| People that wear thier heart on thier sleeve instead of using there head on there shoulders Posted: 4/24/2007 5:56:10 AM | | I was talking to a lady for two months and i sent her dinners to her work i was just treating her the way a lady should always be treated the question is I met her on her christmas break we had a great time at this point i started to fall for her so we went out a few more times before she had to put all her effort into school so I have fallen hard for her and she didnt have time to put feelings into me and I closed my options I just can't suck it up and let go like that I have been told that we were friends dating but to me friends don't kiss on the lips She was honest with me from day one But she was getting out of a marriage | |
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| People that wear thier heart on thier sleeve instead of using there head on there shoulders Posted: 4/24/2007 6:47:32 AM | I think OP is saying he got sucked in.
She was honest with me from day one .....What was she honest about? Did she explain to you that she didn't want a relationship with you, and just wanted to be friends? If this is the case, then you only have yourself to blame. How can someone NOT have time to put their feelings into you? That's a new one on me. You have to face the facts OP, she is NOT into you. If she is using her marriage break up as her excuse, then perhaps she shouldn't even be dating, as it appears she is not ready to date. You really need to wipe the slate clean, and begin again with someone who can give you what you need.  | |
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| People that wear thier heart on thier sleeve instead of using there head on there shoulders Posted: 4/24/2007 12:41:42 PM | Listen - can you take "No" for an answer- well - I suggest you start. She wants to do her school- sounds like she was upfront with you. You said she was honest with you from day one. Okay then- be honest with yourself- its over. She could kiss you any way she wants. Means NOTHING- you just cant let it go - well you need to and you need to suck it up and you need to go and meet someone else. You sound very clingy, pain in the ass, stalky here. Walk away - chalk it up- take the hit, whatever. Its over. | |
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