probably arent as ready for a relationship as you think you are | |
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| Relationships Posted: 6/15/2007 8:20:50 PM | | I suspect that even when one begins honestly looking for someone for a serious relationship the online process itself corrupts you. Especially for you guys..maybe you were looking for a girl friend but you find there are girls on this site who just want to "hook up" and you just want to be helpful right ? maybe one for the road before you get into anything serious??? So accomodating..... so maybe it becomes too much of a game, could border on addiction perhaps.. the endless selection of people and new ones coming in all the time.....always in search mode.....something personal is missing from this process ... | |
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