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 Cloakedfigure

Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 1
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Posted: 4/11/2007 5:12:53 PM
This post is for all of the people who have thought deeply into the matter of; "Why am I still lonely on a site that has thousands of singles?" I have contemplated deeply about this issue, and seek insight into how a person can manage to still be single, on a site like this.
 Coastergal

Joined: 7/24/2005
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Posted: 4/11/2007 5:21:53 PM
Because we all have different want's / needs. No one is really looking to settle so we just keep on keepen on!
 Cloakedfigure

Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 4/11/2007 5:38:25 PM
I find this to be odd, so why are they on a couples site? In a sense your settling for at least a short period of time. This is confusing. So you mean to tell me, that people who look for potential partners on the computer are playing games the most?
 Coastergal

Joined: 7/24/2005
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Posted: 4/11/2007 6:14:20 PM
No I didn't say that...
I am not looking to play games.. Looking to date until I meet someone that hopefully, we both mutually want to become exclusive.

It sux though because I've had men that really liked me... and for some reason I wasn't physically attracted to them... or just didn't feel the chemistry. There have been a few guys that I've really liked and they didn't dig me.

It's not about games... but it's just a weeding out process.
I wouldn't settle for some guy I didn't fully have feeling for him because I know I'd end up hurting him. I wouldn't want someone to settle for me either!
 brneydgrl6078

Joined: 7/13/2006
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Posted: 5/21/2007 10:36:14 AM
because you probably arent as ready for a relationship as you think you are
 maybeunme

Joined: 6/2/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 6/15/2007 8:20:50 PM
I suspect that even when one begins honestly looking for someone for a serious relationship the online process itself corrupts you. Especially for you guys..maybe you were looking for a girl friend but you find there are girls on this site who just want to "hook up" and you just want to be helpful right ? maybe one for the road before you get into anything serious??? So accomodating..... so maybe it becomes too much of a game, could border on addiction perhaps.. the endless selection of people and new ones coming in all the time.....always in search mode.....something personal is missing from this process ...
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