KLD22
| | Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 1 | |
| | Spanking - What's the deal?Page 1 of 11 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11) | | Could someone please explain to me what the sexual pleasure people recieve in spanking? I've had my ass slapped and it does absolutely nothing for me but sting. Where does the sexual pleasure come from? What are your views on spanking please! | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 5/30/2007 11:07:08 AM | I am sorry you don't enjoy it but god it is awesome also hair pulling is really good to.
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KLD22
| | Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 4 | |
| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 5/30/2007 11:09:32 AM | | what is it exactly that you find arousing? I wanna play too!! But I just don't get it! | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 5/30/2007 11:24:49 AM | i love love love being spanked  i like all things like that, hair pulling, light choking....when the moods right mind you...
but then i also like the slow mo sex....where you can feel every movement...mmmm....gotta go call my b/f now....... | |
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Avow
| | Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 6 | |
| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 5/30/2007 11:33:49 AM |
I've had my ass slapped and it does absolutely nothing for me but sting. Where does the sexual pleasure come from?
Perhaps the spanker needs a lesson?
A Sexual Spanking: can be fun with consent of course... ..
A good spanking also requires rubbing and squeezing the butt cheeks and gently rubbing sensitive areas in other places like between the legs. By the time the spanking is done, you should be aroused, if done right your butt should be fairly hot, stinging or slightly tingling .
However, there should never be bruises or marks. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2007 11:34:06 AM | Ok.. for me it hasn't been about sexual arousal, but more sensations. During the spanking, I agree.. it does hurt. What I enjoy is the aftermath. Having fingertips run lightly over the red and swollen skin sends an entirely different sent of sensations than when done on unpunished flesh. The day after.. with every little movement I was reminded of the night before where not only did I get a good a$$ smacking, but I was made love to tenderly.
Everyone's different tho.. | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 5/30/2007 11:41:31 AM | | It's a proven fact that a little pain can increase the pleasure. I personally don't get into pain, either giving or receiving, but have had that "it-hurts-so-good" feeling on a part of my anotomy, during orgasm that increased the intensity! | |
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Karen5
| | Joined: 4/11/2007
Msg: 11 | |
| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 5/30/2007 12:16:05 PM | | OP, it does nothing for me either. Neither does having my hair pulled. But, I've had partners that enjoyed doing it to me, so I'd tolerate it because I knew it gave them some kind of pleasure (I've never been the spanker - always the spankee). They knew that it wasn't my thing and none of them hurt me - so, basically, it was just a neutral thing for me. | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 6/30/2007 7:49:50 PM | | it depends on preference personally i love being spanked its the stigning feeling on my bottom i like and the heat afterwards with hair pulling ok lol ill stop there but some females really love it | |
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Posted: 6/30/2007 8:21:13 PM | | OOOOOOOh yea spanking is fun during the act... before hand not so much. I like that and hair pulling. Yummy! | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 6/30/2007 8:26:43 PM | | I don't mind it as long as I'm not asked to spank a saggy but...... not a pretty sight | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 6/30/2007 8:41:45 PM | | kld, You're obviously not in touch w/ your 'inner bad girl' or you'd 'get it'. Did the guy say, "Giddy-up"when he spanked you? | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 6/30/2007 8:44:19 PM | It's the sensation of the initial smack and the empowerment of the man doing so that i find turns me on.. and as for pullin my hair.. OMG i love my hair played with.. so a tug of the locks will send me threw the roof! so long as it's not too too hard   | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 6/30/2007 10:40:01 PM | Too funny........ L M A O only at myself though
yeah, its kinda nice ... no further comment | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 6/30/2007 11:39:26 PM | A guy has to know how to do it in order for it to be erotic for a woman, he just can't stand up and slap your ass...He's got to get a good feel of how you're shaped, cup the hand ever so slightly, and spank...if he does it right, it doesn't sting...but it send shock waves through your butt and into your ****...oh yeah, I can't say ****...
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 6/30/2007 11:42:22 PM | The pleasure comes from the passion and excitement part of it a as you are having sex and I think it's very erotic. I enjoy it.  | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/1/2007 4:52:46 AM | | OK all you ladies who love to be spanked ..... does your partner let you spank him? | |
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| Spanking - What's the deal?
Posted: 7/1/2007 8:50:19 AM | Choking??? What the...? Maybe I just have trust issues... Spanking and a firm hair holding in a doggie position is ok. But I dunno about choking.
huh? First Husband?, Second Husband?... Wha..? I only have an ex husband and we don't sleep together anymore, Are we allowed to collect them? | |
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