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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:15:28 PM | I have been in a couple serious relationships and I find I get bored fast. I find that you fall into the same sex routine over and over and over. I like to switch it up a bit, sometimes I like it slow and sensual but most of the time I like it crazy and fun.
I have also been in a few short-term relationships where the sex was great but finding new ideas and inspirations is tough.
Do you ladies ever get shy about asking or taking what you want?? I am the type that likes it all the time but I like a guy that takes control. A guy can put me in any position at any time and I will make it that much more fun but I have a hard time making the first move.
For the guys...Does it really make that much more of a difference for the woman to make her move?? When in a relationship I never say no to sex unless there is something wrong..lol!
Not saying I never make my move, just not as often as the men in my life.
AND...why is it that guys fart in front of you and a half hour later they are trying to get in on a BJ?? Do you know how sick of a thought that is? Get your a$$ in the shower and we'll talk!!  | |
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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:47:43 PM | Ya now that's funny.... For me it just goes to show me again that it only depends on perspective!! Myself without a g/f I don't have these concerns or potential problems but I do remember once farting in bed during a BJ and she just lifted her head and waved her hand until the coast was clear and then carried on. I was busy at the time too as we were 69ing and I was embarrassed as it was an accident but it showed me she loved and cared about pleasing me. Damn sad I let her get away as she was a keeper after that.....lol
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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:51:18 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^WAY more about you than we needed to know
You do realize that everyone that looks at your profile will now know you fart during BJs-
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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:54:26 PM | You take him by the "Hand" and jump into the shower WITH him.
Don't ever let him know that you know. Fun, wet times
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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:59:29 PM | Yeah darlin...you just havent met your match sexually....it seems to me......you got too much energy left over after sex too think about stuff........
You need a man that can drill you all over and round again...you won't have a chance to get bored....and when its done your sweaty body will collapse on the bed and crash out.............. my idea is everything in the karma sutra book for starters.....and then fill in the blank.....
as for guys that fart at you.....gosh....i dunno I don't do that ever in front of a girl....i guess thats why I always get a bj when i want one | |
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Posted: 4/14/2007 6:01:52 PM | Well Critter Sitter sorry but I just had to share on the subject as it hit close to home for me.....lol Besides it was my one and only time happening in bed guess i was just very relaxed at the time and was lost in the enjoyment. Oh what sex does tends to do to us..lmao.
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Posted: 4/14/2007 6:06:28 PM |
Do you ladies ever get shy about asking or taking what you want??
The only time I've been too shy is when I haven't been totally comfortable with the guy, in which case I shouldn't have been in bed with him in the first place (I've finally learnt that lesson! lol). The way not to get bored is communication! Talk about it, dream up new things together, silly things that make you giggle because they're so ridiculous, and then try them anyhow!
I have a hard time making the first move.
Perhaps you could come up with a phrase between your man and you that would clue him in that you're interested, without having to come right out and say it. It's a good idea to come up with a choice of responses too, so that there are no misunderstandings when he says "not now" and you take it as a turn-down, meanwhile what he really means is "no, not right now...I need to have a quick shower! But I'll meet you in the bedroom in 5 minutes!"  | |
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Posted: 4/14/2007 6:19:42 PM |
I have been in a couple serious relationships and I find I get bored fast. I find that you fall into the same sex routine over and over and over...I have also been in a few short-term relationships where the sex was great but finding new ideas and inspirations is tough...For the guys...Does it really make that much more of a difference for the woman to make her move?? When in a relationship I never say no to sex unless there is something wrong..lol! I'm not sure what the question is. Of course guys like when their partner communicates her needs and desires sexually. Hell that takes all the guess-work out and pretty much ensures her satisfaction, at least it does with me. It does sound like the OP gets bored easily with a guy; if the OP wants to form a longer lasting relationship, she ought to be concentrating on the non-sexual issues of the relationship, from what I read in Msg1 sex sure isn't the problem. | |
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Posted: 4/14/2007 6:24:35 PM | Well someone is trying hard to get this post deleted as it's the second time it's come up for deletion so if you want to say posters you need to vote to not delete it. Personally I think it's worth the read and the responses are good. Keep them coming ( pun intended)...lol
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Posted: 4/14/2007 8:47:59 PM |
I'm not sure what the question is
What I am asking is...If my man knows hands down that I am good to go at any given moment why is it so important for him that I initiate it too, as much as he would. I have never denied or deprived someone that I have had a great relationship with. I look at it like this...it's more exciting for your man to grab a hold of you, spin you around, flipping your skirt up and giving it to you hard...it's not as easy for a chick..lol!!
It does sound like the OP gets bored easily with a guy; if the OP wants to form a longer lasting relationship, she ought to be concentrating on the non-sexual issues of the relationship, from what I read in Msg1 sex sure isn't the problem.
I don't get bored with the man just get into to much of a routine with the sex. It still feels good but your missing the excitement of something new. Sometimes you end up doing the same things as the night before and so on. Lets not get into the longer lasting relationship insult...I have been in 2 serious relationships the first lasting 4 years and the last almost 7. Sex plays a huge part in a relationship don't kid yourself!! | |
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Posted: 4/14/2007 8:57:00 PM |
I do remember once farting in bed during a BJ and she just lifted her head and waved her hand until the coast was clear and then carried on.
runningman15,
sweet jesus! its not enough you had your undercarriage flapping in her face, you had to nasally rape her too. she was not a keeper my friend, she was a saint. | |
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Posted: 4/14/2007 9:44:44 PM | badgirl4u2nv
I need to find a girl like u. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 12:40:27 AM | Ok Etherealone You had me at Hello.....lol Very funny indeed as I was lmao so hard from reading your post I do believe I farted again!!! Dats True I suppose She was a Saint but it's not like I was out to test her or anything just that sumetimes "stuff" happens besides I have seen and heard alot worse. It's not like I dropped a nugget in bed just a stink bomb and she was not a drama queen about it We just moved on and enjoy the rest. Actually come to think of it now We never did really talk about it much after that but I suspected later on she paid it forward on other occasion if my senses were right as she was never one to hold things in long if they were bothering her...lol
As far as Badgirl4u2nv I don't doubt that you have experienced LTR as you are gorgeous (Damn all the luck the truely great ones live in BC)..lol Perhaps you could consider moving or I will and We will take care of that problem of yours once and for all. I love to keep it "fresh" in the bedroom..well as you know there was that one embarassing time... but yes I do believe "Spice" is the variety of life..lmao...
Badgirl I'm having fun here but that in no way indicates that I don't take your post or you seriously as I just think communication is key and you being a Woman maybe there is a block there but I don't think that any Woman of mine who has told me anything regarding sex...wanting it, variety, style, (kitchen table, pin me up against the wall kind, outdoor sex, rough sex, spanking, tie me up) whatever it is been has not made me think less of her and not she is easy in anyway. Actually it was a big turn-on and made me want her more as long as was said by another poster she was not to overbearing and was subtle and sexy at the same time.
P.s. Crittersitter I just noticed the edit to your post and yup I'm not stupid if they read it here they will know it's possible but do you think I should change my profile and add a disclaimer to it now and what would it read?? "I have been known to go off prematurely during BJ" just seems cruel to me as it was a one time thang!!!....lmao
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Posted: 4/15/2007 1:01:22 AM |
When in a relationship I never say no to sex unless there is something wrong..lol!
OP I think i'm in love. no, honestly. in my last relationship it was more like, she never said YES to sex unless there was something wrong. heh.
Back to the topic though: no, you should not be afraid to make your move. Perhaps be cautious of getting 'pushy' about it, but for any guy who is worth your trouble, he wouldn't feel 'pushed' unless you were taking it to unreasonable extremes. I think most guys would honestly get a rush out of the girl taking a bit more initiative in things. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 1:07:28 AM | | i like when the woman makes her move from time to time.. it makes a fella feel wanted. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 1:14:33 AM | It's amazing in these kinds of threads, you find out that there are a LOT of women who don't seem to care for sex that much, judging by the guy's responses, anyway. I can't think of a time when I ever turned down the chance to have sex! Wait, that makes me sound like a slut...I meant when I'm in a relationship. I have never had a problem being the instigator...again, in a relationship (okay, maybe not ALL the time...) | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 8:02:40 AM | | I don't care who makes the first move. I find a woman who tells me what she wants very erotic. The orgasms are normally more intense for both of us. Screaming, digging fingers in my back. Oh love it. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 8:52:45 AM | I enjoy having a relationship with a woman who can switch roles of initiator or recipiant. we have to know each others personalities,wants and needs.
I let my sences go and enjoy everything about the woman i am with.
and believe it or not some women are just as gros as men as far as your fart analogy thing is...
so befor anything happens lets be clean to get dirty lol.
i need to have a relationship with a woman who can tell me what she wants its a big big turn on. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 8:56:16 AM | | omfg you kill me etherealone | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 8:56:21 AM | | lol,girls fart to ya know?my ex gf farted in my face while i was eating her out! | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 9:01:54 AM | | i remember when my last gf queefed while she was on top, and i was like...wth??! course she explained and we carried on merrily... | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 9:35:36 AM | Girls don't fart .. they puffle!
farting is a natural act .. embarrassing at times yes , but we all do it .. .. as the ole saying goes"shit happens" .. or in this case"farts happen"
I am a sex fiene personally .. have not a problem letting my " pleasure" being known ! Enough with the games .. just come f*uck me .. please! women love sex as much as men , just most woemn afraid to show it .. this is ur fault guys so do not be bit*hin about gals that are meek sexually .. u made em that way! | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 11:11:29 AM |
If my man knows hands down that I am good to go at any given moment why is it so important for him that I initiate it too, as much as he would...it's more exciting for your man to grab a hold of you, spin you around, flipping your skirt up and giving it to you hard...it's not as easy for a chick..lol!!...Sex plays a huge part in a relationship It sure as hell is just as easy for a girl to give it hard to a guy! This borders on something personal, but I'll share it with you Badgirl, what the hell: one of my fantasies, never fulfilled yet, is to arrive at my g/f's place for a date, knock on her door, she answers it in a sexy lingerie, whisks me in, shuts the door, then unbuckles my belt and give me a "you know what".
"Good to go at any given moment" sounds like a borderline nymph. It also sounds like sex is the most important part of the relationship, almost paramount. If that's the case, you better discuss it up front early on, and definitely communicate what you like and don't like. Otherwise the success of the relationship is going to involve the guy guessing what you want and in what frequency. Also he's going to have to be a guy who wants sex multiple times a day, and is capable of putting out that much. I'd say the majority of guys are going to be quite satisfied with once a day, and that ain't gonna satisfy a nymph.
If the OP isn't a borderline nymph, my suggestion stands--work on the other aspects of the relationship, most important the communication. Tell your man you aren't being taken enough, not getting it hard and rough enough. BTW I wasn't insulting you by making suggestions how to make a relationship last--normally if you give a guy great sex, he'll be yours forever. It's the things outside of sex that are the issue; that's what I was suggesting that you give some introspection toward. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 11:36:50 AM | badgirl,
you have not met the right man yet.
visit me and i shall put you in all positions, your legs will be up and down, left and right, moving like never before. also your bum will not cease, lol | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 12:41:24 PM | First off you guys/ladies FCKN crack me up hahahaha!! I don't think I've ever laughed so hard from a post. Yes us girls fart too, it's all natural but I wouldn't fart in front of you and ask you to stick your head down there..hahaha!! I'm saying your guy has been passing gas all day/night long and then expects that it's cool to get a bj without washin up!! To me it's like you've been marinating your balls in fart all day EWWWW!!
one of my fantasies, never fulfilled yet, is to arrive at my g/f's place for a date, knock on her door, she answers it in a sexy lingerie, whisks me in, shuts the door, then unbuckles my belt and give me a "you know what".
I have done stuff like that for guys I have dated. I have answered the door in lingerie and I do initiate on occasions. The occasions I initiate it on is ones I have kinda planned and ones that will be special and different.
Good to go at any given moment" sounds like a borderline nymph.
I don't think I am a nymph. I do like sex and everything that goes with it and I do like it a few times a day but can handle a couple times a week. It all depends on the person you are with. Sex doesn't ruin or hasn't ruined any of my relationships, I do get bored but I still love the person and I am 100% faithful to any man I have been with.
my suggestion stands--work on the other aspects of the relationship, most important the communication.
Trust me big guy communication is not my downfall.
Tell your man you aren't being taken enough, not getting it hard and rough enough.
I never said I wasn't being taken enough or not getting it hard and rough...I don't know how to explain it in any other way to make you understand. I've mostly had good healthy sexual relationships. I'm just saying sometimes you gotta try break that routine and switch it up. I am sure many go through this and it doesn't make me a nymph or mean that sex is the be all end all of my relationships. I have been with one guy that had mentioned that he wanted me to start the fun on a regular basis which maybe I am to shy. He knows that we can get it on at anytime he just wanted me to initiate it most times too. I like the times I do it to be something different not when your lying in bed ready to sleep for the night.
Bike Man I think your writing your own book here..lol!! | |
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