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 sctt_boris
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 1
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why do older women seem to be so much more into giving good oral, I have been with a few mature women and they have been so good at giving head, i have been dep throater more by older women than younger ones, why do you older women like giving good oral?
 sft1
Joined: 5/4/2006
Msg: 2
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 7:16:40 AM
Patience.....an understanding that there's no hurry. Taking the time to find just what their partner enjoys. Why get in a hurry and pass up all those opportunities to make sure he is feeling great pleasure and not just a blowjob.....
 Highflyingadored
Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 4/17/2007 7:44:38 AM
Hmmmm.............we are good at it because we actually enjoy doing it, rather than because the guy wants us to do it. Well, thats my explanation!
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 4/17/2007 7:48:34 AM
Mature women have come into their own - they know what they like and they know how to do it! They have no qalms about the outcome - no matter what that may be. They know how to please and what pleases and they want to get just as much out of what they do as the reciever gets!!! It's all about being comfortable with who they are and what they desire in a sexual relationship - and if that happens to include providing great oral sex to a partner - then aren't you lucky you are on the receiving end!?!?!

edit (below) I hope that was a joke?!?! hehehe
Most of us very lucky, mature women have had consistant and fulfilling sex lives!!!!!
 Mustang065
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 5
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 7:51:25 AM

why do older women seem to be so much more into giving good oral, I have been with a few mature women and they have been so good at giving head, i have been dep throater more by older women than younger ones, why do you older women like giving good oral?


Maybe they are so happy to be holding one again that they feel a need to show their appreciation.
 lady_bugg65
Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 6
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 7:55:02 AM
why do older women seem to be so much more into giving good oral


simple....more practice time...

"Practice is the best of all instructors"....Publilius Syrus (Roman author, 1st century B.C.)
 moon_fish
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 7
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 8:03:21 AM
my guess would have been because it does not have to involve taking off their clothes and feeling comfortable naked with a nice slim figure to have sex. The only ones I have ever met that want to give me head right away seem to be the overweight ones. Maybe its an oral fixation. Younger gals can give good head too........ you just have to show them how and they are more eager to learn.
 twoshadows
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 8
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 8:04:12 AM
Simply put,great lovers aren't born,they're made. You need practice to get good at anything. I like to think I'm a better lover now than when I was in my 20's. It's the same with mature women:they've had time to become better lovers.
 sft1
Joined: 5/4/2006
Msg: 9
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 8:06:45 AM
Maybe they are so happy to be holding one again that they feel a need to show their appreciation
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Mustang.....

Just can't believe you actually think that .......but everyone has their opinion.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:11:10 AM
moon_fish - Mature women have way more confidence than what you describe and have learned to become very comfrotable with their bodies. They have accepted the body God gave them and are able to get naked with the right man. The one who respects them for who they are and not what they look like!!! If the women you have been with have not felt comfortable to take thier clothing off - perhaps you have not made them feel welcome to do so!! Perhaps you have made them feel disrespected!! Just a thought!!!
A woman confident & comfortable in their own skin and with thier sexuality is the one who performs best!!!

edit (below) Absolutely and I never said that age was a factor - the OP did - I was directing my answer to specifically address the OP! Definitely both men and women reach a certain level of comfort and confidence and ability to provide awesome sexual experiences to their partners!!
 4realRU
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:12:36 AM

They know how to please and what pleases and they want to get just as much out of what they do as the reciever gets!!! It's all about being comfortable with who they are and what they desire in a sexual relationship - and if that happens to include providing great oral sex to a partner


What you say is so true Leeanne, but this desire doesn't begin or end at any certain age. Desire and comfort are very key words here, and as someone pointed out earlier there is a difference between awesome oral and a b/j. I should also add that this 'desire' to totally please applies to men as well
 gboase
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:12:48 AM
I was thinking the same thing .... then I noticed how young the person writing it was and decided to forgive him ... ahh the ignorance of the youthful mind.

Hot flash for all you young male "studs" out there. You're not as good in bed as you think you are, and mature people are not as desperate as you think we are.

I wouldn't trade my mature sexual experience for all the youth in the world.
 Highflyingadored
Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:42:30 AM
Moonfish..........

I dont believe you said that about 'not taking off their clothes'. What planet are you on? Do you really think we mature women have sex fully clothed just to suit the male or because we dont consider we have good bodies and are not slim? Im sure there are some heavyweights out there, some average builds and some skinny women who all give good head. Personally, i wouldnt consider making love to ANYONE with clothes getting in the way!!

and to answer another poster who said we should be grateful..........well i always give thanks for what i am about to receive rotflmao.
 marphilly
Joined: 11/5/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:45:40 AM
I've found that mature ladies have fewer hang-ups about sexual pleasure in general than younger women do. There's not as much of 'if I do this, will he think I'm a slut' mentality. Time gives people a better perspective and sex is no exception.
 NapJoe
Joined: 1/17/2007
Msg: 15
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 8:48:55 AM
Mature women face obstacles when competing for me. First, there's not enough mature men to go around. The competition is fierce for the ones still around. Secondly, mature men often prefer younger women.

"Mature women have come into their own - they know what they like and they know how to do it! They have no qalms about the outcome - no matter what that may be. They know how to please and what pleases and they want to get just as much out of what they do as the reciever gets!!! It's all about being comfortable with who they are and what they desire in a sexual relationship
 lady_bugg65
Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:50:21 AM
my guess would have been because it does not have to involve taking off their clothes and feeling comfortable naked with a nice slim figure to have sex.


wtf...?...umm yeah, mature women are all overweight desperate c*ck suckers........good lord....


why do you older women like giving good oral?


takes less time than giving 'bad' oral..........;)
 badbadgirl
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 17
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:52:55 AM
Years and years of practice
I'm not old but I know I'm better at it than when I was 18...So imagine what it will be at 50, 60...
 lonestardaddy
Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:57:08 AM
Yes, I've found that some older women love to demonstate what they've learned for technique, but still suck when it comes to being able to communicate their own needs beyond this and their appreciation for the subjected. No complaints, mind you. Just a man who appreciates watching as well asfeeling firsthand what the lady knows to do.
 jumbo shrimp
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 4/17/2007 8:57:14 AM
No teeth to get in the way :)
 badbadgirl
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 4/17/2007 9:00:47 AM
^^^^^^^^^^ ^




my guess would have been because it does not have to involve taking off their clothes and feeling comfortable naked with a nice slim figure to have sex.


that was ignorant...I'm a stripper and the older mature strippers I've seen often seem to be the ones most comfortable in their own skin and with nudity.Trust me strippers aren't all young Barbies...I've seen some very big ones,even overweight...strech marks,C-sections scars,cellulite,flat asses...all the little imperfections you can think of...But didn't seem to bother them.Also sometimes the hottest perfect ones seemed obsessed and complexed,pinching their belly,looking for fat that only them see....creating unecessay complexes.While older women learned to deal with them.
 Brutus Buckwheat
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 21
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 9:24:18 AM
I think there is some truth to this. I think oral is more about skill and technique and certainly not everybody has it. I'm sure the women would say the same thing about guys performing on them as well. I think too many women watch porno movies and do it that way. There is so much more skill involved that bobbing for apples. So many women don't know where the most sensitive parts are or don't know where the frenulem (spelling) is. I think older women are probably a more experienced and able to preform at a higher level.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 4/17/2007 9:56:34 AM
like when they remove their dentures and give you a gummer?
 ~curlygirl~
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 4/17/2007 10:23:02 AM
i think it's just a matter of experience...many women in thier 30s, 40s and up have picked up the tricks that the average 20 yr old girl is still clueless about. i dunno if i would fit the OP's definition of a 'mature woman' at 33, but relative to many of my partners, i'm certainly older...and i get the same reviews about how i give head. seems some younger girls either don't like it, don't know how to do it, or think that their more youthful bodies make up for not trying in bed. whatever the reason, i'm good at what i do and i'm more than happy to take the compliment ; )
 moon_fish
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 24
Mature women doing oral
Posted: 4/17/2007 12:49:06 PM
guess when I'm older, like 70 and date women in their 50's...
I can get one to take her dentures out and gum me
 Jenn8216
Joined: 9/9/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 4/17/2007 2:59:28 PM
well i saw this comadien once and she sayed the reason older women are much better giving head it's because they HAVE to lol because there is a much younger ones that want in on the actiones.

I personaly think it all depends on the women if she like doing it thene it will be good if she don't thene you will know


lol that my 2 cents
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