| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/4/2007 10:28:17 PM | I've been exchanging emails with this guy for about 2 months now. Whenever the topic of sex comes up he always says that he wants to kiss my toes and massage my feet etc.
He says his turn-on is high-heels shoes (which I told him I wear), and women's feet. But---I hate my feet and think they are really ugly!
I plan on meeting this guy next month and if things go right, we might end up getting intimate....so here is the problem:
If he is so turned on by feet and I don't want my feet touched how are we gonna accomodate each other?? I mean, is this even an issue?
I already told him that i think my feet are ugly and he says, "I'm sure they are beautiful..and I cant' wait to see you in your high-heels..."
any other foot fetishists out there? and how would u deal with someone who hates her feet? | |
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KessM
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Joined: 3/24/2006
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/4/2007 10:30:48 PM | why dont you just splurge and get a pedicure, pay attention to what they do...then get some products so you can give your self regular ones?
and having your toes sucked (shrimping) feels awesome....so do what you need to do to get that going on! | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/4/2007 10:32:20 PM | Either accept it and let him touch your feet or forget the thoughts of becoming intimate...
Not much else you can do in this case... A way to over come this before the date is to go and get a peticure {spelling} before meeting him... That way you've done your best to make your feet as pretty as possible and maybe you won't feel so bad about them... | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/4/2007 10:43:21 PM | | I personally don't understand the foot fetish thing... but each to their own. I certainly wouldn't turn on a guy with a foot fetish lmao! But if he wanted to I'd be all for the foot massage. Unfortunately I can't wear heels though so that's out. *sigh* | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/4/2007 11:02:13 PM | Well, it's not so much that I need a pedicure, it's just that I hate my feet coz they are not dainty !
I had a guy suck my toe before, but he caught me off-guard so I let him do it...and yeah, it felt really good!!
But, if I'm kinda freaked knowing that this guy will be checking out my feet from the beginning!! | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/4/2007 11:28:59 PM |
Unfortunately I can't wear heels though so that's out. *sigh*
That's where horizontal shoes come in - never have to actually wear them anywhere except to bed!  | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/5/2007 1:00:37 AM | | don't worry! it doesn't matter what you think your feet look like, he will love them. you will love your feet after he has admired them. seriously, don't worry. let him adore you how he wants. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/5/2007 5:27:38 AM | If a guy really sucked on your toes then your feet can’t be that bad. However, if you are uncomfortable with your feet then it is better to find someone who wouldn’t bother with them.
There are plenty of fish out there and I haven’t seen any fish with feet yet. 
I guess the guy is fishing at the wrong pond!! 
I like women who take care of their feet. If you take time to take care of your feet – then chances are – you are a well-kept individual.
Lazy down there = lazy in other aspects. 
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/5/2007 5:58:53 AM |
any other foot fetishists out there? and how would u deal with someone who hates her feet?
I am not sure if this is a fetish or obsession, but I love nicely shapely women's feet. Of course, I also need the personality and chemistry... | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/5/2007 6:31:59 AM | | I'm not a fan of the foot fetishist. I don't mind my feet being massaged, but no thanks on the whole heels in bed and toe sucking thing. I also don't usually talk to anyone anymore once they bring up any type of fetish. I'm weird like that. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/5/2007 8:34:17 AM | I hate - hate feet!!!!!! I never got the foot fetish thing!! Geeze even my son when he was like 2 - he would go for womens feet!!!  I could Never get along with someone that wants to go for my feet!!! Yuck!!! | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/5/2007 8:56:33 AM | If you absolutely, positively can not stand the mere thought of someone else touching and spoiling your feet, then I can see where their is a problem. If you're self conscious about them...well, that's something different. Don't let your own self doubt make it an issue.
You may not think your feet are the greatest, but he might love the way your toes curl, etc. Who knows, after a little spoiling, you may feel better about your feet.
There are a lot of kinks out there. Foot fetishes, though unusual aren't at the top of my list for being weird. :P | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/5/2007 8:57:12 AM | If he has a foot fetish I'm pretty sure it won't make a difference what your feet look like or how youthink they look. I would say go get a pedicure and let him do his thing as long as he returns the favor.
I have never got the foot fetish thing though... | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/6/2007 5:07:34 PM | I wouldn't say I am obsessed with feet, but I generally include them in my sexual routine with woman I've dated... With only one or two exceptions I have never dated anyone who didn't enjoy having their feet paid some attention to.... That being said I've dated many woman who either didn't like their feet or had never had them included in their sex/sensual routine before we got together. Most went into orbit and discovered an untapped erogenous zone....
Sensuality is not about what body parts look like (as long as they are clean and taken care of)... IT IS ABOUT HOW SOMETHING FEELS.... about allowing our partner to be intimate with your body and vise-versa.... Christ we have alot of freaky looking body parts   that are a regular part of our sex lives....
I'd say give it a try.... you don't have to like them to allow someone to explore that part of your body and see if you ennjoy the sensation.... If it makes you feel better get a pedicure ahead of time.... But don't write off a potential erogenous zone just because you don't like the way they look....
On a personal note my GF hates her feet, but loves having them in our sex life.
Sensuality is about having fun and exploring... be open to your body and the possibilities...
DK | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/9/2007 3:46:02 PM | | A night with him might cure you and give you confidence. Why not post a picture of your feet or ask a male friend what he thinks of your feet. But I should warn you, showing your feet to any guy might turn him on (1 in 7 men have a foot fetish) and you might start a new relationship before you meet the guy you've been chatting with. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/9/2007 4:02:19 PM | | Is there more to this relationship or is it just a sex thing? If it's just about sex, then who cares...let him have at it with the feet if that's his thing. On the other hand, if it's a relationship building and it's an issue for you, then you might want to rethink it IF you have issues with people touching your feet. My ex husband had a thing about constantly rubbing my feet with his feet and it drove me nuts. I'm not into the foot thing. So if it bothers you, then reconsider.. If it's just YOUR hang up about YOUR feet, then that's different. If he's into feet...he's probably going to be into them no matter what they look like..that's my guess. | |
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Ninki
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Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 19 | |
| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/9/2007 6:26:51 PM |
I could Never get along with someone that wants to go for my feet!!! Yuck!!!
And yet, you love oral sex....  How come mouth-to-genitals is considered okay, but feet are nasty???? 
Ninki | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/9/2007 9:21:05 PM | As long as you have no problem letting him indulge in his fascination then you shouldn’t be concerned with your feet at all; let him be the one to take care of them for you.
I’m sure he would appreciate being allowed the opportunity to clean, massage and paint them as he wishes. I’d suggest getting a pedicure beforehand like some other posters have mentioned, just to show acceptance.
As long as he treats the rest of you with the same affection as your feet then you really shouldn’t have a problem (*crosses fingers*). | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/10/2007 8:19:39 PM | I too like feet. My exes knew they were getting laid every time they wore flip-flops. But yeah I have encountered many a woman who were repuled by their feet and found that they were really into it when they gave it a try.
I say give it a try; you might find you like it. If you're not, there's no loss. | |
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tmotts
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Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 22 | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/11/2007 5:29:05 AM | I kinda understand where you're coming from. I hate my chest...but my BF likes that it's small cause he doesn't like big breasts. So I have to get past my personal loathing of my chest and realize that he really does think it's great
Having said that dating a guy with foot fetish isn't all that tough (trust me)
He actually WANTS to rub your feet after a long day at work
Nail polish/pedicures....super cute shoes...are like lingerie for a foot fetishist
So you treat yourself to a cute pair of heels to put the feet you just got pampered with a nice pedicure in and he's good to go
I say get some peppermint cream, a pumice stone and a hot shade of red nail polish for the tootsies and enjoy the ride | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/11/2007 6:10:16 AM | | Funny that i come across this topic as i once met someone that had a thing for feet and at first i thought it was a little different but now i think it sounds like a very ecrotic thing..... but listen..what is the difference from a man paying attention tofeet or any other part of your body ..i mean if it drives him wild and makes him horny ..maybe one should enjoy it and hey you never know you might love it!!! Each to their own of course but i dont think it is strange....and others see our body different anyways so if you find a foot guy ....get to know him ..he might have a great heart | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet!
Posted: 5/11/2007 7:20:34 AM |
I'd say give it a try.... you don't have to like them to allow someone to explore that part of your body and see if you ennjoy the sensation.... If it makes you feel better get a pedicure ahead of time.... But don't write off a potential erogenous zone just because you don't like the way they look....
^^^^This guy has the right thoughts on this subject . I don't like the looks of my feet , especially my big toes (always felt they were too fat looking) . But this type of play by a previous mate was brought into our sex life without any previous discussions on the topic . I myself found it to be quite enjoyable (as the receiver ....I'm not about to be the giver on this one though) . | |
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