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 George1955NJ

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 1
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 3:14:13 PM
I was having lunch a few times and talking with a girl whom I met on POF. She has children but is single. I am married, but we took it to the next level and it was great. I was wondering what the next step would be. I suggested we have lunch again on a regular basis then have another romantic encounter. It was truly magical.
Comments? Ideas? Next Steps?
 AppleGeek

Joined: 9/26/2006
Msg: 2
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 4:41:15 PM
Let her meet someone she can have an actual relationship with?
 TheWorldIsMyPlayground

Joined: 4/5/2007
Msg: 3
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:08:56 PM
Try getting a divorce.
 EddieTheWhite

Joined: 4/9/2007
Msg: 4
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:24:42 PM
Maybe you should grow up and learn that marriage means that you stay true to your wife!
 ChaoticDreamer

Joined: 8/25/2006
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:25:43 PM
Try putting both of your hands together in front of you...then lean forward fast and choke yourself !!!!!!!!
 VenusOcean

Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 6
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:31:23 PM
^^^^Yes, what she said! Chaotic Dreamer hit it on the nail with that one.

Surely this is not a real question. If it is, you are on pathetic loser man!
And I must say this is the first time I got mad on a post. Which will be deleted in no time I am positive of that. It's just too ludicrous.

 blitzred_0

Joined: 4/5/2007
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:34:06 PM
the next step is saying forget my wife forget my family, screw me financially, plan out screwing up her kids life, and then probably breaking up with her when the fling is done u getting this man i aint the faithful type but realize where what your doing is going maybe you want out of your marriage it doenst mean u want her.
 maryrachelle

Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 8
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:54:01 PM
You are married!!!! That means the ONLY woman you date is your wife. Selfish pig!!!
 Jillian2006

Joined: 1/7/2006
Msg: 9
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 6:44:50 PM

I was having lunch a few times and talking with a girl whom I met on POF. She has children but is single. I am married, but we took it to the next level and it was great. I was wondering what the next step would be. I suggested we have lunch again on a regular basis then have another romantic encounter. It was truly magical.
Comments? Ideas? Next Steps?


Your next step should be to walk away. This woman is single, you, however, are not. Perhaps, you'd be further off by concentrating on trying for a romantic encounter with your wife.
 juzlookin35

Joined: 2/7/2006
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/14/2007 7:41:02 PM

Try putting both of your hands together in front of you...then lean forward fast and choke yourself


awesome answer ChaoticDreamer!
 Fly on the Wall

Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 11
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/15/2007 4:34:09 PM
Your profile says " I can be 100% loyal and attentive to your needs when we are together" ....why don't yopu try actually doing what you say and be loyal to your wife!

There is divorce, there is no reason, or excuse to cheat on a spouse! And you have the nerve to come here and ask what your next step is??? Your next step is to grow the f*ck up and gain some responsibility! Don't expect to get any pity here, the only ones here that sympathize with those who cheat are the cheaters themselves!

Get a divorce and let your wife move on and find someone who will actually be true to their word that they can be loyal! This is truelly pathetic.
 missdrei

Joined: 5/13/2007
Msg: 12
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/16/2007 5:30:00 PM
Yeah, agree w that one. How dare you come in here and ask such an idiotic question. Dude, why cheat???? If the love is gone, then move on... you are a selfish pig. Think about your children. I have been there and the outcome is not nice. Be faithful to your wife , kids and urself. Who r u kidding. And if she knew about your status, maybe u two deserve each other.
There is no excuse for what you have done. ITS NOT FAIR to your children. They are the ones that will suffer.
 funnygirl9380

Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 13
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/16/2007 7:16:09 PM
Go home to your extremely unlucky wife and grow up.
 haroldsjs

Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 14
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/24/2007 12:23:45 PM
To George1955NJ,

Your next step is precisley this; You don't take a next step! You tell your wife that you love her and that she is the most important person in this or in any life! Your next step should be to resign your membership in FISH and then seek therapy, and tell your wife you love her. But all the while, seek help!
 VenusOcean

Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 15
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/24/2007 3:30:07 PM

To George1955NJ,

Your next step is precisley this; You don't take a next step! You tell your wife that you love her and that she is the most important person in this or in any life! Your next step should be to resign your membership in FISH and then seek therapy, and tell your wife you love her. But all the while, seek help!


Psst!! haroldsjs....um...George has been gone for a while now...but good post
 wants2bcomfy

Joined: 10/9/2005
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 5/30/2007 10:28:58 AM
Why don't you tell the story to your wife, and ask her what the next step should be.
 Mia828

Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 17
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 6/1/2007 6:03:22 PM
^^^ I agree why don't you tell this story to your wife and ask her!
Jacka$$!!!
 a1969baby

Joined: 3/23/2007
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 6/2/2007 5:29:55 AM
LOL this guy should have known he would get tore up with this post by so many people. I'm sure POF either deleted his profile or he left because he got CAUGHT by his wife!!!!!!!
 Annapurna845

Joined: 6/8/2006
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 6/10/2007 8:39:57 AM
Get a DIVORCE! I wonder if your wife will be reading this thread!
 Reserved1948

Joined: 5/3/2007
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 6/11/2007 4:52:59 AM
repent. You took a vow to love and cherish your wife. What happens if you ditch your wife take up with the new fantastic girl and then another fantastic girl comes along? There could be no end to this folly.
 barbsbasic

Joined: 6/30/2007
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 7/5/2007 10:58:33 AM
GET SOME MORALS. GLAD THE GIRL WASN'T ME.
 climber52

Joined: 5/2/2007
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 7/5/2007 1:13:24 PM
Grow up & become a Man & stop making a bad name for the rest of us
 KimmieEMT0301

Joined: 10/15/2005
Msg: 23
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 7/21/2007 2:38:43 PM
could you be any more of a scum bag?? how DARE you cheat on your wife. didn't your wedding vows mean ANYTHING to you??? The interet dating systems are meant for singles, not scum like you who are married and looking for a fling. i hope to god i dont know you or your wife....boy would i let her in on a secret...

oh and to the woman your cheating with....did ya know he was married??? IF so way to be a homewrecker.....slut

To all the readers....sorry for being so blunt...but does anyone disagree with me??
 ChrisPerry

Joined: 7/20/2007
Msg: 24
I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 7/30/2007 8:01:09 PM
LOL. Is this a joke? It obvious what to do. Consult a divorce lawyer.
 SteveThePirate88

Joined: 7/13/2007
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I met a fantastic girl, saw her once, but I am married, what is my next step
Posted: 8/6/2007 7:06:26 PM
Poor, poor horsey. It's dead, and we're still beating it.
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