| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:21:38 AM | | From the forums it would seem that most prefer their partner to make noise while having sex. My question is why? if I gave you a fabulous cordon bleu meal I wouldn't expect you to keep grunting and gasping and saying 'give me more' I would see from your smile that you were enjoying it. So why do we feel the need to make noises when having sex? and do people make those same noises when masturbating? | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:23:35 AM | | lmao!... I knew someone that used to hum while they were eating... now I'm wondering | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:25:25 AM | | lookandlearn, If I ate your cordon bleu and didn't tell you how tasty it was, would you know that I enjoyed it ...and how much so? If I was nibbling on the back of your neck or some other body part where our eyes and smiles could not meet, how would I know you were enjoying what I was doing? There's a difference between, "Mmmm, good" ...and "Oh, dear God, keep licking me like that!" | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:30:07 AM | | Ok, a 'wow that's lovely' but not 'grunt groan, more more, give me more baby, yes that's right!' on and on and on! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:40:20 AM | Well I think a lot of people have sex with their eyes closed most of the time - or in the dark -  If that is the case, the auditory gives some hint of how things are going and it intensifies the moment!!
I truly think, that it just tells you how good you are at the job you are doing - it tells me how much I drive my man insane with pleasure - nothing like hearing his enjoyment! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:48:14 AM | | lookandlearn, Sometimes, when the sex is that good, we just it let be known that it is w/o concern for what might come out of our mouths for our more primal heart's ecstacy. P.S. I'm not a 'grunter' in such cases, but more the deep 'groaner' in case that's more to your liking for what I'd hope that you'd take as a compliment. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:48:53 AM | | I like a little auditory feedback just so I know I'm on the right track. Over the top porn style is, well.. OVER THE TOP. A little "mmmmmmmmm... yeah baby.. right there!!!" or "OHF*CKYA!!!!" or "don't stop!!" along with sharply sucked in breaths and sheet twisting and I know I'm doing the right thing. I think the amount of noise is relative too tho. Sometimes you just have to be quiet!! And masterbation.. same thing. Sometimes you have to make a little noise! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:57:49 AM | Why wouldn't you want your partner to make noise???????
I mean I have had my share of partners and the ones that just laid there and either took it or put a pillow on there heads where not the ones that stand out in my memorys has the greats...
Now the girl that was telling me in detail how what we where doing felt to her and arched her back and moaned and breathed in my ear and knew what she wanted... She stands out in my mind...
Plus Sex or F()cking is something that should be enjoyed, it's not so much like love making where it's much more one on one and about emotion and passion. If I'm having Sex or F()cking I'm thinking Porn playing with lingerie and ass slapping, hair pulling dirty talking, throwing each other around the room, hot oil, candles, restraints and what have you... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 6:03:24 AM | I enjoy hearing my partner appreciate what I am doing. I belive having sex should encompasse all the senses, touch, sight, sound,taste and smell. If your partner is going down on you they can't see your smile, but they can hear you groan in pleasure. I love when my partner tells me and shows me what he wants and enjoys.
I have been known to groan about a particularly good piece of chocolate or some other gourmet delicacy. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 6:23:05 AM | silent sex is just boring to me...dirty talk and sounds are exciting!I just can't help it...it's impossible for me to be silent when I'm having fun.Sounds come out just naturally...I love it too when my man makes sounds...huge turn on.
I had my share of complaints/knocks on the walls from neighboors that thought I was too loud.
if I gave you a fabulous cordon bleu meal I wouldn't expect you to keep grunting and gasping and saying 'give me more'
lol I'm the kind of girl who would keep on saying: Hmmmmmm that's sooo good!!! and definetly GIVE ME MORE!!! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 7:02:51 AM | | look and learn, i think ppl make noises becuase they r caught up in the moment, and if it feels so good, they r gonna express themselves........... for me, i love to hear a man moan and groan, tells me hes enjoying IT, for me if i am with a man, and hes moaning and groaning and being verbal, its a definate turn-on,,,,, not sure i can say this or not, but someone that just lies there during the act is just a dead fuc*. express urself ppl and let ur partner know how good it feels ! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 7:52:56 AM | You make it sound like it's intentional - when I am having sex - particularly great sex - I don't have control over my vocal moanings - I am lost in the moment, enjoying it, letting my body envelope it in its entirety. It's natural. I have to make a real effort to keep it quiet if I need to .
I personally HATE quiet sex - I find it awkward, and it makes me self-conscious.
As for cordon bleu, if it was exceptionally I would probably utter an "Oh my god this is soooo good". You can't compare sex to food, although I am sure there have times when having sex we wish we were actually having chocolate. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 8:33:59 AM |
Ok, a 'wow that's lovely' but not 'grunt groan, more more, give me more baby, yes that's right!' on and on and on!
During sex, the most I'll say is "that's interesting..."
Until the last second before orgasm - then I sound like Moe, Larry, Shemp, and Curly:
Woob-woob-woob-woob-woob! Eeeee-be-be-be-be! Nyuk-nyuk-nyuk! Nyaaaaaaah! Help, help, I'm losing my mind! Moe, Larry - the cheese! Anacanapanastan! B-A-bay, B-E-be, B-I-bicki-bi, B-O-bo, bicki-bi-bo, B-U-bu, bicki-bi-bo-bu!
Then the women break up with me. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 10:14:59 AM | I can keep quiet sometimes.......... but it like takes something out of the experience. The only reason to be quiet is because the kids / rest of the family are still awake... lol
Men are more quiet, I think than women.........
I totally agree with fletchs_no_1_bby .......... FEED BACK IS GREAT
Doesnt have to be screaming loud, wake the neighbors feed back, but something is good.
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 10:18:49 AM | | Yeah well, actually the thread was cos the last one that I really wanted to know the answer to, got deleted, and that was do others make the same sounds when they are masturbating, for some reason the mods didn't like it!! ha ha | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 12:46:56 PM | Everyone I've been with tells me the noises I make turn them on more.. For me it's natural & works for everyone. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 12:50:31 PM | I can't believe this is even a question!!
If your turned off by noises during sex then there is something very wrong..... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 12:51:18 PM |
lol I'm the kind of girl who would keep on saying: Hmmmmmm that's sooo good!!! and definetly GIVE ME MORE!!!
I'm with BadGirl on this one... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 1:03:58 PM | I find there is no way to be quiet when I am seriously turned on. ...and those little sighs and groans from my partner are a HUGE turn-on because I know he's into me too. There is nothing better than kissing someone's neck and feeling that little vibration against your lips when he groans deep in his throat because you've hit THAT spot or when you're "kissing" other places and he catches his breath and says "ahhhhh, yessssssss". Feed back is great...and some times even when I'm by myself, hearing myself moan while fantasizing about someone is a turn-on.
So I say "Be loud...Be proud!" | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 1:20:14 PM | Yes , I agree ! Make it loud. Then the next morning at breakfast you ask -Anyone want butter? Everyone will yell Yes, Yes , Yes ! Give it to Me ! Give it to me!
I guess it depends who else can hear. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 1:22:57 PM | I like to hear to give it to her harder, faster and do my best to move to her groove .. so she gets off. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 1:27:47 PM | I HATE silent sex, i think its boring and until the person cums, i wouldnt know if they are enjoying themselves...
Lying there thinking of england and being quiet isnt my style in the slightest... I like my men to be vocal and full of expression thanks  
Its akin to having a conversation with someone and they are just sitting there nodding politely in my opinion | |
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