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Posted: 5/11/2007 4:47:27 AM | ........just wondering if this has happened to anyone. My SO cums sooo hard and she gets sooo wet while we are having sex. She has several orgasms and she really is into what I am doing for her. I do enjoy seeing her get so much enjoyment...such a turn on. But, she is sooo lose and wet that there is not much enjoyment for me. Positions and angels don't help...she is that wet and lose. I am focused on her and it is very obvious that she is getting satisfied but most times I get frustrated and just give up. Stamina is not a problem as I can go for an hour or so. She is exhausted and is like putty and half - heatedly asks if I was satisfied. When she asks -it is such a vain attempt that I am not interested.
I have read that achieving orgasm are the individuals responsibility and not to put that on your partner.
She is a great woman...lots of fun and we connect on all levels except this one. She is a knock-out with a body that turns heads of every man in the room. We are a great couple and dedicated to each other but this is getting old. We been together for 2 years now. What da ya think? | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 5:07:55 AM | I wouldnt say being too wet is the problem but maybe the too loose is whats causing you to be less than satisfied? Maybe she is prolapsed and in need of surgery to tighten things back up down there?  | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 5:51:11 AM | My GF was prolapsed.. trust me.. you would know as she would be complaining about pain and will have lost all interest in sex. I don't think prolapsed is what's going on.
OP.. I think your focus on her and her pleasure is wonderful. How very considerate of you. You need to get yours tho!! The loose can be helped with doing Kegels. At the very least she should be doing something, anything to make sure that you are as satisfied as she is. Unless you come clean with her and tell you aren't being satisfied, she won't know and can't *fix* it. I kind of equate this to women faking it... if your man isn't doing it for you, tell him, change things, do it yourself, whatever.. don't fake it so that he thinks he's the world's best lover if he really isn't.
Boils down to being able to talk about this with her. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 6:27:04 AM | Try anal.... You can get her off then when she finishs switch to anal to finish your self off it's alot tighter. Be honest with her about it.
As for buddy saying your to small, she is getting off so she don't care about the size.
P.S Don't be a jerk Simply.. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 6:35:27 AM | I must admit that I'm really tight. But when my partner gets me going, I get really wet. I have just asked him if I feel 'loose' when I get really wet and he said no, just slippy.
First thing, be honest with her. You have been together 2 years, so it should be easy to be honest. Ask her first if she wants anal, coz not everyone does!!!
Secondly, ask her to strengthen her pelvic muscles. Its so easy to do and no-one will know she is doing them. My partner can't believe how strong my muscles are. And he really enjoys it when I do the excercise with him inside me. That should strengthen her muscles and she won't feel 'loose' and you'll get more pleasure too. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 6:49:11 AM |
I must admit that I'm really tight. But when my partner gets me going, I get really wet. I have just asked him if I feel 'loose' when I get really wet and he said no, just slippy.
It is nice to see you are conciderate enough to ask which is more than some people do. What if the started using his hand to take up the slack and right before the money shot so to speak he lets go and with his hand and things happen. That way she does not get worn out and the guy does not have to go on for overtime. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 6:54:36 AM | Yeah i think this is a normal problem....when wetness and size of the cooch makes it hard to get enjoyment out of sex.
Advice : become the minute man ...get your before she gets hers and wets it up...lol
or just keep whiping your dick off. Another method is to just stop and let it dry up ...so then jump right back in.. it doesn't take long to dry up.
there nothing like finding a good woman and the sex sux's  | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 7:16:42 AM |
Advice : become the minute man ...get your before she gets hers and wets it up...lol
Entering to fast could hurt her for one . For two she might get wet from the for play or did we foreget all about that part and are that selfish be real. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 7:31:20 AM | OT I am glad some posters realise what they posted and go back and edit to make them crrect and speak fluent english . OT I appreciate a good woman that is having a good time and can get wet as some women have a problem and can't and would give there right arm for that problem.
It comes back to good communication and has nothing to do with quickies or she is not getting her fair share and the guy is . It is a 50- 50 situation . communication 101. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 7:36:59 AM | | At the point where she has had enough orgasms to be exhausted and like putty, it's mission accomplished. Game over. A generous woman might lend a hand or go down on you, but don't count on it. You may have to take matters into your own hand to reach your personal conclusion. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 7:52:34 AM |
I have read that achieving orgasm are the individuals responsibility and not to put that on your partner.
you WERE joking right? Where did you read that? Velvet Jones' Guide to Being a Ladies Man?
Fry | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 8:13:22 AM | She doesn't give you blow jobs?!?! That's usually satisfying! Hand jobs - anal - between her boobs - use your imagination! She could also wipe up as you go to absorb some wetness! Usually wet does not equal loose!! Perhaps she should have a bit of a check up and see if she can get things tightened!! Only you two can solve this - together - talk to her!!  | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 8:32:29 AM | I think women stick there finger in there coochie to determine if there tight or not but it really isn't the case. the first two to three inches is tight but what happens when we get to the back of you.
then the inital start of sex is nice and tight then it blows all out of proportion. Add the wetness and you have BAD PUszy problem also know as the BPP. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 8:40:26 AM |
She doesn't give you blow jobs?!?! That's usually satisfying! Hand jobs - anal - between her boobs - use your imagination! She could also wipe up as you go to absorb some wetness! Usually wet does not equal loose!!
I don't know how many women would agree to anal but I would go for everything else mentioned espcially between her boobs regardless of there size. Imagination is the key. That goes back to the brain being the best sex organ. If the woman is getting that wet things are really working, Why try to fix something that is not broken learn to capitalise on it. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 9:04:04 AM | What do I think? This reads like a tall, self-stroking Texan tale to me.
"Positions and angels don't help...she is that wet and lose.". Not sure that they were supposed to help us in such matters, but it can't hurt to pray. In the meantime, have her look up "kegals" and you buying her a waterproof BOB for when you need to rest after an hour or so. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 9:42:39 AM | | K-E-G-E-L-S--- tell her to do them religiously. You'll notice! | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 9:46:40 AM | Too wet .. humm .. I use to worry about that meself .. tend to drown my "victims" lol.. but have not had anyone say they did not get enjoyment or release lol.. I think "loose" is the key prob here .. kegal exercises will do wonders , and help hold u in besides.. .. Hot Da*n I want a man that will make me wet like that again lol.. opps what I saying ?! LMAO! This is a public forum! | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 11:29:50 AM | | Thanks all...will try suggesting the Kegel exercises. Was just wondering if anyone has run into the same thing.and what they did about it. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 12:24:55 PM | | well id say im always wet lolx | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 1:27:36 PM | | You can NEVER be too wet! Love it all wet and wetter the better. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 2:02:39 PM | | Let it fly babe and shower in him your sweet love juice! | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 3:59:44 PM | When it becomes that wet where the sensation is starting to be lost there are a couple of things you can do. For one slow down and do long strokes to dry your stick off a bit and don't stay under the cover where the are is super heated and humid from sweat and sex.
If that doesn't do it and this is seriously a problem for you turn a fan on in the room and have it blow in your direction while your using long strokes. It will dry your stick off quicker. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 5:19:00 PM | There are several things you can try. My Ex was like that at times. Won't say why...
But you could use a towel to help soak some of it up. Anal isn't a bad idea if your woman is into that. And another idea is possibly a shower. I know it sounds odd to add water in order to lessen water, but you'd be surprised how much friction being in a shower could be created.
If I remember anything else that I would do I'll get back to you. Its been way too many years since I've had an encounter with her and I am not going to call her up to get her to trigger any memories in that catagory.
Don't mind trying to help you get up some ideas.
Oh yeah, it interrupts the sex, but she could always go clean herself out and you could start over for another round. I've had to do a few of those things with my Ex. She had that wet issue at times.
And trust me its a lot better then when you go so long she dries up on you. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 5:22:49 PM | | There is an obvious response to your issues, but who am I to write it. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2007 7:26:23 PM |
K-E-G-E-L-S---
Exactly what I was going to say... | |
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