| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/22/2007 8:35:16 PM | | Men are their women who you think are so beautiful that you would be wasting your time if you asked them out? Women do you feel sometimes men avoid you because they are intimidated? Any answers to help each other out or personal experiences? | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/22/2007 8:43:30 PM | | Freebird, it probably happens ... but what a waste!! There are women looking for brains & personality ... a sense of humor and confidence. If I were beautiful, that would knock me over!!! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/22/2007 10:09:04 PM | Every so often, I meet a woman that is so special, so beautiful in my eyes, that I am truly mesmerised. I cannot speak in her presence, my knees go weak, my stomach is in knots, and I can barely stand to look at her. Just to be around her makes my day!
The funny thing is, it's always the girl that other people don't reckon is all that.
Love is amazing! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/22/2007 10:43:04 PM | | On line men are not shy. Probably because they can say whatever they want to say without worrying about anything....but out in the real world (in person, that is) I think most men do avoid approaching women. Good thing I dont have a problem going up to people to talk! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/22/2007 10:53:33 PM | | Not me. I talk to anyone and everyone. I'll strike up a conversation with anybody, and if she's a super hot chick you can usually tell right away if she's stuck on herself, at that point I politely excuse myself or say nice talking to you, leaving her conceded subconscience mind wondering "how dare him NOT ask me for my number so I didn't have the chance to shoot him down".....LOL | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/22/2007 10:55:03 PM | Men and women can both be intimadated to ask an attractive person out if the man or women in question has low self esteem.
I know people, including myself that can attest to this.
It's not uncommon. | |
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| When a Person is so beautiful you can't approach her/him
Posted: 5/23/2007 12:00:09 AM | Heaven forbid that I'm shy or have low self-esteem.  It tain't in my genes.  I'll talk to anyone, anywhere, on any subject.
BUT it has happened that I've been dumb-struck.
It happened in a small town in west Alabama, where I had stopped in a small town's local grocer to grab a Dr. Pepper. I turned around and this beautiful, young angelic vision with a halo of red hair and wearing a sun dress came in the screened door.
Oh!
My!
God!
I was rooted to the spot, couldn't talk let alone breathe.  She walked by me, going to the same cooler for her Coke and I couldn't even turn my head to watch her walk past me. I literally froze, afraid I would wake & like a phantom, she would disappear.
My heart ached. She walked back past me to the counter. Upon giving the old man proper change, she smiled a shy smile at me and walked out. And I still couldn't move. Not until she drove off in a beat-up pickup, did I even dare to speak. As I stumbled to the register, the old man chuckled at the look on my face. "Yes, she's real. Granddaughter of old woman Parker and no, I won't tell you where."
I left out of there, my heart still aches to this day of something so lovely and elusive that I shall never see again.  But that is Life and I've vowed to never let such a situation ever slip past me again.
Faint heart never won fair maid.
Go with God & do good things, 
-TennesseeLine | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/23/2007 8:27:46 AM | why would you be wasting your time-
Just because she is beautiful does not mean anything.
You know you are going to hear "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
like a million times here now - but it is true - what you find beautiful
others may not-Thats how you feel - give her a chance.
Do I feel men avoid me because they are intimidated -
maybe by my personality - but I dont think my looks -
Oh shit- who am I kidding- I never have dates- LOL!!!
I think its just me- | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/23/2007 8:38:13 AM | I don't think i'm beautiful much less beautiful beyond approach but I will say my whole life I see people falling all over other people and hearing stories about having drinks sent to someone's table from a guy .. this has never happened to me .. no one has ever come on to me (in real life) or given me a line .. I have often wondered if I'm invisible or something .. it makes me insecure .. well I should say I'm insecure or shy by nature and this really intensifies it .. at this point if someone actually approached me in real life .. I don't know what I'd do .. probably just pass out or something .. and so it goes
As far as seeing a man I think is attractive or interesting .. I assume he's taken for one .. then if he's not I wonder why .. lol .. it's a battle .. the older I get I look back and think .."if I knew then what I know now" .. I'm sure when I am older I will say the same thing about this too .. throw caution to the wind and pretend you're prince charming .. the worst she can do is .. pass out  | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/23/2007 8:43:41 AM | I used to have that outlook until one day I just decided to approach someone and see what happened...and was successful. If you never try then you'll never find out and you could be missing out on a hell of alot of fun!! Don't get me wrong, there are alot that just tell you to get stuffed etc but from time to time you come across the odd one that doesn't | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/23/2007 8:57:57 AM | I get stared at, hollered at, whistled at, flirted with and complimented almost on a daily basis. Approached seriously or asked out? Rarely!
Guys, never assume that an attractive woman is taken or that asking her out would be a waste of time. Big mistake. Think of all the guys who assume this. Add to that the guys who are too intimidated to talk to a woman like this. With all of these other guys out of the picture, your chances of getting her number are far greater. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/23/2007 9:06:06 AM |
Freebird, it probably happens ... but what a waste!! There are women looking for brains & personality ... a sense of humor and confidence. If I were beautiful, that would knock me over!!!
LJMK45 Have you looked in the mirror lately, darlin........ you are GORGEOUS not to mention classy. Look at this beauty gentlemen... and she's a sharp cookie as well.
To the OP I have heard stories about that before...... "She was so beautiful, I just couldn't talk to her".......... That indeed is a crying shame. Always remember she puts her panties on the same way as everyone else. ONE LEG AT A TIME. Unless of course she's goin commando, LOL. She could either be a total b!tch or the nicest woman you ever met. How do you know until you try. Beauty is only skin deep gentlemen, ugly is to the bone. Don't be silly gentlemen, talk to these women. Chances are they go through a lot of that anyway.
Stevie's got it RIGHT!!!
:))
Witchy | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/23/2007 3:42:31 PM | | Well, even though I'm shy about approaching woman, I am not shy when it comes to women approaching me. So, there you go all you beautiful ladies on here. All is not lost. You can find someone even though you may have to initiate. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 8:57:10 AM | "I get stared at, hollered at, whistled at, flirted with and complimented almost on a daily basis. Approached seriously or asked out? Rarely!
Guys, never assume that an attractive woman is taken or that asking her out would be a waste of time. Big mistake. Think of all the guys who assume this. Add to that the guys who are too intimidated to talk to a woman like this. With all of these other guys out of the picture, your chances of getting her number are far greater."
SO DAMN TRUE PIQUEBU! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 9:06:49 AM | Just follow the old public speaking advice of, when you're nervous, picture the audience in their underwear.
OK, wait a second! Beautiful woman...picture her in her underwear...
Nevermind. That won't work. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 9:08:07 AM | I have been guilty of not contacting someone thinking he was just too damn pretty but usually it's a combination of things. He's hot and younger or has 83 friends on his list etc. I don't think anyone has not contacted me because they thought I was too pretty though, at least I hope not.
C~ | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 2:30:07 PM | | You know, that happens a lot. You're in the bar, with some friends. You see a girl who is just a total knockout. And immediately the thoughts run in your head. "I'm not in her league...she wouldn't like me...she probably prefers the tall, athletic guys..." etc. This all before you even say hi, if you get that far. It's one thing that troubles me so. I've heard, often and all, you see shows or listen to radio that has attractive women on, and they say they never get hit on, because they intimidate people with their looks. I don't know how much of this is true, but I guess that is why I'm still single. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 2:42:42 PM | I have no fear in asking men or women out.
If I like someone, I let them know it!
I have had people tell me that I look uneasy to approach.
I believe I intimidate people.. but it's the fierce, strong men and women that come up to me and say something that make them worth checking out. | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 3:42:12 PM | LJMK45, your right, there are beautiful women looking for brains, personality, humor, and confidence.... as long as it comes packaged in tall, dark, and handsome...  by the way... you are beautiful..
pinkytoes, because , it usually is a waste of time, your own profile headline asks for your "handsome brute" not your kind, funny, smart, brute... and the first thing you talk about is your own beauty, ... the fact is most beautiful women choose there men, like they choose there clothes.... whatever looks cute on her when she goes out.... most guys know this, and unless they consider themselves very good looking, or like playing the laws of averages, they will look at her pic, smile, and move on.
Its kind of ironic really, but beautiful women's, worst enemy is there own beauty, when it comes to finding a true love, either they are too concerned with finding somenone tall, and very good looking, which limits there options severely, because most of us are not tall, and very good looking, or the men they do find only want them for there looks, and dont see whos inside....  | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 4:33:53 PM | | You took the words right out of my mouth! I get notices that I have 'new matches' and some of the men I've seen are really good looking, educated, and seem successful. Maybe it's a self-esteem issue that I'm reluctant to approach them. I'm reluctant to approach a man, PERIOD. I've had men tell me that they didn't think that I would be interested in them. In fact, that's exactly what my ex husband told me his reason was for not asking me out! LOL....anyway, there are people that have viewed me, and I've viewed them and then they view me again, and I view them again, and neither one of us has made the first move. Life is a crapshoot, and a lot of people have been burned and are terrified of it happening to them again. Soooo....the best you can do if you see someone you may be interested in is to start with 'Hello, I liked your pic and your profile and I'd like to get to know you.' You've got nothing to lose. Let me know how that works for you and maybe I'll give it a try myself! LMAO! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 4:44:43 PM | | Do you ever wonder when you see a beautiful woman with a short, bald, not goodlooking guy and wonder how that happened? Men are intimidated by beautiful women so the only guys that's gonna talk to her are the AZZEZ.. so, when a nice guy finally makes a move she is thrilled that a nice guy finally shows up! | |
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| When a woman is so beautiful you can't approach her.
Posted: 5/24/2007 4:48:37 PM | A long time ago I put someone on a pedestal so high I was convinced I could not reach her.
Our lives took different paths and I eventually learned she was interested in me.
I sometimes give in and think about it to this day and it really bothers me.
I wish I had a time machine. | |
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