| | new girl in companyPage 1 of 2 (1, 2) | | I work in a company..There is a new girl there who has been there for a few days.. I think that she is wow.. We get on but I am at least 12/13years older than her.. I think she is 22.. Am I wasting my time or is the age gap okay???.. i look younger so I dont think that she fully nows the age gap is so great.. | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 4:43:53 PM | It's up to you and her. My soon to be Ex scooped me up at 30 when she was 43 same gap there. I'm only pissed because it didn't work out so now I can say "Dirty old woman what was she thinking..." Bitter Nooooooooo who me hehehe.
Kevin | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 4:44:26 PM | | Never dip your pen in the company ink. That's what I've always heard and it makes sense to me. | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 4:46:18 PM | Don't worry about the age thing...
Dating a co worker is always the best thing someone can do...
But maybe you should concentrate on someone a little closer to your age as it seems she came there to work and not get hit on... | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 4:47:33 PM | | I dont care about the company thing but I like her and I dont want a rejection. She is younger by at least 12/13 years but it could be more... | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 4:57:41 PM | | This post is Bullsh*t. Your profile says you own your own company. You are lying somewhere......... | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 5:41:16 PM |
I dont care about the company thing but I like her and I dont want a rejection. She is younger by at least 12/13 years but it could be more...
This says it all.. you're a ch*ckensh*t being worried about rejection. Are you serious??? I can't say something cause she might reject me... ohhhhh booo friken hooooo.
Grow up, get a spine and you MIGHT deserve to date someone. Act like a child and you should be alone.
Bluezzz | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 5:45:10 PM | | She'll think you're a dirty old man - girls that young, want someone that young!! She probably gets hit on all the time and she will be turned off if you hit on her!! However with that said if ya wanna go for it - try being her friend first and impress her by just being you - not another guy hitting on her!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 6:11:05 PM |
I dont care about the company thing but I like her and I dont want a rejection. She is younger by at least 12/13 years but it could be more...
Yep...
This post is Bullsh*t. Your profile says you own your own company. You are lying somewhere......... You also state that you're 32! If she was 12-13 years younger... that would make her 19 or 20 years old...not 22
I have to agree with ttawny... there something wrong here.... | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 6:20:59 PM | His profile also says that he wants a woman aged 25 - 32 and is especially into older women, yet he says he is 32..
I think the profile is probably set up to impress women by saying he has his own company (which shows he doesnt know WOMEN very well, GIRLS maybe, because women dont care about whether a man owns his own company or not) yet he doesnt realise that his profile will show his latest posts on the forum..
If he does own this company yet says he doesnt care about it....
Anyway, dont shag someone you work with, its silly and potentially disasterous for all people involved. | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 6:25:29 PM |
You also state that you're 32! If she was 12-13 years younger... that would make her 19 or 20 years old...not 22
Not only that, but wants an older woman as well??
For long term want woman around 25 to 32..Especially interested in beautiful older women but must be good looking and fit and be sure of what they want.
Straight from your profile dude, so which is it? Are you sure of what you want? | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 6:46:17 PM | | I'm older than you and most ladies that ask me out are in her age bracket. Be nice to her, treat her like a lady, be friendly and open, then see what happens. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 4:16:35 PM | | Didnt pay alot of attention to my profile as just use this site for advice.. I didnt plan her to only be 21/22..wish she was older sure but that is the way it is... | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 4:22:28 PM | | You're wasting your time. She's not even interested in men. she's a career woman. She doesn't care about you. Move on.You're wasting your time. She's not even interested in men. she's a career woman. She doesn't care about you. Move on.You're wasting your time. She's not even interested in men. she's a career woman. She doesn't care about you. Move on.You're wasting your time. She's not even interested in men. she's a career woman. She doesn't care about you. Move on.You're wasting your time. She's not even interested in men. she's a career woman. She doesn't care about you. Move on. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 5:00:21 PM | Gotta agree with a lot of the previous posters...this dude is contradicting himself left and right. Wouldn't waste my time with advice!  | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 5:14:09 PM | when I was 22.... anyone over 26 that tried to hit on me freaked me out and I thought was super creepy. If I worked with someone that was 12 years older I would just want to get along with my co-worker.... not get asked out.
In several ways, I think it's a bad idea. Just a thought. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 5:22:05 PM | | How would you be "wasting your time"??? You ask her out she either agrees, or she doesn't......? | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 11:02:12 PM | | ^he's wasting his time and emotions thinking about this broad. She doesn't want to deliver what he wants to recieve and that is why he's wasting his time.^he's wasting his time and emotions thinking about this broad. She doesn't want to deliver what he wants to recieve and that is why he's wasting his time.^he's wasting his time and emotions thinking about this broad. She doesn't want to deliver what he wants to recieve and that is why he's wasting his time. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2007 11:13:46 PM | | Personally i dont think the age gap is a big deal, once you are an adult you can choose what is best for you. However, i believe dating someone you work with is not a good idea. Been there done that, it made work a little awkward for me since i saw her many times a day. This is just me but i am there to work. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2007 4:51:45 AM |
he's wasting his time and emotions thinking about this broad. She doesn't want to deliver what he wants to recieve and that is why he's wasting his time
not sure what's up with the repeat sentences but it's irritating as hell... and childish.
OT: Nowhere has the OP said "she doesn't want to deliver what he wants" YOU are assuming that....
OP: I repeat MY question... Why would it be considered a waste of time if you haven't even asked her out yet?? | |
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Posted: 5/30/2007 4:57:43 AM | I agree with Floydian Fun...."never dip your pen into the company ink well"
And can you say..."SEXUAL HARRASMENT"
Just my oppinion | |
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Posted: 5/30/2007 6:35:08 AM | I teach a course in professional ethics for students just entering the working world. One of the first things I put in my presentation is a section on "office romances."
I am assuming when you use the word "company" as your place of employment you are talking about a professional orginization and not the local fast food place. If that is the case I would like to offer a couple of observations....
1) Your work mates will stop talking to you because they're no longer sure whose side you're on.
2) If you are in any sort of supervisory role, no one will believe you when you say you don't have any influence over him/her
3) Prepare to be ignored and overlooked for promotion
4) Expect to hear rumors about yourself that plainly aren't true
5) Wrath of jilted party
Another quick observation...you say you are in your early thirties. To be quite honest, your sentences remind me of a high school student. Try to act professional!! | |
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Posted: 5/30/2007 7:06:33 AM | | Dont poke the payroll**** However, I'm sure if you told her that you had posted your dilemma on an internet dating site for everyone to read, she's bound to be impressed and agree to go out with you......cough....! | |
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Posted: 5/30/2007 7:15:54 AM | Just give her a 'playful' slap on the Bottom next time she's bending over the photocopier.And if she doesn't knock you out,or call the Police then she might be just the slut you had hoped.
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