| | Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lightsPage 1 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | Well, I have a date set up for Fri. night with a pretty, little blonde. We go out once or twice a month. She is always a lot of fun, a little crazy and really, just a blast to be around. And....she is not exactly ummmmm shy.
She never does it at the wrong time or place but she enjoys flashing people to both get a laugh and a reaction out of them. Heck, she usually saves me the cover charge when we go to listen to a band. Out on the lake, better get the spf out cause she really likes saying hello to all the boaters!!! Took her snow skiing once. We were going up the chairlift and all of a sudden she is handing me her poles and ripping cloths off. There was a worker comming down the chairlift and boy did he ever have a smile on his face as he passed us!
So..... my question is a two parter. 1---- Do you ever flash anymore now that you are over 45??
2----How do you feel about being around people that do flash?
Your thought's? Be good, Jim | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 1:27:12 PM | Oh Lord, I can just see that.... me wheeling on down the sidewalk in town, flashing as I go. I think the people would be laughing!!! And that would be an "at me" laugh, by no means a "with me" and happy laugh!! The men in town would probably run home and be thankful for their wives! The sheriff would come out and VERY quickly push my wheels on into the jail too!  "Get her OFF the sidewalk, quick!"
Let me add.. no thanks, I don't want to be sent to the mental ward!!! | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 1:28:49 PM | Sounds juvenile to me... but that is just me.
Dated a woman a few years ago, at the time she was 53... every now and then she would flash me. But we were in the confines of either her place or mine. | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 1:35:34 PM | Me flash someone ?? ... at my age ?? ... Doesn't sound very environmentally-friendly to me. As to answering your second question ... unless there's a "flashitosis" disease that I don't know about, I've always thought of people that enjoyed this activity as people that sought attention. And I've always found that my conversation became a little thin rather quickly when talking to folks like that. To each their own ... just not for me, thanx.
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 1:49:19 PM | If she was a male we'd probably say someone should call the cops. Little children around. Sexuality is fine and dandy. Why not confine it private quarters.
There's perfectly good reasons to arrest those for indecent exposure. Sounds like a neurosis disorder. Or just plain stupidity.
What kind of medication is she on?
"She never does it at the wrong time or place but she enjoys flashing people to both get a laugh and a reaction out of them. Heck, she usually saves me the cover charge when we go to listen to a band. Out on the lake, better get the spf out cause she really likes saying hello to all the boaters!!! Took her snow skiing once. We were going up the chairlift and all of a sudden she is handing me her poles and ripping cloths off. There was a worker comming down the chairlift and boy did he ever have a smile on his face as he passed us! | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 2:20:43 PM | There's perfectly good reasons to arrest those for indecent exposure. Sounds like a neurosis disorder. Or just plain stupidity.
Actually, here in NY it is legal to be topless.
And from a Seinfeld episode------->and yes, they are spectacular!!!
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 2:33:13 PM | Sounds like you both get off on being in a drama zone.
Very high school. In need of attention.
You won't be seeing my bits hanging out for less than a million dollar donation to charity | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 3:34:22 PM | Yeh, I'm childish and immature, and possibly have some sort of neurosis that hasn't even been discovered yet. I did this a few years ago. There was a car involved and a moon roof and, well, alcohol. A group of us were returning from a night out. It was about two in the morning. And the car behind us had the rest of the group in it.
I also got a freakin ticket....improper riding. lol I had my seat belt off. The poor cop had trouble figuring out what to charge me with since I had a bra on, and told him it was my bathing suit top....that we were going hot tubbing.
Edit: And just to let you know, the blowing horn from my friend behind us was to warn me of the cop with the flashing blue lights, not to show appreciation for my mammary glands. And a tip...you can't see flashing blue lights when your shirt is over your head. | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 3:52:07 PM | OMG! This is too funny, I flashed someone this weekend. Before you ask, yep, I was sober as a judge, not sure what all this childish sh*t comes from. Why would it be considered childish? It was fun and even more fun when I saw his face, first shock, then amazed, then......well, it almost always has a good out come.
Why not leave a lasting impression as he is pulling out the drive, what the hell. Live and enjoy, brought a smile to both of us. | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 4:08:59 PM | | Flashing perfect strangers is totally weird to me. I never got the whole mooning concept either. I mean you are the one looking like the idiot...not the people you are mooning. Now if she was flashing you.....then I am totally up for that idea. | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 4:21:16 PM | OP, sounds like you need to get this blonde on the Jerry Springer Show.
She can get her Jerry Beads and its legal on there
Nope, can't see flashing after age 45, but some do it, lol | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 4:27:03 PM | I'm afraid the only place I would flash my headlights is in a bedroom with a man I care about , and if he cared to flash me back there, it would be fine with me
Flashing has nothing to do with physical age.
Topless is also legal in Ontario now as long as it's not for sexual purposes i.e hooking, the beaches are very popular in the summers for sightseekers | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 4:32:33 PM | sheez, if I flashed my breasts w/o a SUPPORT BRA, it may look like an avalanche or some other mess...someone would have to be holding them up from behind me, otherwise, I'd look like ma kettle! The only flashing I ever did was on the internet to friends anyways, I'd be embarrassed to do it in real life, but if someone else wants to do it, more power to 'em | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 5:05:12 PM | I can remember driving through the outskirts of Detroit in '69, one of nine 'band guys' in a Dodge Fargo window-van and filling every window, two sides and back with 'moons' -- nine lily-white butts, in the windows of a black window-van (name of the band plastered all over the van) driving through a completely black neighbourhood, nothing but gas stations and burger joints for as far as the eye could see. I wonder sometimes how I've managed to stay alive this long.
It was fine back then, but the shock that my bright white A. would bring to the world now is not the type of thing that I like to instill in others.
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 5:50:48 PM | And a tip...you can't see flashing blue lights when your shirt is over your head.
I cant believe no one else caught this one..... sure gave me a good laugh.
Hey CDN guy, you will like this one.... For a friends 40th B/day we rented a little shuttle bus for the night. Seats like 20 or so??? The requirement of attending the party was that you had to dress up as an old person and play the part for the whole night. So, theres about 30 or so of us all dressed in salvation army old folks clothes with canes and walkers and a few wheel chairs. Well, we are doing the bar hopping thing, riding in the van and a lot of our friends are cops so we are pretty much "bullet proof" for the night if you know what I mean....I am in the back of the van and mooning a car full of cops and all of a sudden the red lights come on and a spotlight from 2 cars back is on my backside. The bus driver pulls over and I figure, what the heck, the cop has me busted....what better time to run to the front of the bus and greet him, pants down of course!!! Thanks to my cop buddies, I didnt do a trip to the gray bar hotel that night and we all have a good story to tell.
And to HD super G
She is 47, 5'2, 110 lbs and has a VERY nice set ot Ta Ta's
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 5:53:06 PM | I think it would be too much trouble for me to try and flash someone. First I'd have to untuck them from my waistband and lift them out. Then I'd have to be careful that they didn't sway too much and accidently slap someone... could be quite embarassing!! lol | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/17/2007 7:35:42 PM | I've only 'flashed' one time ever in my whole life. It was when my marriage was going through a real rough patch, and the (now ex) hubby went to a neighbors to install a sump pump for her. She was 85 and had just lost her husband, and times were tight for her. He was in a real sour mood for a few days, and I was going to try for the shock factor and get (I hoped) a laugh out of him so life could get back to normal. Houses are farrrrrr apart out in the country, and although it was hard to see that far to her house,I saw him get into the truck and start down the driveway. The garage door was down, so I go out there and as I'm standing there with my shirt up I hear the garage door on it's way going up. I had a stupid grin plastered on my face. As the door got up far enough so I could see into the truck, there next to the hubby was 85 year old Gertrude with her eyes wide as saucers and her mouth hanging down on her chest. Clearly I had shocked her, her face was redder than the proverbial beet.
He was SO ticked off at me, lol. After he left, Gerty & I were talking and laughing our butts off. She told me that she thought that that was a really wonderful thing to do to keep a hubby happy. Gertie & I laughed about that all summer. Hubby, however, stayed irate about it for weeks, even though he saw the same thing each & every weekend when he went to the bike swap meets. (Go figure?!) Like I said, it was the only time I ever did something like that. Don't really ever plan on doing it again, lol. | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/18/2007 11:21:21 AM | | I see nothing wrong with flashing. It is a way of flirting. I would be flattered if a woman flashed me, especially if I thought she was attracted to me. I have never been flashed, so now I'm feeling cheated ;) | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/18/2007 1:23:45 PM | | Have to agree with messages 3 and 4...fairly juvenile, IMO...And regardless of the fact that women can go topless in NY state now, flashing isn't considered going topless...the law states that nothing 'suggestive' can be done if a woman is going topless, or she can be arrested. | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/18/2007 2:15:45 PM |
the law states that nothing 'suggestive' can be done if a woman is going topless, or she can be arrested.
Now that's a law that's just begging to be challenged. I assume that means if a woman massages her breasts, or nipples, she can be arrested. Are they going to apply the same to a man? I don't think so. And I'd think they'd have a hard time proving that "flashing" is suggestive with the new law. Is it suggestive when a man pulls his shirt up? | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/18/2007 2:29:38 PM | You wrote -- "And I'd think they'd have a hard time proving that "flashing" is suggestive with the new law. Is it suggestive when a man pulls his shirt up?"
The Hooters Club spokesperson has just entered the buidling. What nonsense. A man with his shirt off isn't going to offend...androgeny, indeed...
Clearly I had shocked her, her face was redder than the proverbial beet.
He was SO ticked off at me, lol. After he left, Gerty & I were talking and laughing our butts off. She told me that she thought that that was a really wonderful thing to do to keep a hubby happy. Gertie & I laughed about that all summer. Hubby, however, stayed irate about it for weeks, even though he saw | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/18/2007 5:25:50 PM | The Hooters Club spokesperson has just entered the buidling. What nonsense. A man with his shirt off isn't going to offend...androgeny, indeed...
napjoe.....obviously, you have never seen a fat guy shirtless with a big ol set of man boobs!!!!
Be good, Jim | |
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| Flashing....and I am not talking about yellow lights Posted: 5/19/2007 5:34:41 AM | Have to agree with messages 3 and 4...fairly juvenile
From a woman who, in her profile is dressed up as Little Bo Peep.....
Dont worry pro, would still like to have a with ya!
Be good, Jim | |
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