| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 6:53:04 AM | I met a girl last year . Lovely girl, very very short and after a few days I sussed out that she was a borderline midget, she concealed it very well regarding her attire (short and stubby muscular leggies and little arms, toned up like those of a gymnast, but shorter) I have an open mind, thought it through and I was getting over it and seeing beyond it and really getting to like her until I sussed out one night that she had a "tail" as well, seriously! A little protrusion of extra bones at the base of her spine that she could kinda wiggle, can you imagine how freaky that was ? I just had to make my excuses and finish it, but, I could not be honest with her and tell her about the midget and tail thing........am I small minded ? I had to get it off my chest.......I cannot date a midget with a tail.........sorry ! Anyone else got any similar stories ?
I have nothing against midgets, dwarves or those that see themselves as such, so, apologies if anyone takes offence, it was not my intention. | |
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tdh46
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:02:55 AM | My apology Op i misread your opening thread.
I don't believe you should mention your reason for not wanting to see her again. I am sure she had heard it before, no point in rubbing salt into her wound.
But i do think writing a thread about this can be looked at as insensitive towards someone less fortunate. the poor girl can't really help the way she was born. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:06:13 AM | | Duly noted, but, would you date a midget with a tail ? Seriously ! That is why I posted this thread, I want to hear from you people. I felt terrible about it but it grossed me out ! I have a strong stomach......but a tail ! Noooooooo ! | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:09:24 AM | | Well i guess you can't really help what attracts you and what doesn't . A tail might freak me out too ?You should really be honest with her about it ,but not mean . Sometimes people mistake brutal honesty for something good.A little diplomacy goes a long way. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:11:05 AM | ...strange, strange post. err. tdh46's response was kinda harsh...maybe it's because it's difficult to tell whether or not you are teasing or making fun of this ladyfriend of yours....I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. No I wouldn't say you are small minded. You like what you like and your turn offs are your turn offs. I hope you let her off easy though. No need to hurt anybody's feelings. weird thread. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:14:35 AM | you shouldnt be "wagging" off telling the tale of this tale, without getting to the bottom of it first!!
im sorry..I couldnt resist, but I made it short and sweet.
OMG squirrly..You freaken kill me...LMAO | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:16:32 AM | | how the heck does someone "conceal" that they are a midget? You were obviously attracted to her to begin with so how can you "finding out" shes a midget change your mind. I mean either she is or she isnt the size she is. The wiggly tail sounds kinda fun. You would know when she was happy, at least. Did you ever see that movie "Shallow Hal"? I think you might relate to some parts of it. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:20:11 AM | ^^^^High heels and a long skirt !
"The wiggly tail sounds kinda fun" ...ahm.....ok !
Re: PROLIBERTATE: Intimacy was not mentioned, neither was sex........Jeez !
"If you got naked with her, then either you liked her enough to do that, or you were horny and wanted to get laid...so if you liked her and let that bother you, or you were horny but then it freaked you out (even though you 'finished') then now, you're not such a nice guy. I also have to wonder if you saw how small she was and got the male fantasy of 'gee I wonder how small everything is" ......... wow ! Quite an imagination you got there ! | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:31:51 AM | OP, I have to agree with tdh46...if you 'sussed' this out while being intimate with her...and finished even though it bothered you...then I don't know that small-minded is the correct term exactly; but you're not very nice, IMO. You 'sussed' she was a midget; she never told you...yet perhaps the people in her family are all fairly short...If you got naked with her, then either you liked her enough to do that, or you were horny and wanted to get laid...so if you liked her and let that bother you, or you were horny but then it freaked you out (even though you 'finished') then now, you're not such a nice guy. I also have to wonder if you saw how small she was and got the male fantasy of 'gee I wonder how small everything is' BTW, we all have the remnants of a tail; I wouldn't be surprised that hers was more prominent simply because of her size and genetics. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 7:43:23 AM | | Funny how people read posts differently. He never mentioned sex and even said that as a follow up. I just read when he said that he "finished" it that he meant finished seeing her....as in told her he didn't want to pursue a relationship. Its not all about sex folks. Oh wait.....maybe it is. LOL If you read these forums enough. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 9:17:31 AM | ^^^
I'll second that...wait, nope....a tail can be removed surgically. IF the person can afford it. Hell, I don't even want to mention what it cost to get my removed...got to the point where the back hair wouldn't hide them anymore...
Cheers! | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 9:22:39 AM | I am curious to know just how the Op found out about this tail, if is was not when the poor girl had her clothe off?. I really can't see her just telling the op about it in casual conversation.
OP how did you find out about this tail? was it while getting some tail? | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 9:27:39 AM | This thread is like all the others. It's just an excuse for small-minded and petty people.
You're talking about my ex. According to Wikipedia, a midget is 4ft 10in or under, and she is 4ft 9in. She is very, very sexy, and her husband is crazy about her.
But if it's a problem for you at 6ft dating anyone small, STOP DATING SMALL GIRLS! Start dating above 5ft 6in, at least. I see a lot of posts from small guys complaining the taller guys are dating all the smaller girls, and the taller girls want to date someone taller than her.
As far as the tail, most people have some physical, mental, or emotional problems.
Sounds like you have a hangup. If she was so lovely, you could have overlooked it. Move on, and find a model, if she'll have you. Which she probably won't. She's probably friends with this woman, and won't touch you with a bargepole.
Why don't you introduce her to POF instead, so that someone who knows how to treat a lady can show her what a great guy is really like? | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 9:29:02 AM | ^^^So much hostility !!!!!........."You're talking about my ex", how dare you make such a stupid presumption, you sad little man, go and kneel in the corner, facing the corner !
Re: tdh46: One sweltering night/ evening (in Italy) we were lying by the pool on sun loungers chatting. She was on her belly and I noticed a "lump" protruding from the base of her spine. She noticed that I noticed, quickly gave it a little "wag" followed by a wink...... I jumped and she laughed, I was in shock for days......... | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 9:40:01 AM |
^^One sweltering night/ evening (in Italy) we were lying by the pool on sun loungers chatting. She was on her belly and I noticed a "lump" protruding from the base of her spine. She noticed that I noticed, quickly gave it a little "wag" followed by a wink...... I jumped and she laughed, I was in shock for days......... I think that sounds funny, it must be pretty cool to be able to do that. I would have been laughing so much if I had been you. Are you sure you weren't just jealous?! Human bodies are pretty weird things when you look at them: having a tail is more unusual than having knobbly knees and way more funny. I'm agreeing with squirrly and scorpiomover. She was cool, you were not. Kudos to the girl with the tail, who managed to conceal from you the fact that she was a midget!! I wonder how she felt about going out with a troll who would make derogatory comments about her physical appearance in order to get some attention. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 9:44:39 AM | Scorpio,
Just for grins and giggles, I did a search. Being 6'3" I searched my normal search but modified it and started at my exact heighth.
No results
6'2"
No results
6'1"
No results
6'0"
No results
5'11
No results
5'10"
No results
5'9"
Five results
So yeah buddy, we tall guys are just coming in and snatching all the "short" women away. There is no dating site called www.dateatallamazon.com so we have to come to POF... | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 9:45:35 AM |
Re: tdh46: One sweltering night/ evening (in Italy) we were lying by the pool on sun loungers chatting. She was on her belly and I noticed a "lump" protruding from the base of her spine. She noticed that I noticed, quickly gave it a little "wag" followed by a wink...... I jumped and she laughed, I was in shock for days.........
Have to agree with rune3 on this one...so she had a little 'tail' she could move on her backside...that doesn't make her any less than who she was when you were first interested in her. Now, if she was a male masquerading as a female, then you might have a leg to stand on. Did you ever think that just maybe she felt funny about it, either earlier in life or still, and tried to use humor to defuse things...and maybe you reacted just like other guys had reacted in the past. Ah well, better *she* found out sooner rather than later. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 9:54:28 AM | LMA >>>>>> PHUCKING >>>>>>> O
Phew.
Ok. I got it back together again. I can't believe this shyt. Come on man, please tell me this is a joke.
And just in case this post is real? It STRONGLY proves that god does in fact have a hilarious sense of humor.
Oh my god, I can't breathe.
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 10:02:56 AM | She was on her belly and I noticed a "lump" protruding from the base of her spine. She noticed that I noticed, quickly gave it a little "wag" followed by a wink...... I jumped and she laughed, I was in shock for days.........
methinks the OP is having a little joke at our expense. Since a so-called "tail" on a human being is just usually an extension of the vertebrae....it is impossible that it can "wag". Unless he had had too many Mai Tais that day in the sun and his active imagination took over. | |
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| Midgets with tails, am I small minded ? Posted: 5/21/2007 10:14:43 AM |
^^^So much hostility !!!!!........."You're talking about my ex", how dare you make such a stupid presumption, you sad little man, go and kneel in the corner, facing the corner !
Just think you could have told her that in role playing and watched her tail wiggle too!! | |
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