| Prostate massage??
Posted: 4/28/2007 10:39:45 PM | Do most men like to have their prostate messed with whilst having sex and do women feel comfortable doing this?? I've found this to increase the power of my ejaculation.
PS. Do you think I maybe gay?? | |
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| Prostate massage??
Posted: 4/28/2007 10:54:01 PM | | The male G-Spot. Most hookers use this to get the bugger off em so they can get another trick. | |
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| Prostate massage??
Posted: 4/28/2007 10:55:09 PM | | Well dear, if YOU think you may be gay, you may be gay. Prostate massage (and the enjoyment thereof) has absolutely NOTHING to do with it, however. Almost every man I have been with loves it and they were all very straight. I, too, love doing it......of course I love doing anything that gives my man pleasure. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2007 11:20:18 PM | | well i would think with 2 posts i have seen already about you wanting to have something shoved up your ass, im guessing that you might have at the very least a fetish. But that you keep asking if your gay, kinda says that you are and just dont know how to bring it up and out in the open. | |
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| Prostate massage??
Posted: 4/28/2007 11:23:09 PM |
well i would think with 2 posts i have seen already about you wanting to have something shoved up your ass
You do not have to have something shoved "up there" to have your prostrate massaged. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2007 11:27:12 PM | | then how do you massage a prostate then genious. What do you think a doctor does when he examines your prostate. What hole does he go up to exam it?????? | |
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Posted: 4/28/2007 11:37:27 PM | I think it sounds like he is referring to massaging the little area of skin between your anus and your scrotum........NOT a prostate massage. Sorry, that REQUIRES penetration. And yeah, fingers qualify as "something being shoved up there".......... | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 12:07:18 AM | I once had a full-body orgasm from this. un-effing-believable. amazing. tried it since but no luck.
Here's how you tell if you're gay. Go to a gay bar. See anyone you want to take home? No? well then you're not gay. Curiosity and experimentation are neutral, in the context of sexual orientation. (This includes homosexual acts. I've given head to a man before just because I wanted to know what it was like. It gave me a new respect for women who can deep throat. It didn't turn me on though, and I don't experience sexual desire when I look at a man, so I'm not gay.) | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 12:18:51 AM |
(This includes homosexual acts. I've given head to a man before just because I wanted to know what it was like. It gave me a new respect for women who can deep throat. It didn't turn me on though, and I don't experience sexual desire when I look at a man, so I'm not gay.)
Am I the only one getting that TMI feeling about now??????? | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 12:56:28 AM | | Sweet fishy ...does that include household chores? | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 1:37:56 AM | dude..sorry o break it to you but your on the borderline of gayness. If you do not want to be homosexual I suggest you punch urself i nthe face and remidn ur self ur an F in man...stop with the gayness.  | |
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| Prostate massage??
Posted: 4/29/2007 2:41:23 AM | | Nope. You're not alone. Lol! I didn't expect to come across a line like that! | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 3:06:02 AM | Okay, EASY punks!
Let someone who's ACTUALLY been there talk.
Sorry, usually I'd let the "Ponces" babble like the insecure little ****es that they are, but this guy has put it out there, so let's hear it from the REAL men for a change.
HEY! YOUNGBLOODS! After awhile, if you're LUCKY enough, you might get bored with the whole forward/reverse style of sex. If not, then MARRY that sock, because I gaurantee it's the only partner you're ever going to have that won't get bored of your tired-ass "pitch and puke" idea of sex.
Guess what? You DON'T have the biggest****in creation, if you're lucky enough to be with a girl that tells you otherwise, you'd best behave. Because I GAURANTEE, she can DATE/BUY/IMAGINE bigger and better than you.
So, if we're done with the whole macho/bullshit thing, you will never have a better orgasm,(taliking to the guys here) than when she's got a finger up your ass, working your prostate like it owes her money. If you're lucky enough, she'll be practised enough to pull it out WHILE you come, to save you the recognition of just how much she's owned you.
And if SHE'S lucky enough, you won't care about mickey-mouse crap like that. You'll realize that she's the best lay you've ever had. And DO something about it. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 4:16:01 AM | | I've always wondered about the "prostrate massage"... how it works...what it feels like... never brought it up in a relationship though... it's something that I think someone's going to have to surprise me with one day | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 4:48:22 AM | | i tried with my one guy friend and he was against it...how can i convince him that its healthy and he should try it? | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 5:09:01 AM | Being gay has to do with one thing and one thing only... what gender you are attracted to.... NOT what body parts you like to have stimulated... EVERYONE has a butt and it is an erogenous zone for alot of people BOTH male and female... The prostate is the male G-spot.... and stimulating it while getting a BJ will intensify an orgasm 10 fold....
It has nothing to do with being gay.... so work through your homophobia and enjoy your body and sexuality ...
And remember.... nothing says I love you like gettting a finger up the butt while getting a BJ 
DK | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 5:14:45 AM | | funny, I thought nothing said "I love you" like birth control | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 5:25:33 AM | Here I go wading in! I don't think that this subject nor the activity it alludes to has anything to do with homosexuality. Let me say something about that first. Fact is homosexuals LIKE it because it has excellent results. Now imagine a heterosexual union: just because it is a female doing it to a male, does not depreciate the value, nor the pleasure given and received.
This type of sex is not a sexuality issue, it is an issue of A man getting pleasure It should not contribute to any homophobic tendencies and any man who doesn't appreciate or value it, has issues with himself, not as a heterosexual, nor even as a homosexual, its about sex and if it gives someone pleasure and you feel comfortable about doing it and having it done, go for it!!!!!! Prostate massage has NOTHING to do with who or what you are when you are a man, it is about sexual pleasure of a man's body!!!!.
  I think I just learned something, something that I've never realized. Thanks OP!!!!  | |
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| Prostate massage??
Posted: 4/29/2007 8:36:02 AM |
Am I the only one getting that TMI feeling about now???????
Hahaha... aww, sorry sweet fishy. I figured a convo that was already talking about prostate massage would have been avoided by the faint of heart... But consider, someone who is this interested in sex, ie, to the point of research, MUST be an amazing lover! ;-)
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Posted: 4/29/2007 11:36:40 AM | | LOL....not even remotely faint of heart here. Have many, MANY gay friends, too. Just sounds surprising coming from a straight male. :) Trust me, I know research makes for better lovers.........not much I haven't "researched" myself. :) | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 12:27:38 PM | ENTRO - Here's a quick hint on the gay thang.
If the person who's messing with yo butt has a D!¢K or YOU WISH they did then that's GAY.
With me so far?
If the person messing with yo butt has NO d!CK but has boobies and you're fine with that then you may not be gay even though you being so unsure at this point may be a forgone conclusion anyway.
I'm not really sure where this idea of "Don't touch me there" if you're a guy comes from. I mean does going down (oral sex ON a woman if you have a D!CK) make you a dyke? Do women live in terror that if she gets a good tongue-lashing from her MAN it'll make her want to gain 150lbs, cut most of her hair off, dye it blond and wear lots of leather?
Don't think so.
Some people are so funny. and yes ... my vote goes for the TMI too. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 2:07:41 PM | [I'm not really sure where this idea of "Don't touch me there" if you're a guy comes from. I mean does going down (oral sex ON a woman if you have a D!CK) make you a dyke? Do women live in terror that if she gets a good tongue-lashing from her MAN it'll make her want to gain 150lbs, cut most of her hair off, dye it blond and wear lots of leather? ] 
For those thinking there's only one way to get to get to the prostate or scared you're gay if you like to have it massaged..... there is more than one way to get to it:
One is by finding the spot midway between the testicles and anus. There is a small indentation about the size of a pea or maybe larger. Be gentle and push inward. He will feel the pressure deep inside and it may be intensely painful at first. Eventually, as this area is worked on and softened, he will be able to expand his orgasms and master ejaculatory control. You can massage his Lingam (pen!s) with your right hand and massage his prostate with your left hand. Try pushing in on this spot when he nears ejaculation. It is aptly named the Million Dollar Point in Taoism.
The other way to access the prostate is through the anus. Many men, especially heterosexual men, are uncomfortable at first as a result of negative sexual conditioning. Be careful here and use lubrication. The key is to go slow and be very gentle. Make sure he is breathing as you slip a finger from your left hand into the anus about an inch or so. Then crook the finger back in a "come here" gesture. You will feel the prostate gland. Vary the pressure and speed of massage. He may want stimulation of the Lingam as you massage the Sacred Spot. Back off on the Lingam (pen!s) as he approaches orgasm and increase the pressure on the prostate.
Education erases ignorance!!
Let's see if this one gets through...  | |
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| Prostate massage??
Posted: 4/29/2007 2:43:56 PM |
Be gentle and push inward. He will feel the pressure deep inside and it may be intensely painful at first.
While I am all for massaging ANY area of a man's body that feels good (and I do massage this one in particular, just not THAT hard!!! lick and kiss it too!!), right in the middle of sex is NOT the time to cause him undesired intense pain. Things might just wilt. :( So, I will continue with the rectal route or nothing (and I have only been with one man who wouldn't let me stick my fingers in his ass). | |
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Posted: 4/29/2007 2:57:07 PM | | the description mentions possible "intense pain" to remind the person to be gentle and take the time to massage the area to intensify his pleasure. Even with a finger is his ass you need to work into it... not just take the plunge. | |
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| Prostate massage??
Posted: 4/29/2007 3:03:07 PM | NOTHING TOUCHES MY TUSH. Hehehehehe..
Seriously, that out right irritates me. My Ex touched my rear thinking it would get me off or something. I almost kicked her.
And don't try to force a guy into letting you finger him. That is gross. If you didn't like yours penetrated would you want a guy to force you into it?
Cause face it not all women like that back side tended to either.
I am not knocking it for those that enjoys it. We are all different. But you must learn your partners limits and not all women like being entered from the back. So not all men will like it. And it would be a perfect way to end sex with me on any given night. I'd leave the woman to play with her own toys. I don't need sex so bad as to be with women that gets into that kind of stuff. Gotta leave my tush alone.
I am into just about anything the woman desires too. So I am not that narrow minded in that field.
And to be totally honest... my tush is rather tickless anyway and I don't even let a woman squeeze it. | |
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