| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 6:27:36 AM | | you start see them and they tell u they dont want to see other people and u ask well are we "together" and they dont want to commit, whats up with that. I feel they are looking for something better. I am about to give up. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 6:41:25 AM | | Dont give up, guys dont commit for various reasons. They could be unsure of thier relationship with you, they may actually be looking for someone they think is better. They could have a fear of commitment. They could just not ready for a serious relationship, they may really care for you but not want all the responsibility of a commited relationship at the moment. So dont worry when you find the right guy and its the right time they will commit, until then try not to stress so much and enjoy what you have. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 6:52:06 AM | | Men AND women SHOULD ALWAYS be looking for something better. If a guy wants to commit, thats fine...if he doesnt thats fine too. No one should expect someone to commit if they dont want to. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 7:00:38 AM | | I agree with both msg.2&4. The person(man or woman) has the choice to commit or not. But once you have the commitment then he or she should only be focused on you and not as people say looking for something better to come there way. I like and want to only be in a one on one relationship so I can give that relationship the best I have to offer. Good luck. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 7:54:14 AM | I happen to be a loyal person for the most part. This goes for friends, lovers, employers, family and anyone else deserving of my loyalty.
So if I do decide to commit, even though I will continute to look with the eyes, that's as far as it would go.
I would hope that my significant other, would also be one of my closest friends, and I don't let anyone or anything come between me and my TRUE friends. Ever. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 8:10:43 AM | When I am “locked in” to a real two way match - I am not looking for anything better.
That is the reason I don’t casual date. Casual dating IS looking for something better.
People should know (not hope) it is a two way match. In a real two way match - both people stop looking.
Personally - I just don’t get involved with a “try it and see” type of relationship. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 8:57:54 AM | It's not just guys - people in general are always looking for the best deal they can get ('what's in it for me?'). Holds true whether you're on POF or E-Bay.
Have to agree with Ron9 - I just don't get into "let's try it & see" casual dating because there's an implicit "...until something better comes along" feel to it. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 9:17:32 AM | Uhm, Isn’t looking for something better and having a commitment two different things?
Looking for something better is playing the field, dating many others.
A commitment is when you promise yourself to someone and stop looking around.
It would be kind of awkward to tell someone during a commitment that you are actively seeking someone better. As a matter of fact it would be freaking rude.
I don’t know, but just my opinion... | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 9:42:59 AM | Hey all...Commitment...imagine! I dated what I thought was a really great guy, and we did commit to each other....then he decided to uncommit without letting me know. He said "he takes me for granted as he knows I will always be there"...He figured wrong. What I figure is that if your always looking for something better, your never gonna see the greatness that is staring you right in the face!!! Take a chance and look for something better together....thats the challenge! | |
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Posted: 4/24/2007 1:09:49 PM | | Hey Kungfu... I think your a little bit mistaken there on some level. Women generally dont look for something better once they are already in something that is great. I will admit there are a few lady's who do look elsewhere, and there are some ladies who see another lady has got something awesome and go after it....but in general, most of us are not sewer rats looking for the next big piece of cheese. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 1:30:17 PM |
but in general, most of us are not sewer rats looking for the next big piece of cheese.
And neither are men, for that matter.
There will always be people who are never satisified with what they have.
But the bottom line is, if he (or she) is looking for something better, you just need to thank yourself that you didn't wind up locked into a relationship with them, and go through life knowing that they stayed with you because you were better than nothing.
I'd rather be somebody's five star meal than the macaroni and cheese they scraped out of the trash. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 2:12:03 PM | I don't agree with most of these comments. If you are constantly looking for something better, then you are never going to be satisfied.
I was just going to say that. People like that keep aiming higher and higher (and often out of their league) until eventually they fall off their 'high horse' ... and that's gonna hurt. | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 2:47:24 PM | "Who moved my Cheese?" is a good book. Never settle seek better.
I've had women say they love me and prod it out of me. Then a few days later say that they aren't ready to hear that and it was too soon and then go nuts that "I" am moving too fast.  | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 3:19:40 PM | First of all, you should never tell a woman you love her unless you mean it...not because she has prodded it out of you. It means more that way!!!
Also Its okay to seek something better or someone better when you are out of a relationship, not in one.
Just know this....if you choose to seek someone better and hurt the one your are with, she or he may not be there when you realize you made the mistake | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 4:09:47 PM | Chicks... You don't quit fishing just because he's hard to reel in!
I think you're pretty safe. Women want to know all the details about absolutely every deal. Guys just know they have one. If they say they "dont want to see other people" then you have a relationship.
Here's a tip:
Instead of ASKING if you are "together", tease him about being in a relationship:) "Come on...say it... I know you want me." | |
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| why are guys always looking for something better
Posted: 4/24/2007 4:35:43 PM | blogreader,
Don't let your experiences get you down. Look at the positives in every situation. You don't want a guy who will just walk up and leave or lose interest so easily. In fact, he did you a favour. So don't give up. There are some good guys out there. You are not the only one who goes through things like this. There are many guys and girls out there that can relate to you. Just hang in there, have faith and patience. Good things will come your way.
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