| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/13/2007 6:09:22 AM | Questions that, I, as a woman wonder is, "Do Men Really Expect" a woman to wear sexy lingerie and/or intimate apparel; and, "Does It Really Matter"?
I think that when a man sees that a woman is dressing "sexy" and for them, it creates a feeling of her wanting him to desire her; that he notices that she cares to go out of her way to look a certain way for him. Men appreciate that in a woman. "Do they expect it"? I don't think they do, but I think it does put a smile on their face.
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| Sexy Lingerie.... Do Men Expect? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/13/2007 6:15:35 AM | I would never exepect that.. it would be a treat that happends once in a while... or more if one is lucky.
for me it's not really that important. but it looks great and is sexy when it does happen. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/13/2007 8:59:51 AM | | Men seem to have this "fantasy" that all women run around the house in "cami's and thong panties"....How Cute!!! Or we wear matching sexy, lacy bra and panties...Or silky nighties all the time. And in reality we're probably wearing boxer shorts and a tank top, grannie undies and our old, worn out, comfy flannel nighty. Don't get me wrong, I love the "nice stuff" too and do wear them when called for but day to day we like to be comfortable. Lace just makes me itch and scratch!!! I do enjoy "dressing up" for my man and "undressing" too. Everyman has a preference too, I knew a man who loved white, cotten, brief undies on his woman. Or some men don't find thongs appealing they like silky, full panties. Each to their own. Ask your man what he finds sexy and attractive in the undies department.... | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/13/2007 10:11:36 AM | Ah yes the fantasy! 'Tell me what you're wearing' they say. Dare you confess it's a a pair of paint spattered dog haired leggings and an old sweatshirt?
But seriously I have found that on the first 'occasion', most men are too concerned about you getting your kit off, to bother whether you are wearing Janet Reger or a mismatched budget line from a cheap supermarket . But as the relationship progresses, that's when it becomes noticed and appreciated. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/13/2007 10:34:00 AM | | If she is all dressed up in a gown and pumps or something and I know she has the frilly stuff underneath, it is very desirable to know that your date is feeling sexy and desiring you, but once it's time for shagging, men don't care about the packaging, it's a nuisance and everything comes off in a second. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/13/2007 11:32:13 AM | | well my final answer is lol .... the fact .. of naked is of course how the show shall end but .. starting off naked is ..... isnt very exciting ... to me its like a kid at christmas getting to unwrap his present ... lol might have been there 100 times or a couple thousand times but .. it doesnt lack the excitement in my book . | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/17/2007 9:57:42 AM | Well i don`t think they expect it.
I love dressing up for a man , but i think if i did it all the time the novelty would wear off, i`d like to do it every now and then and make fireworks! it makes me feel good about myself and know that it will blow his mind.
But as i said couldn`t do it all the time, i have in the past but it just wasn`t the same as doing odd eves or days dressed up for your man. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/17/2007 10:12:53 AM | As a man, I do not expect a woman to wear lingerie or other intimate apparel.
Does it really matter? No. You are right though, it would put more of a smile on my face.
It is my understanding that men are more commonly visually stimulated than women. Lingerie is an interesting decoration to the main attraction - icing on the cake, if you will. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/17/2007 12:38:27 PM | Don't know if I'd expect it or not. If it is someone you are interested in, this stuff seldom stays on long enough to totally enjoy the beauty it can give a woman.
If the woman wears something sexy it is a turn on. And it does make love making more pleasant than a naked wife walking in at times. Gives you something for foreplay. Especially can be great if your man thinks... "I am the only one to see her like this. She does it just for me."
Makes you feel special.
Perhaps like flowers would make a woman feel. Do men have to bring home flowers? To me its her attempt to at intimacy to the romance between them. And I love sexy lingerie. My trouble is trying not to get so turned on that I tear it off too fast to enjoy the intimate moment. We can get out of control if our woman looks .. WOW. I been there. My Ex might been a Loser.. but she had moments in our marriage she could look pretty. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/17/2007 12:49:33 PM | I like icing on birthday cake.......don't you????
A smart man is a man who encourages his woman by paying for these lil things...there is something sweet about him taking the time to discover what you prefur to wear and atually takes the spirit and goes and picks it....it's sexy to have a man give a dang and care enough to go out of his way to make his mate feel nice.... adored.
Romance is based on one human choosing to reguard there partner first and in doing that crossing the trust off the list cuz obviously he knows her essence if he has those romantic notions and the mechanices of lovemaking come to the forefront as a natural progression of and a no brainer the expression of love..
I remember in my past when a mate did for me...tears in eyes cuz yep he's not alive anymore but that was a special moment i think some needed to hear today...wondering if your partner is worth you showing an expression of love...my goodness...awww course it's worth it in my opinion anyway...
Yes it is worth it...yes it makes that human unforgettable in your mind and when you look back, you smile and are greatful you had that experience indeed. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/17/2007 12:50:50 PM | My boyfriend could care less because he thinks I look best nude. I really enjoy lingerie, but I don't like wearing the full get up. I like to wear just a lil something because I like the hint of mystery that having some small part of me covered provides. Heck, I've been known to wear only a long pearl necklace with stockings and a garter, which covered nothing, really, but I liked the look and the way the stockings felt.
I think men do appreciate when women try to look really nice, but my bf seems to be a rare bird in that area, too. He's always telling me that I look beautiful to him no matter what and that I don't always have to look so perfect, to just relax and be comfortable. I really like that, but what he doesn't understand is being pulled together and "right" is what makes me feel comfortable.
For him, when it comes to sex, or even being in bed, he has a "no clothing" policy, which I often abuse, lol. He says he feels that full exposure lends a certain vulnerability, and he's right. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/17/2007 1:26:51 PM | What a shame that the men you were with didnt appreciate it. I never just expect it, but I do love it and appreciate it. I know some women like to wear lingerie, but I always appreciate it and feel the woman is doing it to please me as well. That is always a good thing and to be appreciated. And Damn I think it is hot and sexy. A woman in 4" heels and lingerie under a dress, skirt, or suit is FANTASTIC! Sorry, got carried away. | |
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